Q. May I, as a Catholic, be ordained online to officiate at my best friend’s wedding?
A. No. Ordination in another Christian denomination, or in any religious or “church” group, is not appropriate or permissible for Catholics, no matter the reason. Ordination in another religious group implies separation from the Catholic Church, and, in some cases, makes light of the serious and real effects of sacred ordination in the Catholic Church. Becoming an “online minister” in order to celebrate a wedding is disrespectful of Jesus Christ and his Church, even if it is done tongue-in-cheek, or for the sake of celebrating a wedding.
Some lay Catholics are authorized by the state to officiate at weddings—judges, for example. Such lay Catholics can witness the marriages of non-Catholics, presuming there are no obvious reasons why such a marriage would be invalid. Catholics, though, are bound by “canonical form”—Catholic matrimonial law, and so are ordinarily required to be married in a Catholic Church, in a ceremony witnessed by a priest or deacon. A Catholic should not officiate at the marriages of Catholics in a civil context. And, of course, no matter the context, Catholics should remember that marriage takes place only between one man and one woman, who intend to commit for life, who are not already married, and who will be open to children, and who will the good of their spouse.
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