When renovating our new St. Joseph Center located at 23rd and O streets in Lincoln, it was important to us to have a chapel with the Blessed Sacrament accessible to the general public. Those who have visited us know this beautiful chapel named after our patron St. Joseph is front and center with a door just off our waiting room.
Recently, I greeted a homeless man I see from time to time as he was warming himself in our lobby. He looked like the Michelin man because of the multiple layers he was wearing. After saying hello I asked, "Where are you sleeping?" He replied, "Oh, here and there." He is one of those in the city who refuses to stay at any kind of shelter. Since we give bread away daily, I seem to see him more frequently.
After giving him some additional items including food that he could easily carry, I asked, "Would you like to visit Jesus?" He eagerly followed me into the chapel. Knowing he is a lifelong Catholic, I had a hunch he would appreciate it even more. I was right.
After entering, he asked in a loud voice, "How long has this been here?" I explained we have had this beautiful chapel since the beginning. Concerned about leaving his bags unattended, which represents all of his earthly belongings, he promptly returned to the lobby, grabbed his bags and returned to the chapel for an extended visit. As I left him, I explained he was welcome any time to visit the best gift of all, our Eucharistic King.
Later that same day, we received word we were awarded a grant tied to our capital campaign. We had been waiting for a considerable time for an answer. After informing John McDermott of the happy news, I said in front of the door of our chapel, "Let us go inside and thank Jesus for this gift."
After saying this I noticed a woman who had come in for assistance in the lobby standing nearby looking at us with a funny look on her face.
"Jesus really is in this next room," I said. "Would you like to see Him?" She immediately left her place in line and followed us into the chapel.
After entering she promptly sped past me and went to the first row of pews and sat down and stared at the tabernacle which is well-illuminated. After exiting the chapel she had a different look on her face, one of peace and joy. While she was sitting in front of Jesus, I said to our Blessed Mother, "Well Mother, I brought your Son another one." Knowing that the Mother of God will take care of her I told her she was welcome any time for a visit.
These encounters happen on a regular basis. As we exchange and open presents around the Christmas tree, let us not forget that the gift that mattered most was the gift from God the Father and our Blessed Mother at that first Christmas - the Christ Child who came to die for us and start a Church in which we find our salvation.
I would like to thank our benefactors for making our new St. Joseph chapel a reality. Soon I will be sharing more exciting news about our new chapel in Hastings and two others in the diocese that are in the plans. May you have a Blessed Christmas and Holy New Year!
God has made our intellects for knowing the truth and nothing but the truth as helped by God. Did not Jesus say, "I am the way, the truth and the life" (Jn 14:6)? He is the source of all truth as He is Truth incarnate.
Recently before offering a television Mass at the Blessed John XXIII Diocesan Center, I was handed a note with the instructions to call a man who was tricked into giving a ride to a woman from out west to an abortion clinic in Lincoln. Her husband had recently left her for another woman, then returned for a brief period before leaving again. After being abandoned the second time, she discovered she was pregnant. At a local clinic, she was told not to worry because it was not yet a baby, only a blood clot. An appointment was made for an abortion and she left with the address and directions to a place she was told would get rid of her ‘blood clot.’
After reaching the frantic man on the phone, he informed me that while in route, he recognized that the address given him was the local abortion mill in Lincoln run by Planned Parenthood. He was well aware where it was because he had gone there before to pray rosaries for life. "Don’t take her to the clinic," I said, "take her instead to our office. After I have offered Mass I will meet you both there."
After meeting them at our office we immediately went into our St. Joseph Chapel and said a prayer in front of the Blessed Sacrament. It was then I knew she was a Catholic. Soon she told me about her husband, her pregnancy and the clinic where she was told that her unborn baby was not a human being. Soon her ignorance was removed as she saw for the first time what a 10-week-old fetus looked like. Needless to say her mind was made up; she wanted to save the life of her little baby.
Since she lacked medical insurance, I called a doctor friend who agreed to see her. I informed him that we would raise the necessary funds to help pay for her care, for God has big plans for her baby, who was known and loved from all eternity.
Thanks to a generous family, this woman and her three children (two born and one unborn), had Christmas gifts to unwrap. When I arrived at her house with the presents, I thought to myself, "This is the smallest house I have ever seen." It has one room that serves as the living room, a small kitchen, one small bathroom and a tiny bedroom. It was obvious that the mother and her two daughters were sleeping in the same bed. ‘We will have to return with a fold-out bed and some other items,’ I decided. Thanks to our generous donors, we are able to help this woman and many others like her.
As we continue to celebrate what remains of the Christmas season and the upcoming New Year, let us thank Almighty God who came to us as an unborn child, was born, suffered and died so we could live eternally. Jesus, who came to us as a baby, have mercy on us! Saints Mary and Joseph, pray for us! Help us have a Holy and Happy New Year!!
What would you be willing to give up for God?
The answer is found by gazing at a crucifix. In 1774, Elizabeth Bayley was born into a wealthy family in New York City. Her father was a physician and her mother, a daughter of an Anglican minister. At the age of 20, she married a wealthy merchant named William Seaton, with whom she had five children. With time, illness and financial troubles shook her family. When it was recommended that William seek a warmer, drier climate, they set sail for Italy.
Not long after arriving, William’s illness progressed to the point of death. It was during this time, due in part to the influence of their host family who were business associates, she was exposed to Catholicism. Eventually, after the death of her husband, she made it back to New York City.
After returning, while sitting in the pews of her Episcopal church, she would gaze out the window and down the street to the local Catholic church with the internal message, ‘I am present in the Most Blessed Sacrament here, not where you are.’
Before long she knew what she needed to do. I refuse to believe she lacked a premonition knowing she would lose her friends if she joined the Catholic Church. Despite this, she entered the Catholic Church in 1805, losing her friends in the process. After becoming involved with Catholic education she went on to found the Sisters of Charity in Emmetsburg, Maryland, dedicating her life to serving the poor and needy. She died in the year 1821.
As St. Elizabeth was growing old a little boy named John Neumann was born in Pranchatice, Bohemia to a family of humble means. He eventually entered the seminary and was told he would not be ordained in his native land because of the over abundance of priests! After hearing there was a dire need for priests in the United States, especially to the growing immigrant population, he decided to leave in the middle of the night to avoid a tearful goodbye with his beloved mother. He never saw her again. After his ordination to the priesthood in New York City he became one of a handful of priests to serve around 200,000 Catholics.
One of the joyful moments of a newly ordained priest is to offer a Mass of thanksgiving the day after their ordination in the presence of their family and friends. St. John Neumann offered his in the absence of his family. St. John went on to become the fourth bishop of Philadelphia and became one of the fathers of the Catholic schools in the United States. Even now miracles have been occurring through his intercession, many of whom are with children.
What are we willing to give up for God? Jesus said, "No one who has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands, for my sake and for the gospel, who will not receive a hundred fold now in this time … and in the age to come" (Mk 10:29-30). Many of us might not have to give up family or friends for Jesus but whenever a sacrifice is made of time, talent and treasure for Jesus who lives in the poor, we are denying ourselves to the benefit of others and are laying up treasure in heaven. Thanks for assisting those in need by helping Catholic Social Services!
Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same nature, that through death he might destroy him who has the power of death, that is the devil, and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong bondage" (Heb 2:14-15). Isn’t there a little fear of death in some of us, and a lot of fear in many more of us? Yet we are told not to fear death because if we remain in Christ, we shall never die.
I hate to say this but after graduating early from High School but before starting college I racked up a ‘few’ speeding tickets. ‘Who told my auto insurance company? How did they find out?’ I thought. After the rates increased astronomically, I ditched my shiny red car, purchased an old F-250 Ford pick up truck to save money on insurance so I could continue to drive. While inspecting her I noticed only two tiny spots of rust on two fenders. Since she was only $400 I drove her home.
After sanding away the two tiny rust spots I noticed more and more rust. I kept sanding and removing rotten metal until I was missing a big chunk of two fenders. Because buying another box was out of the question, I used two pieces of chicken wire fence, strips of fiberglass and body putty to patch the big holes in each fender. After a little primer I took her to several body shops in the area for an estimate on a paint job. After being turned away and laughed at, I took her to Earl Scheib’s and they painted her Mediterranean Blue for $99 plus tax!
None of us like getting sick and growing old (which are effects of Original Sin). People are constantly going to doctors to ‘get fixed.’ Some need an engine overhaul, akin to a cardiac bypass, or a transition or suspension repair, akin to a hip or knee replacement. Some prefer a little plastic surgery akin to face lifts or a little Botox. But eventually like cars that end up in the junk yard, after our souls separate from our bodies they end up in the grave. "In the sweat of your face you shall return to the ground, for out of it you were taken; you are dust, and to dust you shall return" (Gen 3:19). Thank God He became one of us to die, so we can live eternally.
Yes, if we remain in Christ, we shall never die and unlike restored cars our bodies are in store for the ultimate restoration – the resurrection of our dead bodies, to be reunited with our souls to shine forever like the celestial bodies in the sky (Dan 12:3; Matt 13:43).
As for cars and trucks, please spread the word that we are in dire need of vehicles. When one is donated to us, we either give it away to a needy individual or family, sell it and use the funds to help those in need of rent, utilities, medicines, grants for counseling etc, or put them in our fleet as we use donated vehicles to pick up bread, food, material items, deliver items to the poor, take clients to medical appointments, to the store. etc., while you receive a tax break!
Remember these words of Jesus, "He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day" (Jn 6:54). The ultimate body restoration!
On Jan. 20, the Universal Church celebrated the memorial of Pope St. Fabian who was described by St. Cyprian as "incomparable." He was a local farmer who traveled to Rome after the death of Pope Anterus in the year 236. During the election of the next Holy Father a dove was seen to have flown down from above and landed on his head. Taken as a sign of divine providence and of the Holy Spirit, he was elected as the next Vicar of Christ.
After his ordination, according to some accounts, he baptized Emperor Marcus Julius Philippus. Nevertheless under the reign of Emperor Phillip, the Catholic Church experienced a brief period of peace. It was during this time, Pope Fabian did much to build up the Church while defending the truth. Unfortunately, the next emperor was not cut from the same mold and restarted the persecution of Christians which involved their arrest, torture and death. Pope St. Fabian was arrested and put to death Jan. 20 in the year 250. Though it was a dark era, the one true faith spread throughout the Roman Empire. Catholics would have to wait another 63 years for the Edict of Milan which decriminalized Christianity.
Each year Catholic Social Services gives the Cor Christi (Heart of Christ) award to someone who demonstrates through their actions the love of Jesus Christ to their neighbor. This year, I am elated to announce that someone who chose Pope St. Fabian as their patron saint will be receiving the Cor Christi award - Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz. Many of you know of the many good things he has done not only for our diocese but for the Universal Church.
Under his guidance and leadership as President of the Board of Directors of Catholic Social Services, we have conducted our first-ever capital campaign entitled Expanding the Works of Mercy, which has allowed us to do just that – assist more needy individuals and families across the 24,000 miles of the Diocese of Lincoln. I and all of us in the Diocese of Lincoln owe him a debt of gratitude for these and the countless other things he has done for us. For one thing, as many seminaries across the world have contracted or closed, he has built St. Gregory the Great Seminary, which educates seminarians in our diocese and others across the nation. Attempting to list all of his other accomplishments would be far beyond the scope of a column like this.
That said, I hope you are able to attend our annual Celebration of Caring Banquet Sunday, Feb. 20 at the Cornhusker Hotel in Lincoln. The social hour starts at 4:30 and the dinner and program at 6 p.m. In addition to giving you an update on the activity of the agency over the past year, I will be sharing some new and exciting news. In addition, there will be great food and a little entertainment. Please join me if you can at the Cornhusker Hotel Feb. 20 and together we can thank Bishop Bruskewitz as he accepts the 2011 Cor Christi award. For those who cannot attend, please keep him and his intentions in your prayers!! St. Fabian, help us all imitate the love of the heart of Christ!!
I am saddened as I ponder the kind of the music many people listen to, especially younger ones. Many artists sing lyrics and produce music videos full of impure words, dances and images. Once in a homily I witnessed smiles and smirks on the faces of young people after mentioning how sinful it is watching MTV.
Not long ago on a warm summer day, I pulled up to a red light and stopped. There was a car to my left, also stopped. It was one of those long red lights that seemed to last forever. Since the windows of both cars were opened, I could hear music blaring from the young man’s car stereo. Sitting next to the driver, who appeared to be a man in his early 20s, was a little boy around 9 to 10 years old. The lyrics were sexually charged and full of profanity. I felt horrible for that little boy. As the car sped away after the light turned green, I was left saddened.
Many upcoming artists have a thirst for fame and fortune while risking their salvation in the process of seeking it. That much of the popular music is rotten should not be a surprise since good and bad music have existed from the beginning of time. Why? Because creation has fallen because of Original Sin, our bodies are no longer properly subject to our souls. We need to cooperate with God’s graces to avoid sin and grow in holiness.
One of the earliest written accounts of bad music was heard by Moses and Joshua after Moses had received the commandments and was returning to the house of Israel on the base of the mountain. The Lord God said to Moses, "Go down; for your people, whom you brought up out of the land of Egypt, have corrupted themselves" (Ex 32:7). As He descended and approached the people, he heard music and dancing as the rebellious Israelites were found dancing around the golden calf made by the hands of Moses’ brother Aaron (Ex 32:4, 19).
As for good music, David played the lyre (1 Sam 18:10), the psalms were meant to be sung by the music of the lyre and harp and in heaven we will be singing a new song" (Rev 5:9).
That said, if you are ready to hear some great music, I am excited to invite you to our 8th annual Trumpet Fest Sunday, Feb. 13 at 3 p.m. which will be held at the Pius X High School gym at 6000 "A" Street in Lincoln. Every year Kevin Murray of Murray’s for Men of Stature coordinates this wonderful event. This year’s performers include Mac McCune, Kevin Murray, Barb Schmit, Darryl White, third-grader Maria Pytlik, UNL trumpet studio students and more. Every year I am amazed at the talent and quality of the music. Always a treat is the ‘joint jam session’ at the end. During the event, a hat will be passed for a free-will offering which will help us assist poor and needy individuals and families across the diocese. I hope to see you there for a little dose of ‘good music.’ Thanks for your love for Jesus who lives in the poor and please remember you are in our prayers!
Individuals and families in need sometimes feel they have nowhere to turn. Recently a woman came to one of our four sites across southern Nebraska in need of assistance. With moist eyes she explained that her electricity would be turned off later that day. She was worried because she had five children and the temperature was in the teens and single digits.
One of our emergency service specialists called the power company, confirmed the details of her story and informed them we would be sending them a check for the full amount. After hearing this, the woman asked if she could pray with our emergency service staff member. She was visibly moved to tears. While weeping, she stated that praying was something she knew she neeed to do for a long time but needed help getting started.
While sitting below a beautiful image of the Sacred Heart, a crucifix, and looking at another beautiful image of St. Therese of Lisieux (who said she would be spending her time in heaven helping people on earth) they said a simple prayer of thanksgiving. After this long overdue prayer she opened up further, informing us that one of her little boys made microwave popcorn earlier in the day so he would have some food to eat after their electricity was turned off. Before leaving and in front of a beautiful picture of the Holy Family in our lobby she knelt down in front of everyone and gave praise and thanksgiving to Almighty God. She then went her merry way. "I will give fervent thanks to the Lord; before all I will praise my God" (Ps 109:30).
This is not an unusual experience. Although we help individuals of all races, creeds and religions, without any conditions, some want to pray and others are drawn into our chapel off our lobby. Sometimes during the day I will intermittently drop into our chapel to visit and talk to our Eucharistic King. Sometimes I see clients sitting and praying. I am elated to report that our goal is to have a chapel with the Blessed Sacrament in all four permanent sites across southern Nebraska with access to the public. In each chapel there will be beautiful stained glass windows to enhance worship. That said there are opportunities for our donors to purchase these windows in memory of a loved one or for their families. There will be a plaque for each window asking those who read it to keep the respective deceased person or family members in their prayers. So far the response has been tremendous, something I am most grateful for. I am thankful to Bishop Bruskewitz for his permission in this most important endeavor which will lead to greater sanctity among our staff and volunteers and will draw many who come to us to Christ. So far this is a reality in two of the four sites, with plans for the remaining two sites.
I would like to thank our many donors who are making this goal a reality, for their spiritual support without which we could not function, their material support of donated household items including cars, and their cash donations which allow us to help needy individuals and families like the woman outlined above. Please be assured of our continued prayers for all of you, your families and intentions!
Only a few days ago, the Universal Church celebrated the memorial of St. Scholastica, the sister of St. Benedict. She consecrated herself to God, entered the religious life and followed her brother to Monte Cassino. Many of us are familiar with the story related to us by St. Gregory the Great, the patron saint of our diocesan seminary. She used to meet her brother once a year in a small building on monastery property. They spent the day talking about God, heaven, angels and saints.
One on occasion shortly before her death in the year 547 as her brother prepared to depart after a long day discussing things divine, she asked him to remain even longer so they could continue their heavenly discourse. After refusing her pleas she buried her head in her hands and asked Almighty God to intervene and intervene He did. Suddenly, seemingly out of nowhere, a raging tempest appeared complete with sheets of rain, thunder and lightning forcing her saintly brother to stay through the night. After Benedict charged, "May God forgive you, sister. What have you done?" She answered, "Well, I asked you and you would not listen; so I asked my God and he did listen. So now go off, if you can, leave me and return to your monastery." It was shortly after this St. Benedict saw a vision of her soul flying to heaven after her holy death. In response to this episode St. Gregory the Great famously said, "It is not surprising that she was more effective than he; since, as John says, God is love, it was absolutely right that she could do more, as she loved more."
Recently an elderly couple came to one of our offices pleading for help. They had been living on the edge ever since their retirement and could not always make ends meet living on Social Security. Since many of their teeth were missing, it was evident they lacked funds to pay a dentist as well. In addition to caring for themselves, they had a son with a mental disability they did their best to support. They asked for help paying a utility bill. They left our office in joy for they received the help they needed. How were we able to assist them? We paid their utility bill with the money our benefactors had donated to us. Why do our donors send us money and remember us in their wills? Love. It is as simple as that. "God is love" (Jn 4:8, 16). And the evidence we love God is if we love our neighbor (Jn 4:19-21). And the evidence of our love of neighbor is the giving of ourselves to our neighbor with our time, talent and treasure. When true love is present, it is something that cannot be extinguished. "Many waters cannot quench love, neither can floods drown it" (Song of Songs 8:7).
At Catholic Social Services we thank you for your love of God. It is the reason I love to say in many of my thank you letters, "Thank you for your love of Jesus Christ who lives in the poor and needy (Mt 25:31-46)." Please never forget that we love you in return and remember you, your families and intentions in our prayers and Masses at Catholic Social Services. Never forget the wisdom of St. Gregory the Great; namely the more we love, the more we will be able to do and accomplish on this road to heaven. Sts Scholastica, Benedict and Gregory, pray for us!
She got into her car with her three children, one aged 14, the other a toddler and another in her womb. She knew she needed to leave but did not know where to go.
She was running from a man who wanted to kill her and their unborn baby. She only knew she wanted to save her unborn baby, her other two children and her own life.
"I need to drive," she thought, so drive she did. With her three children and the few bare necessities they could cram into their car, in a hurried fashion she started driving west. As the car sped down the road, their minds were spinning, the mother whose concern was getting away, the 14-year-old who pondered the unknown along with the loss of her friends, and the toddler who thought this was the longest ride she ever took, while the unborn baby’s heart kept beating and beating.
Meanwhile, halfway across the country, another 14-year-old young woman in Lincoln, Nebraska named Erin Williams wondered, "What can I do to help unborn babies and their mothers?"
Erin came up with the idea of creating a pro-life t-shirt to benefit St. Gianna Women’s Homes, a safe refuge for women escaping domestic violence and abortion named after her favorite saint, St. Gianna (who gave her life to save her unborn baby). "I want to be just like her!" she told me.
She designed the front of the shirt to say, "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you," along with an outline of a heart with two baby feet within. On the back one finds a red cross with the words, "Pro-life Guard," and "Save the Unborn." Thanks to Father John Sullivan and Mrs. Holly Kruger, the principal at Blessed Sacrament School in Lincoln, this beautiful t-shirt is available to the entire school as a uniform option. Thanks to Msgr. Perkinton, a flyer will be sent to the Catholic Schools in the diocese for those who would like to purchase them while helping St. Gianna’s.
It is only by the Providence of God this woman is now in a safe temporary location here in Nebraska. When I told her she could stay at St. Gianna’s which will be open in just a few short months, she was filled with tears of joy. When I informed Erin that the proceeds from the sale of these t-shirts would be used to help this woman and her three children, she too was filled with joy.
I am thankful to Father John Sullivan, the superintendant of Blessed Sacrament, Mrs. Holly Kruger, the principal, Msgr. Perkinton, others who have helped with this project and especially Erin Williams, a special young woman.
I would also like to thank Erin’s mother, who said anyone can obtain them on the Blessed Sacrament website at blessedsacramentlincoln.com.
When asked why permission was given to students at Blessed Sacrament to wear these t-shirts, in lieu of their regular uniform tops, Mrs. Kruger responded, "These kids love them and want to wear them. It’s powerful when a middle school child is seen with a pro-life t-shirt as a witness to the sanctity and love for unborn life." Well said. St. Gianna, pray for us!!
On Sunday, Feb. 20, Catholic Social Services celebrated its 24th Celebration of Caring Banquet, where we awarded our good shepherd Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz the Cor Christi award while giving him a beautiful statue of Jesus Christ, the Good Shepherd. In his remarks, Bishop Bruskewitz said he accepted the award in the name of the people of southern Nebraska because of their charity. During the program part of the evening, I had the opportunity to share what the faithful of the Diocese of Lincoln have accomplished through Catholic Social Services and what is new.
Last year by the grace of God and the generosity of the faithful, Catholic Social Services provided $1.6 million of direct services to nearly 24,000 individuals and approximately 14,000 families across southern Nebraska. Some of the highlights include nearly $90,000 in clinical grants to nearly 200 clients who were non-insured or under-insured; nearly $87,000 in emergency services to needy individuals and families; over $115,700 in rent and utility assistance to our transitional housing clients; $755,609 in food was given away including $353,231 for our St. Andrew Mobile Pantry in Ashland, Auburn, Crete, David City, Falls City, Geneva, Fairbury, Hebron, Tecumseh, Wahoo, Seward, Superior, Sutton, Harvard, Holdrege, Orleans and Imperial; 33,067 sack lunches were distributed in Hastings (an increase of nearly 40%); $157,883 was utilized for 106 refugees; 19 vehicles were given to clients at a value of $19,000; $80,000 in material items were given away from our thrift stores (including furniture, appliances, houseware, kitchenware, etc); and $50,000 in personal care items, school supplies, diapers and more were distributed to needy families. Also, through our backpack program (a collaborative effort with Lincoln Food Bank, Open Table in Hastings, and Hastings College) 169 students in Lincoln and Hastings are given a pantry in a backpack - enough food for the weekend.
In addition, we are elated that our social service staff in Hastings (and soon our clinical staff) has moved into their new home, named after St. John Vianney, located on 333 W 2nd Ave. This is the new site for our social services, food pantry (on the first floor) and the clinical department (on the second floor with a separate entrance). Instead of paying rent for three separate locations, we now own a single larger site. The monies saved will allow us to assist even more individuals in south central Nebraska.
I am also pleased to announce that our new St. Isidore Gift & Thrift Store in Imperial is doing so well that we now are using the proceeds from the store to help even more needy individuals and families out west.
We are blessed to report that after moving to a beautiful new location in Auburn, the Orscheln Farm and Home Store has given us their old building - which is conveniently located next to our St. Francis Gift & Thrift Store. Just weeks after celebrating our seventh anniversary in Auburn, we will be able to expand. After a needed renovation, we will soon have social and clinical service offices, increased warehousing and thrift store floor space and most importantly a chapel with the Blessed Sacrament.
By taking the remarks of Bishop Bruskewitz farther, by the grace of God, these are the accomplishments of the faithful of southern Nebraska and for this we are most grateful. Please know we will continue to keep you, your families and intentions in our daily prayers!
In the early 70s during my high school years, a handful of buddies decided to ‘hang out’ together. Since this was nearly 40 years ago, I cannot remember what we were doing before gathering at the home of one of my high school friends, perhaps it was after a football or basketball game. As we gathered in the basement, this friend of mine went behind the bar and proudly showed us his father’s hidden stash of pornographic magazines.
I remember being shocked and felt horrible seeing his son standing in front of us proudly displaying the several magazines that were his ‘favorites’ among the many that were secretly hidden by his dad. In addition to feeling sorry for my friend, I immediately thought, "What about his mother, the wife of his father? How could his dad do this?"
A recent study published by OnlineMBA.com reveals that 40 million Americans regularly visit porn sites, a staggering 70% of men between the ages of 18-24 visit porn sites in a typical month. While the majority of porn users are men, 33% of porn users are women. In addition, 20% of men admit to watching porn online at work in addition to their on-line viewing at home. Sadly, according to this on-line study, the most popular day for viewing porn was Sunday.
The statistic most tragic was that the average age a person first views porn is at age 11. Now because of advancements in technology all a child or teenager needs to do to view porn is go to a computer or another electronic device rather than find their father’s hidden stash. This harmful and deadly addiction leads to other sinful actions while damaging marriages and relationships between parents and their children.
Thankfully, there is help for those affected. The first and most efficacious remedy is the sacraments, frequent reception and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, confession and the frequent use of the sacramentals such as the holy rosary and spiritual reading. In addition to this, counseling plays an important role for many.
I am happy to announce that the clinical department at Catholic Social Services will hold an 11-week men’s purity group starting April 5 entitled ‘Integritas.’ The first session will focus on the explanation of the group’s purpose and confidentiality. The topic for the first meeting will be the definition and meaning of sexual sobriety. The titles of the following sessions are entitled, "Why are we here? What do we want? Daily renewal, actions of recovery, connection, healthy relationships, control as the problem, focus on the present moment and increasing willpower." The purpose of this 11-week group is to help move the will away from the vice of lust as it makes progress with the grace of God conjoined with the best of psychology in the virtue of chastity. Whether this leads to a future support group for men struggling with this pervasive addiction in the future remains to be seen. For those interested, please call our Immaculate Heart of Mary Counseling Center at 402-489-1834.
Please keep this most important endeavor in your thoughts and prayers as we attempt to help some of the many individuals around us move closer to God by growing in virtue. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us, St. Augustine, pray for us!!
Editors note: visit the Diocese of Lincoln website Freedom from Pornogrphy page
I heard someone once say, "A little self denial never hurt anyone." Not only is this true, if done with the right intention, it is a tremendous help in growing closer to God. If done with the wrong intention, it is a hindrance in growing closer to God.
We are told in Paschales Solemnitatis number 6 proclaimed by the Congregation for Divine Worship that "The annual Lenten season is the fitting time to climb the holy mountain of Easter." We know in climbing any mountain, we need places to put the pegs in which ropes are attached that help us climb to the top. On Ash Wednesday we learned from the gospel that the three pegs to help us climb to the mountain of Easter are prayer, fasting and almsgiving.
I imagine any seasoned mountain climber will say that the placement and manner in which pegs are placed are everything in ensuring a safe assent. The same can be said with the practice of prayer, fasting and almsgiving.
During the time of the prophet Isaiah the Lord God said, "What to me is the multitude of your sacrifices? … I have had enough of burnt offerings of rams and the fat of fed beasts … Bring no more vain offerings … Remove the evil of your doings from before my eyes; cease to do evil, learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; defend the fatherless, plead for the widow … Is this not the fast that I choose … share your bread with the hungry … bring the homeless poor into your house; when you see the naked … cover him?" (Is 1:11-17; 58:6-7). In other words, the motivation for prayer, fasting and almsgiving should be love and nothing else.
Jesus himself said, when we pray, fast and give to the poor (almsgiving) we should not do so to be noticed by others but to do so for the love of God in secret, and in doing so we will be rewarded by our Heavenly Father who sees in secret (Mt 6:1-18). As for helping the poor for the right reasons, St. Leo the Great said, "There is no more profitable practice as a companion to holy and spiritual fasting than that of almsgiving."
Since my first day as director of Catholic Social Services, I have met many of the faithful of southern Nebraska who donate to Catholic Social Services in order to help needy individuals and families across the diocese. Without exception money and material goods are given out of love for Jesus who lives in the poor and needy (Mt 25:31-46), and for this I am greatly edified and thankful. Most of the people and families that receive help feel the love of our benefactors which is a reflection of the Sacred Heart of Jesus on fire for love of us.
As this Lent unfolds, please know we are deeply appreciative of your prayers, fasting for others and your almsgiving in the form of material donations of items around the house not needed including food, and your cash donations according to your means to Catholic Social Services. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services will likewise remember you in our prayers, fasting and other sacrifices during this holy season of Lent. May you have a holy assent to the mountain of Easter!
Last year, a single woman in her 30s with multiple problems, many of which are medically related, insisted on moving to Florida.
At the time she was unemployed and was at the point of an eviction. She unfortunately lost a good-paying job. She related that once she went Florida, she would not encounter any difficulties finding employment. She was even more convinced a horse stable would employ her. She even had one identified. I tried in vain to convince her otherwise, despite laying out a short- and long-term roadmap to independence by staying in Nebraska.
Despite our offers to help her she exclaimed, "Father, all I need is a rental car and you will never see or hear from me and my pets again!" She was convinced that once she crossed the Florida border, her problems would melt away like wax in a flame, including her medical difficulties.
Shortly after arriving in Florida, she called twice, pleading for help. I was unable to call her back since she lacked a phone. After a while, her calls stopped. Time after time, I tried returning her calls, using the numbers she gave, to no avail. After numerous attempts at returning her calls, I gave up. She did not call, either. ‘She either is working somewhere or she dropped of the face of the earth,’ I thought.
Recently, out of the blue, I received a call late one afternoon, "Hello, it’s me!" She somehow made it back to Nebraska. "Do you have a space heater?" she asked.
After returning to Nebraska, she was fortunate enough to find a job and was waiting for her first paycheck. She is staying in an unheated room off someone’s home. Her plans include finding an apartment once she is paid.
After purchasing a space heater, I made plans to meet her at a local bus stop after her work was over for the day. She looked good but somewhat thinner. She was happy to see me. After giving her the space heater and some funds to buy food, I gave her a blessing and left knowing we can blow the dust off the old plans for independence, minus finding a job.
I do not have the opportunity to get to know many clients as well as I have this woman, but our goal is to love Jesus Christ present in each person as they see the face of Christ in us. There are many ways we can assist someone like this. Help with finding employment, first month’s rent, utilities, deposit, food, clothing, vehicles, insurance, furniture, appliances, house wares, counseling, or literally anything needed for someone to gain back their independence.
Please pray for this woman, and all of the clients that walk through our doors. We pray first and foremost for the salvation of their souls, and secondly for their material and psychological needs.
Thanks to our generous donors across southern Nebraska and beyond we are able to help her and others like her, for she is one among many sons and daughters of God the Most High that walk though our doors. I love also to remind our benefactors that you, your families and intentions remain in our regular prayers.
We are all familiar with the story of the rich man and Lazarus given to us by Jesus, as recorded by the evangelist St. Luke in the sixteenth chapter of his gospel. The rich man remains nameless while the poor man’s name we know.
We are told that the rich man not only was dressed to the hilt with expensive clothes but he ate the finest most delicious foods while poor Lazarus wished only for the scraps that fell from his well-adorned table. To make matters worse, dogs roaming the streets used to lick his sores. Eventually the tables turned when they both died. While the poor man was carried by angels to the bosom of Abraham, the rich man found himself in the fires of hell. One wonders if the rich man, now eternally poor, thought of the hunger pains Lazarus experienced while living as he longed for the water-soaked finger tip of Lazarus on his scorched tongue (Lk 16:19-31).
One may also wonder if the Apostle James recalled this story as he wrote his epistle. In it we are told that faith without works is dead and cannot save. This is what we call ‘dead faith,’ faith without love. St. James says, "What does it profit, my brethren, if a man says he has faith but has not works? Can his faith save him? If a brother or sister is ill-clad and in lack of daily food, and one of you says to them, ‘God in peace, be warmed and filled,’ without giving them the things needed for the body, what does it profit? So faith by itself, if it has no works, is dead … You see that a man is justified by works and not faith alone" (Jas 2:14-26).
Of course we cannot work our way into heaven by ourselves. We simply cannot save ourselves by ourselves. We need help, we need a Savior. Scripture is clear that we are saved by the grace of God. It is by this saving grace entitled ‘Sanctifying Grace’ that leads to living faith, faith formed with love that leads to our salvation. We receive this saving grace for the first time with baptism and is extended and completed by the sacrament of confirmation. Since the effects of original sin remains after baptism, we must cooperate with God to remain in the state of sanctifying grace. Thank God that we have the seven sacraments, which are founts of grace. Every time we receive a sacrament we receive grace. The two sacraments we may receive frequently are the Most Holy Eucharist and Confession. When received frequently we obtain the ability to practice our faith in a living or loving manner.
I am constantly edified by the living or loving faith of our donors and volunteers who by their generosity of their prayers, penances, time, talent and treasure they share with Catholic Social Services we are able to love Jesus present in the poor and needy. Did not Jesus tell us our salvation is dependent in serving His presence in the poor? Did He not tell us that what ever we do for the least of our brothers and sisters we do to Him (Mt 25:31-46)? Last year, with your help, Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska assisted around 24,000 individuals across southern Nebraska. Many thanks to all of our donors for without you, there would not be a Catholic Social Services. Please remember that you remain in our daily prayers!
Are our hearts stony or fleshy? This is a life and death question.
One might think I’m talking about a medical condition akin to a sclerotic heart, one that has been ravaged by multiple infarcts or heart attacks or some inflammatory process that has rendered the heart with areas of scar tissue. Such a heart is an inefficient pump which could ultimately lead to further infarcts or heart failure or both leading ultimately in an untimely death.
No, I am talking about the human soul described sometimes as the ‘heart.’ This is what we mean when we talk about having devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, which breaks when we sin.
Our souls, or hearts in this sense, were created to hold or contain the very life of God, or Sanctifying Grace. Our first parents were created with it. They lost it when they rebelled against God. After their disobedience against God, their fleshy hearts became stony. Covenant after covenant were broken, even the covenant with Moses.
It is God the Father who saves us through His Son, the "Word made flesh" (Jn 1:14), in the Holy Spirit. In Old Testament times, because of Original Sin, that Word from the Father had to be inscribed on stony tablets. They were given to Moses. Since the Word was inscribed on stony tablets and not on fleshy ones, no one was able to keep it. This was the reason that the "Word became flesh and dwelt among us" (Jn 1:14).
Now through the passion, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, the Word can be inscribed in our hearts. This was predicted by the prophet Ezekiel around the time of the fall of Judah. The Lord said, "I will sprinkle clean water upon you, and you shall be clean from all your uncleannesses … a new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you … I will take out of your flesh the heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh" (Ez 36:25-26).
Yes, it is through baptism Original Sin is removed, in that the person receives the very life of God into their souls for the first time, and if they are at or past the age of reason, actual sins are likewise removed. Since the effects of Original Sin remain, we need regular installments of Divine Life via the other sacraments especially Confirmation, Eucharist and Confession to not only remain in the state of Sanctifying Grace, but grow in it.
Days ago, a married man with cancer was at risk of losing his home because of the inability to catch up on his rent and utility payments. We were able to help only because our donors have fleshy hearts. Only a fleshy human heart is able to obey the greatest two commandments of the law, words that were formerly inscribed on stony tablets but now on the fleshy hearts of people living in the state of grace, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind … You shall love your neighbor as yourself" (Mt 22:37- 39).
Thank you to all who are generous with Catholic Social Services, for without you we would not have been able to help this and many other individuals and families who come to us in crisis. Please know that you all remain in our special prayers. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!!
Recently while walking through our lobby adjacent to our St. Joseph Chapel I heard a man say, "Father!" I turned and heard him ask, "May I have a word with you?"
"Of course," I replied. After sitting with him a moment he explained although homeless, he was fortunate to have found a job at one of the local fast food restaurants in town. There was only one glitch; he needed 20 dollars to obtain a prep/cook permit from the Health Department. Without it, he was out of luck. I wondered why the restaurant did not cover the cost but later found out they only covered the cost for management staff. I still wonder why….
Fortunately, we have on staff a woman named Pat who runs our first-rate, flamboyant, friendly, fast, filling, flavorful, fun, fabulous, fantastic, fine, fancy, fascinating, First Friday Fish Fry outside of Lent for our new St. Gianna Women’s Home. She has a Food Protection Manager level permit with the Health Department. I said, "We have someone on staff that can help. Can you wait a moment to speak with her?"
After verifying his employment and speaking to someone at the Health Department she found out there was a class that very evening, from 6 to 8:30 p.m. After informing him there was a class that evening and Catholic Social Services would pick up the tab, he sprung up from his chair and hugged her like he had won the lottery, like there was no tomorrow.
After arriving at the Health Department a few moments before 6 p.m., Pat found several staff members outside the classroom registering students and collecting money. It was there she found him second in line. He did not want to be late, so he came early. After she encouraged him he said once again, "Miss Patty, thank you for everything!"
When someone donates funds to Catholic Social Services one may wonder, "Where will my money be spent and on whom?" This is just one of the countless stories of people we assist all across southern Nebraska. Whether it be an individual like this or a family in need, we help fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord from the Colorado border west to the Iowa and Missouri borders east and from the Platte River north to the Kansas border south. Whether it is help with rent or utilities, medical expenses, grants for counseling, food, clothing, furniture, cars, or any other of the seemingly endless things we help people and families with, this story is just the tip of the iceberg.
Last year, with the generous help of our benefactors, we were able to help more than 20,000 individuals. When someone like the person described above thanks us, he is thanking all of you.
Let me take this opportunity to relay my personal thanks and the thanks of all of us at Catholic Social Services for your prayers, financial and material help. Please know we are praying for you and your intentions.
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Please do not forget that later this month, Dr. Gianna Emanuela, the daughter of St. Gianna, is coming to Lincoln to speak and meet the faithful who attend. She will be talking about her mother, St. Gianna, at the Cathedral of the Risen Christ in Lincoln at 7 p.m. Wednesday, July 20. We will look forward to seeing you then!
Countless individuals and families come to us with broken lives. We are here to help them pick up the pieces.
Many need help starting over. Often this means finding an apartment. Despite finding one, some need help with security deposits and items to make an apartment or house a home, such as furniture, appliances, kitchen items, lamps, bedding, towels and countless other things. Some are in need of a vehicle in order to drive to work. If not for the generosity of our benefactors who donate material items, we would not be able to help individuals and families described above. Just weeks ago, we helped a family, formerly homeless, by supplying them with many of the items listed above.
Recently I received a call from a St. Teresa parishioner named Arnie Hausner. "Father, when can you come over? I’ve sold my home and want to donate the furniture and household items to Catholic Social Services!"
Helen, Arnie’s wife of 55 years, passed away in March of 2010 and he has now decided to move into his daughter and son-in-law’s home in Omaha. Not only is he excited about the move, he is relieved after finding a buyer for his home. His next decision was what to do with the furniture and other items in his house. Instead of having an estate sale or auction, he decided to donate the items to us so they could go to individuals and families in need.
"I’ll be over next Thursday afternoon" I said. After arriving at his home, I was greeted at the door, "Come right on in Father!" After entering, he asked me if I wanted anything to drink. "Would you like a beer?" He asked. "Oh, a glass of water would be fine," I replied. "Are you sure?" he said. I replied, "Are you having one?" "No, I gave it up for Lent!" A few minutes later Arnie and I were visiting in his living room, he was drinking an orange juice and I was drinking a cool glass of beer. Didn’t St. Paul say a little wine was OK as recorded in 1Tim. 5:23?
After a while he said, "Want to walk around while I show you what you are getting? You can take your beer with you!" As it turns out, we will be getting most everything.
After the tour, I learned of his great love and devotion to our Blessed Mother and the Holy Rosary. When he falls asleep saying it, he keeps going when he wakes up. I know that it is this same living faith that has led to his decision to donate the material items in his home to the poor. "You are making a deposit to your 401(k) in heaven!" I said.
I then asked if I could take a picture of him and write about him in the Southern Nebraska Register. He was a little reluctant at first but changed his mind when I said, "When other people read this, they will say to themselves, ‘If Arnie did this, so can I!’"
I would like to take this opportunity to thank Arnie and everyone else who donates material items of things not needed to us for we could not do the things we do without your donations. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services will keep all of you in our daily prayers!!
Earlier this spring, I received a phone call from Laura Duggan, the coordinator for the Sacred Art Show. They will hold their third annual "Sacred Art Show" April 29 and 30 at the Blessed John XXIII diocesan center in Lincoln. We are grateful that each year the participating artists donate 10% of the proceeds to St. Gianna Women’s Homes, a safe haven for women escaping domestic violence and abortion staffed by the Marian Sisters.
This year there will be more than 20 artists from Nebraska, Iowa, South Dakota, Colorado, Illinois, Indiana and Arizona. There will be painters, sculptors, jewelers, woodcarvers, muralists, fiber artists, mixed media artists and photographers. Friday night there will be a wine and hors d’oeuvres reception from 5:30 to 9 p.m. with an admission price of $5. Priests and religious will be admitted free of charge.
Saturday, the show continues from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. with free admission. It is a perfect time to pick out items for your home or a gift for others, perhaps a wedding gift to adorn the home of a newlywed couple. I am confident that those who are able to attend will not be disappointed with the lovely art work that will be present.
While I am on the topic of beautiful works of art, earlier last week while driving through the lovely state of Missouri, I saw one of the most beautiful sunrises which rival some of the ones here in Nebraska where the skies are wide open.
I immediately thought of my grandmother Margaret who lost almost everything in the Great Depression. She would say, "Look at that beautiful painting in the sky! God put it there for everyone to enjoy! It does not matter if one is rich or poor."
The late Pope John Paul II, who will soon be beatified, was asked why he loved getting up early in the morning. He said he loved watching the sun come, not only because of its inherent beauty, but also because it is a reminder of our own future resurrection from the dead.
As lovely as a beautiful work of art and a sunrise or sunset is, they all fall short of the infinite beauty of the risen Lord Jesus Christ. As we get set to celebrate the Easter Triduum, let us be reminded that we are celebrating the definitive victory of Jesus Christ over sin and death and the opening of the gates of heaven to those who have left this world marked with the sign of faith. No longer is there a cherubim with a flaming sword guarding the way to the tree of life (Gen 3:24). Now we have access to the tree of life which is the cross and its fruit, the Holy Eucharist, what Ignatius of Antioch calls the ‘medicine of immortality.’ He who eats this fruit will be likewise raised on the last day to share this incomprehensible beauty and glory (Jn 6:53-58).
Our prayer at Catholic Social Services is that you and your family will have a holy and blessed Easter and Easter Season. Please know that you, your family and intentions remain in our prayers. Jesus, the risen Lord, have mercy on us! Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!
Less than 24 hours before typing these words I received a call from my earthly mother about my earthly father. She, in a concerned voice said, "Something is wrong with your father." Before long and after looking him over, I decided to take him myself to the emergency room rather than call for an ambulance. In addition to labored breathing at rest, he was definitely not himself. After quite a struggle, I managed to get him buckled up and off we went.
During our ride to the hospital I could not get him to respond too much except when I asked, "Do you love our Blessed Mother?" After asking this question, he mustered enough strength to say in an enthusiastic but weakened tone of voice, "Oh Yes!!!"
After receiving sacramental absolution and the anointing of the sick and after some intravenous fluids, he seemed a little more responsive, although not ‘himself.’
He once again perked up after being asked, "Do you want to say the rosary together?" I marveled at the man who had difficulty answering questions like, "Do you know what year it is?" who now was leading the recitation of the Most Holy Rosary. His ‘go to’ mysteries are now the glorious. Witnessing his love for the Blessed Virgin Mary, the holy Rosary and God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit is a great consolation to me, not only as his earthly son but also as a priest.
Why is it that so many non-Catholic Christians have a problem with the Mother of God? Certainly, some of it is confusion of what true devotion to the Virgin Mary really is. Without Mary, we would not have Jesus, and without Jesus, we would all be damned.
Certainly, Mary is not the source of divinity, but she is the Mother of God since she is the mother of a person who happens to be God and man. It was the divine person of the Son of God that assumed a human body from Mary. Therefore, Jesus is a divine person with two natures, divine and human. Not only is the Blessed Virgin Mary the Mother of God she is also our spiritual mother as well. If she is the mother of the head of the Church, she is also the mother of the members of the Church. We do not adore or worship her, but love and venerate her and her intercessory prayers for us are most powerful.
There are two places in the bible that explicitly state she is our mother. In the Book of Revelation it says, "Then the dragon was angry with the woman, and went off to make war on the rest of her offspring, on those who keep the commandments of God and bear testimony to Jesus" (Rev 12:17). In addition, when Jesus told John the apostle, "Behold your mother" (Jn 19:27), He was speaking to all of us in an extended sense.
I would like to thank all of our donors who assist us with their spiritual, material and financial support which is evidence that they understand the above concept. We all are brothers and sisters with a Heavenly Father and a spiritual mother. And it is this familial love that generates love of our many poor brothers and sisters. Please know that you remain in our prayers.
After four years of careful planning, Bishop Bruskewitz consecrated the altar and Chapel of St. Gianna and blessed our second and largest location of St. Gianna Women’s Homes.
Run and staffed by the Marian Sisters, this new home will be a safe haven for women and their children escaping domestic violence and abortion under the protection and patronage of St. Gianna, wife, mother and physician. Providentially this consecration and blessing was done by Bishop Bruskewitz on April 28, the feast day of St. Gianna.
For those who may not know her story, St. Gianna was a wife, mother and physician who developed a tumor on her uterus during her fourth pregnancy. She was given a choice by her doctors - her life or the life of her unborn baby.
Instead of choosing a hysterectomy (which would have ended the life of her baby) she chose a riskier procedure which ultimately led to her death one week to the day after giving birth to a beautiful little girl named Gianna Emanuela. As a physician herself, she knew of the risks involved in the choice she made. She died so another may live. "Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" (Jn 15:13).
We are very grateful to St. Gianna, whose intercession was very powerful, for in the planning and construction of this project she opened many doors for us. Why would someone not be interested in saving lives in eternity when saving lives was something they were interested in while living in the realm of time? We are confident she will continue to intercede for us in the running of this beautiful center going forward.
The opening of St. Gianna’s is coming at the right moment for our first resident, who just gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. His mother recently escaped an abuser who wanted to kill her and their unborn baby.
Through the grace and providence of God she has found us here in the Diocese of Lincoln. If it was not for St. Gianna’s, I do not know where she would go. While she is at St. Gianna’s we will use our existing programs to transition her and her children to a safe and permanent place in the community. Meanwhile, she and her children will have a safe, furnished home. As a Catholic, she is excited that Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament is present in the chapel and for the opportunity of hearing Mass as well.
I am elated to announce that Gianna Emanuela, the little baby that St. Gianna died for, will be coming to Lincoln Thursday, July 21 to visit St. Gianna’s. I have been in contact with her and her brother Pierluigi (who I have had the privilege to meet and who hopefully will visit at a later date). After arriving in Lincoln and a visit to St. Gianna’s, those interested will be able to see and hear her talk about her mother. The exact time and place of this is to be determined.
Please keep St. Gianna’s in your prayers - a safe place of refuge for women and their children all across the diocese.
I would like to thank Almighty God, the Blessed Virgin Mary, St. Joseph, St. Gianna and all the angels and saints for their intercession as well as Bishop Bruskewitz, the clergy, religious, especially the Marian Sisters and laity of the diocese of Lincoln for their support. St. Gianna, pray for us!
Recently a not-so-young man needed help getting to one of our offices in the diocese for help. He was fortunate enough to have a friend who was kind enough to give him a ride. Once inside, he inquired whether we had a box spring for his mattress. Usually, it’s the other way around. Most of the time individuals need either a mattress or a mattress or box spring as a set. I cannot ever remember anyone coming in requesting only a box spring. I guess there is a first time for everything. Apparently, the springs sprung and he was on a mission for new springs in spring.
Once inside our office he was quite pleased we had one we could give him. Since the case worker who was helping him heard from one of our warehouse specialists that a nice big easy chair was picked up at some generous person’s home she asked, "Are you in need of a big easy chair? We just picked one up, and if you would like, we can give it to you as well." To this he clapped his hands and was filled with joy as he told us he was in need of one of those as well.
As she filled out the furniture voucher, while explaining the options for getting his new big easy chair home, she gave them the address and explained where the warehouse was. After leaving the office, they thought they would take a chance and drive by. Sure enough, one of our warehouse specialists was their working away.
After stopping and producing the said voucher, within minutes, the big easy (chair!) was loaded into the van and the box spring was tied and secured to the roof. After returning home our emergency services specialist who helped him received a phone call from a thankful and happy man who relayed his gratitude, for not only did he get what he asked for but a big, beautiful, and comfortable easy chair. I got the impression from talking to her that he had won the lottery.
This is just one more example illustrating the importance of material donations in addition to the all important financial ones. In addition to using donated funds to pay rent, utilities, medical expenses, grants for counseling and other things that fall under emergency services, it would be cost prohibitive to buy new furniture, appliances, household items, vehicles etc. for needy individuals and families. I love saying that we will take almost anything that is in good working order, including big easy chairs!
What a good lesson for us all. Isn’t it easy taking the blessings we have for granted? Let us be even more thankful for our Catholic faith, which was founded on the apostles by Jesus Christ Himself, which has been handed down to us through the centuries. Let us also be most thankful for the seven sacraments, those founts of grace, most especially the Blessed Sacrament which St. Ignatius of Antioch called, "the medicine of immortality." Our prayer at Catholic Social Services is that you and your family continue to have a blessed Easter Season as we continue to keep you in our daily prayers. Thanks for your support!!
Hello to those who have never read my column, who saw the title and started reading.
About eight years ago, I was invited to hunt pheasants with a group of men somewhere in Nebraska. After pulling into the homestead where we were to hunt, I was introduced as ‘Father Kubat,’ to the group. After exchanging pleasantries, we jumped inside several pickup trucks and headed to the first field where we were told were plenty of birds.
After most everyone drove off, I was left with a young farmer in his early 20s. "Father, you can ride with me!" he said. After jumping into the truck, I immediately noticed a pornographic calendar prominently taped to the dashboard and there was ‘Miss November’ in an immodest pose, in her birthday suit. Inside the truck, our eyes met and the look on his face I will never forget. What did old father do? You might be wondering.
There was no question what I was going to do. Saying ‘How about those Packers?’ or letting him think that ‘boys will be boys’ and ‘it’s no big deal’ was not an option. Once I saw the calendar, I knew immediately what I would do. The only thing I didn’t know was if he would get angry. There is nothing worse than hunting next to an angry man with a loaded shotgun, knowing you are the object of his anger.
As we sat there in that awkward moment of silence, I slowly reached over, took down the calendar and while destroying it, gently said that this is something that is very offensive to God and his soul. In that moment, I learned that even though he was not a Catholic, he deep down inside knew it was wrong and took it very well. I cannot remember the rest of our conversation, but it involved some simple counsel, something that only is possible in the brief moment Almighty God gave me with this young soul.
Several months ago I wrote about this topic with some statistics that need not be reiterated. However, let me remind our readers that the habit of viewing pornography is epidemic and now only ‘a click away.’ The connection between this habit and other impure habits are certain, especially for men, including impure actions with self and others. All of these activities constitute grave matter. Let us be reminded that the three elements for mortal sin are that something be of grave matter, one knows it, and chooses it. Didn’t Jesus say in the fifth chapter of Matthew that even looking at a woman with lust constitutes the sin of adultery (Mt 5:28)? This includes pinup calendars hanging on dashboards of pickup trucks.
Fortunately, the antidote for these and other sinful habits is grace from sacraments, namely the Most Holy Eucharist, its frequent reception, Eucharistic Adoration in church, and the frequent use of the sacrament of Penance or confession. Another powerful weapon is the daily recitation of the Holy Rosary.
In addition to this, let the reader be reminded that Catholic Social Services has professionally trained staff in our clinical department who specialize in the treatment sexual addictions. Also remember, because of the generosity of the faithful, we have a grant system for those clients in need of counseling who are either un-insured of under-insured.
Thank you to all of our benefactors who support us, making our grant system possible. Please remember, you will remain in our prayers. By the way, I had a great day of hunting, first for souls and then for pheasants.
Editors note: visit the Diocese of Lincoln website Freedom from Pornogrphy page
Those of us old enough to remember may recall the tornado in Omaha of 1975. It touched down in Sarpy County west of 96th Street and didn’t lift off the ground until it reached Benson Park 10 miles away.
At the time, it was the costliest tornado in US history. Three people died and 138 were injured. I remember working at Target several miles away and taking cover away from the big windowpanes in front of the store, since there was not a basement. I can only imagine what would have happened if the tornado would have cut through that crowded store.
Since our house was built on a hill, my mother could easily see the funnel cloud as it touched down.
Recently, an even more devastating EF-5 tornado struck Joplin, Missouri. Unlike the tornado of ’75 in Omaha, the loss of life was much higher. As of June 3, the death toll has risen to 138. More than 8,000 homes were damaged or destroyed, with 500 commercial business likewise affected. The deadly tornado cut a 6-mile path through town.
Stories in the press outlining the suffering of the many victims, as well as the love and generosity of those who have stepped in to help, abound. Like other disasters that have occurred near and far, Catholic Social Services is here to help. We are in the process of collecting food, water and monetary donations for those affected and will continue to do so. We will soon be trucking the material items down to the affected area to help relieve some of the pain and suffering of our fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord. This is what it means to be a fellow member of the mystical body of Christ. When other people suffer, we suffer too. When other people rejoice, we rejoice too. Even though we in Nebraska are miles away, since we are fellow members of the mystical body of Christ, we too feel the pain. "If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together" (1 Cor 12:26).
Because of the generosity of the people of southern Nebraska, Catholic Social Services, your arms and legs of charity, were able to respond to horrific hurricane Katrina with cash donations and a semi-trailer loaded with more than 23,000 pounds of material goods (including food and water) to victims and families displaced in shelters. Our trip down south is one I will never forget.
The same was true for the central Nebraska ice storm and even later the ice storm in southeastern Nebraska of unhappy memory. Both times we were able to respond with generators and gas vouchers along with money for needy families who could not work because businesses were closed due to the power outage. Then there was the earthquake in Haiti and the Tsunami in Japan. Over and over again, the loving people of the Diocese of Lincoln have responded lovingly and prayerfully.
Please remember to keep the living and deceased victims of this latest tragedy as well as the other ones mentioned in this column in your prayers. Let me take this opportunity to thank you once again for your generous and loving responses. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services will keep you, your families and intentions in our prayers.
Now that the visit of Dr. Gianna Emanuela Molla is close at hand, the details of her visit are solidified. I am elated to announce that she will be giving a talk to the public about her mother, St. Gianna, Wednesday, July 20 at 7 p.m. in the Cathedral of the Risen Christ. Please note this is a change from what I earlier stated in a previous Seedlings column.
Her mother St. Gianna, canonized by Blessed John Paul II in 2004, was born in Magenta, Italy October 4, 1922 to loving and faith-filled parents. During her early life she spent considerable time prayerfully discerning her vocation. After earning a medical degree from the University of Pavia in 1949, she opened a clinic in Mesero in 1950. After further training at the University of Milan she concentrated her efforts in pediatrics. Like other saints, she had an intense love for the Blessed Sacrament and the poor which affected her private life and her medical practice. She was involved in Catholic Action, helping young girls, and in the society of St. Vincent DePaul.
She married Pietro Molla on September 24, 1955 at the basilica of St. Martin in Magenta. They were blessed with Pierluigi in November 1956, Mariolina in December 1957, and Laura in July 1959. During the first trimester of her fourth pregnancy, she developed a fibrous tumor on her uterus. As a doctor, she understood the gravity of the condition, not only for herself, but for her unborn child. Instead of choosing a procedure which would have led to the death of her unborn baby, she chose a riskier procedure, the simple excision of the fibrous tumor, leaving intact her uterus containing her unborn child. She knew exactly what she was doing. Her heroic choice ultimately lead to her untimely death at the age of 39. She died one week after the birth of Gianna Emanuela on April 28, 1962. Shortly before her due date, she was quoted as saying to her husband Pietro, "If you must decide between me and the child, do not hesitate, choose the child, I insist on it. Save him." While dying and holding her little baby, she felt intense suffering knowing she wouldn’t be alive to raise her, but her joy was even greater, knowing her sacrifice saved her life. What a perfect patron for our home for women escaping domestic violence and abortion!
We are truly blessed that Dr. Gianna Emanuela Molla is coming to Lincoln to talk to the faithful about her mother St. Gianna and her father Pietro. She has followed in the footsteps of her mother and is also a medical doctor. My prayer is that we will see you in Lincoln to hear her speak if you are able. It’s not every day we are able to meet and hear the daughter of a canonized saint.
After her stop in Lincoln, Dr. Molla will be traveling to Kansas City, Kansas where she will be speaking at a conference entitled Being Faithful Even Unto Death, Catholic Wisdom on the Treatment of the Disabled and Dying, sponsored by the St. Gianna Physicians Guild. Other speakers include Cardinal Raymond Burke, the prefect of the Supreme Tribunal of the Apostolic Signatura. I hope to see you at the Cathedral of the Risen Christ Wednesday, July 20 at 7 p.m. Please pray for the safe travels of Dr. Molla to the United States and back to her home in Italy. St. Gianna, pray for us!
Last week, on Oct. 20, the Universal Church celebrated the memorial of St. Paul of the Cross. He was born in the town of Ovada in Genoa, Italy on Jan. 3, 1694, and was educated in a school for boys run by a local priest. From an early age he developed an ardent love for Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament while attending Mass daily with frequent visits and time spent in front of the Eucharist in adoration. Once during time in front of the tabernacle as a young boy, a heavy bench fell onto his foot causing a wound serious enough to cause considerable bleeding. He responded by thanking the Lord for "the rose sent from God."
As a young man he turned down an inheritance from an uncle along with a marriage proposal and decided to follow his calling to the priesthood. He went on to start a religious order, called the Passionists, which exist today with more than 2,200 members. It is said the only book he used during his long life of over eighty years was the cross. Did not St. Paul say, "For I decided to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified" (1 Cor 2:2)?
I love to point out that when gazing upon a crucifix, one can see all of the virtues. What humility it took for the God made man to allow Himself to mount the cross. What patience it took to remain silent as a lamb sent to the slaughter. We can see perfect obedience to the Heavenly Father. It would be beyond the scope of this brief column to elaborate further, but what love it took for love incarnate though innocent, to die for guilty adoptive brothers and sisters. Jesus said, "If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me" (Mk 8:34). Dying to self for the benefit of others was the example that countless men and women have followed since that horrific but salvific death on a Friday afternoon.
I am edified and most grateful to our many benefactors who continually share with us their time, talent, and treasure. Only students of the cross step out of themselves to make time to volunteer, and to donate funds to ease the sufferings of the members of the mystical body of Christ. Whenever I get on my knees and ask for help, God sends me someone or a group of people who respond to the need at hand, "Ask and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be open to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened" (Mt 7:7-8).
Please let me take this opportunity to thank once again those who support us with your prayers and penances, those who volunteer with their time and talent and those who support us monetarily for without you, there would not be a Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska. Next year, we will be celebrating our 80th year as an agency which was started during the Great Depression by Bishop Kucera. We are only here because of 80 years of love and support of those who read, study and live the textbook of the cross! May the souls of our deceased patrons rest in peace and may God bless you all!
Over the years, we at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska have learned to expect the unexpected. From small donations to large, from individuals young and old, God continues to inspire generous people of southern Nebraska to assist us in our mission of loving Jesus in the poor and needy (Mt 25:31-46).
When it comes to our food pantries, we are usually low during the summer and early fall months. This is understandable because donating food is easier to remember during the Advent, Christmas and Lenten seasons. I would like to thank all of our individual donors who have helped our pantries over these lean summer and early fall days. If not for all of you, we would have had to suspend giving food away to those who are in need.
Recently, an anonymous donor called and informed us that they had sent a check for $10,000 to Market Place IGA for food for our pantries. All that was necessary was to call and inform them what items we needed for delivery! In a few short days, we unloaded a semi-trailer full of food and essential paper products such as toilet paper. This was the ‘shot in the arm’ we needed to get us to the Advent and Christmas seasons. This was an answer to many of our prayers.
I would like to thank this generous soul for this tremendous gift and all our other donors who make what we do possible. Every year, we assist more than 20,000 individuals (23,000 last year) in a number of ways, including food. Thank you to all of our donors, large and small. In addition to these large gifts, there are countless other smaller donors, who send us money on a monthly basis. These smaller monthly donations add up quickly and are the backbone of our agency. We couldn’t exist without them as well. We are most grateful for them all.
Please know that we at Catholic Social Services of southern Nebraska will keep you in our thoughts and prayers!
When Moses saw the burning bush on Mount Horeb while tending the flock of his father-in-law Jethro, he noticed the bush, although on fire, wasn’t being consumed. As he approached it, he heard the Lord say, "Moses! Moses! … I am the God of your father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob" (Ex 3:1-22). After revealing Himself to Moses, he was given the lofty task of freeing his fellow Israelites from the slavery of Pharaoh.
One of the images of God the Holy Spirit is fire. When we cooperate with God after receiving His Divine Life into our souls after receiving the sacraments of baptism and confirmation (and especially with the frequent reception of the sacraments of confession and the Holy Eucharist), the fire of the Holy Spirit transforms us rather than consumes us.
On July 13, the Universal Church celebrated the memorial of St. Henry. While a young man, he had a vision of St. Wolfgang, the bishop of Ratisbon, who was responsible for his education. In the vision, St. Wolfgang pointed to the words, "After six." Thinking he would die in six years, he started preparing for a holy death in earnest. After the six years were up, he was elected emperor. Some would argue this was a sentence worse than death because of the grave responsibility before Almighty God for being a holy and just ruler.
Before his marriage to St. Cunegunda, they both vowed to live chaste lives in the pattern of Sts. Mary and Joseph. After his election he spent his time defending and promoting the growth and well-being of Holy Mother Church and the salvation of souls. Upon entering a city he sought out the nearest church dedicated to the Blessed Virgin Mary and kept watch all night in prayer. This dedication to prayer and the desire for holiness allowed the fire of the Holy Spirit to transform him into the saintly instrument of God that he was.
I often marvel at the generosity of our benefactors. Why does someone donate to Catholic Social Services? It is because the fire of the Holy Spirit has moved them to support the mission of loving Jesus present in the poor and needy. There is no other reason.
Recently, we helped a single woman living in her car escape homelessness. Without our generous donors across southern Nebraska she would still be living in her car. She is extremely grateful for your help, which was generated by the transforming fire of God the Holy Spirit.
Whether it is help with grants for counseling for individuals un-insured or under-insured, or help with emergency services like the woman described above, or help with material items of goods around the house not needed, our patrons have for almost 80 years assisted us as a result of the transforming nature of the fire of the Holy Spirit.
Please know that we at Catholic Social Services will continue to keep you, your families and intentions in our daily prayers. Sts. Mary, Joseph, Henry, Cunegunda, Wolfgang and the whole Heavenly Host, pray for us!!
It’s once again time for our annual Catholic Social Services Memorial Golf Tournament, dinner and auction. It will be held at Hillcrest Country Club (located on 9401 "O" Street) on Friday, Aug. 12.
This year we are honoring Father Mark Tasler. Father Tasler was born in Lake City, Iowa on April 25, 1954 to Norm and Arlene Tasler. Before entering the seminary, he traveled extensively as an employee of Frontier Airlines. He was ordained by Bishop Glennon Flavin on May 26, 1990.
He served in several parishes in the diocese of Lincoln, most recently as the pastor of St. Joseph Parish in York. He served the faithful with love and devotion as a reflection of the heart of Jesus Christ. In addition to an ardent love for Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament, Father Tasler exhibited a great love for the poor and needy and regularly golfed in the annual Catholic Social Services Memorial Golf Classic. He also had a great interest in supporting the seminarians of the Diocese of Lincoln. I will never forget his visit to Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary in Emmetsburg, Maryland shortly after I arrived. His prayers, kindness and support during that visit will never be forgotten. We are privileged and honored to hold this year’s memorial golf tournament in his honor.
As in previous years, there will be a variety of silent and live auction items to bid on. There is something for everyone! Some of the items include a 1981 Mercedes Benz 240 D, a one-week stay for up to six people at Tortuga Club, Grand Cayman Island, four tickets to the Denver Broncos/NY Jets game in Denver including accommodations and travel money, a Golf Nebraska package, a four-night stay in the luxurious Prairie House on Lake Sinissippi, Wisc. for up to eight people, several hunting trips in Nebraska, two tickets to the Nebraska/Ohio State football game, a snow blower, a lawnmower, a Braque du Bourbonnais puppy and many more items. To list them all would be beyond the scope of this brief column. The auction is slated to start around 7 p.m. and all are invited.
Usually we offer several pin flags autographed by sports celebrities. This year for those interested in politics, we have an autographed Catholic Social Services pin flag by Sarah Palin.
What is a Braque du Bourbonais you may ask? It is a French hunting dog which originated in the province of Bourbonais, France in the sixteenth century. Not only are these dogs noted for hunting, they are considered great family dogs. Included with this dog will be its initial exam and shots.
The success of this event is crucial to our mission of assisting the many needy individuals and families that come to us on a daily basis.
Writing this gives me yet another opportunity to thank our many benefactors. This includes our corporate sponsors, those who donated items for the auction, our golfers, golf committee members, staff and volunteers and of course the Tasler family who agreed to let us honor Father Tasler.
Eternal rest grant onto his soul O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and all the souls of the faithfully departed through the mercy of God rest in peace, Amen!
I am sometimes amazed at what comes ‘out of the mouths of babes.’ Recently a little boy named Joey Welty invited some of his friends to a Saltdogs game marking his birthday. Instead of bringing gifts he asked them to bring food for our St. Francis Food Pantry. After meeting at St. Joseph Church in Lincoln, they were driven to Haymarket Park for the game. Each child brought a bag of food for our pantry which was delivered personally by Joey.
When he arrived he said, "Hi Father, you can call me Joey!" After unloading the food (which filled the trunk of his mother Mary’s vehicle) we posed for a picture in our pantry with some barren shelves in the background. I explained we have a good supply of food during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays in addition to the season of Lent. I further explained that every year during the summer months our pantry shelves are low. I explained that this gift of food was timely and most appreciated.
Meanwhile, across town a group of children decided to hold a ‘Quarter Carnival’ for St. Gianna Women’s Homes. The host children were Rose, Grace and Joseph Seeman, Carlos, Olivia, Adelina and Celia Herrera, Ella Williams, Annie and Tess Timmerman and James Hansen. The carnival was held at one of the parent’s backyard.
Fortunately I was able to attend and was amazed at the variety of games held and the number of kids present. After all was said and done we were presented with a check of $118 to St. Gianna’s. Not bad for only one week of planning and advertising by word of mouth!
I would like to thank all of these children for their love of Jesus who lives in the poor and needy, and their parents because this behavior did not come out of a vacuum. This happened because of the love and example of their parents. Let us therefore not be amazed at what comes ‘out of the mouth of babes!’
I am happy to announce that it is once again time for our annual "Bountiful Harvest" celebration in Hastings, Nebraska! It will be held in the Hastings City Auditorium Sunday, Sept. 11. The social hour begins at 4:30 p.m. with the dinner/program at 6 p.m. This year we have so much to be thankful for because God has blessed us with a new site on West Second Street, our new St. John Vianney Center. We have named it after this saint who had a great love for the poor and needy. His powerful intercession was important in procuring this new site.
Now instead of paying rent for a social services office, a counseling office, and a thrift store we now own one site where all services are located. The savings are allowing us to help more individuals and families in need. Last year, because of the generosity of our donors, volunteers and staff we were able to help more than 7,300 individuals and 2,600 families in the south-central region of the diocese out of this office.
Located at 333 W. 2nd St., this beautiful new center is the site of our social services offices with a larger food pantry located on the ground floor, our Immaculate Heart Counseling Center with a separate entrance to the outside located on the second floor, our St. Joseph Gift & Thrift store, and a gated parking lot.
The jewel of our new center of course is Our Mother of Perpetual Help Chapel with the Blessed Sacrament. It is a beautiful chapel with stained-glass windows of the Holy Family and St. John Vianney. Now clients are free to stop in the chapel and spend time with Jesus in the Eucharist.
Out of one location we are now able to offer social services to those in need of rent and utility assistance, help with weatherizing their homes, material assistance with kitchen, school and cleaning supplies, diapers, car seats, clothing, personal care items, furniture, appliances, cars and other items not mentioned here. Also, through our grant system, we are able to assist those in need of counseling who are un-insured or under-insured. In addition to providing food to walk-ins, our St. Andrew Mobile Food pantry is going strong. Now food is purchased and trucked to more than a dozen smaller communities across southern Nebraska from the greater Hastings area all the way to Imperial and points in between.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank our generous donors to this yearly effort such as our Patron of Mercy, Corporate, Banquet, Table and individual sponsors as well as our Bountiful Harvest banquet and corporate committee members for their indispensable help. They truly love Jesus present in the poor and needy (Mt 25:31-46).
I hope to see many of you there Sept. 11. As we pray for the living and deceased victims of the tragic attack on our nation which occurred on this day, let us also pause to thank Almighty God for the selfless and generous people of southern Nebraska who make the existence of Catholic Social Services possible as we get closer to our 80th birthday! Please know that all of you are in our daily prayers!
St. John Vianney, pray for us!
On Friday, Aug. 26, during a Mass celebrated by Bishop Bruskewitz, our two new interns and the rest of our clinical staff took an oath of fidelity to the teachings of the Catholic Church. Our two new interns are Antony Bond from Institute of Psychological Sciences in Arlington, Va., and Maria Riccardi from Indiana State University in Terre Haute, Ind.
When one takes an oath of fidelity to the teachings of the Catholic Church one is taking an oath of fidelity to the truths Jesus Christ has revealed to us in Sacred Scripture and Tradition as guarded by the Magisterium. Before doing so, it is necessary to know what truth is and where it comes from. Those who claim to be atheists are unable to answer these two questions. When one knows the answer to the first question, there is no need to ask the second. The only logical conclusion for an atheist is that truth exists only because there is a God.
When Jesus stood before Pontius Pilate He said, " ‘For this I was born, and for this I have come into the world, to bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth hears my voice.’ Pilate said to him, ‘What is truth?’ (Jn 14:6)’ " We can be absolutely certain Pilate now knows what and who was standing before him that most important day.
Immediately after telling His disciples that He would go and prepare a place for them, Thomas asked Jesus, " ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going; how can we know the way?’ Jesus answered, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but by me (Jn 14:1-6).’ "
Not only is God truth, He is life, love, mercy, justice, etc. Unlike ourselves, these attributes of God are part of His very essence. We are not truth, life, love, mercy, justice, etc, but if we have God within ourselves we can possess them and with the grace of God practice them as virtues in a heroic manner similar to the saints and martyrs that have gone before us marked with the sign of faith.
Unfortunately, Christians worldwide are now being persecuted by the loss of conscience rights in the realm of the work place. Now instead of being forced to offer incense to idols or face torture and death as in the first few centuries of the Church, the choice now is between their professions or an action contrary to the faith.
When we recite the Nicene Creed each and every Sunday, let us recall the countless men and women, young and old, some mere children, who have suffered and died for the one Truth that is Jesus Christ. Let us be consoled because it is this truth that makes us free (Jn 8:32). This is what our baptismal promises require: living faithful lives. Let us do so not because of fear but because of love. Jesus said, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments" (Jn 14:15).
Please pray for the continued success of our clinical program in which the Catholic faith is incorporated into counseling. Because of the generous support of our benefactors, last year, we provided nearly $100,000 of aid to those who are un-insured or under-insured.
We are blessed to have Antony and Maria join our well trained clinical staff. Please be assured of our prayers for you!
I know a couple named ‘Clem’ and ‘Norma’ who in the past regularly purchased weekly lottery tickets. The numbers chosen were a compilation of their children’s ages. Each week they would take turns buying tickets, and together as they watched the evening news they eagerly waited for the end of the telecast as the news anchor announced the winning numbers. Even though the odds they would ever win were astronomical, they figured, "somebody has to win…"
Then one evening the unheard-of happened. The anchor announced their numbers. They were more than shocked, they were outright flabbergasted. They then knew what it was like to win the lottery. What a feeling! It was worth millions! Then the celebration began. I imagine their minds were reeling. ‘What will we do with the money? Then old Clem said to Norma, "Well Norma, where’s the ticket?" In a worried tone Norma responded, "Cut it out Clem! Don’t you have it? It was your turn to buy it!" Then Clem retorted, "No it wasn’t, it was your turn!" They suddenly realized there would be no jackpot in their lives. Easy come and easy go. It was something they joked about later in life.
Imagine the many people who dream of winning the lottery not realizing the greatest treasure lies right in front of their fingertips. This greatest treasure is not silver, gold or any other perishable thing (1 Pet 1:18) but God Himself who dwells among us (Jn 1:14). Not only does God dwell among us spiritually but corporally or physically in the Blessed Sacrament. The Catechism of the Catholic Church says, that the Eucharist is "the source and summit of the Christian life …for in the blessed Eucharist is contained the whole spiritual good of the Church, namely Christ himself, our Pasch" (CCC 1324).
Since the Blessed Sacrament is really Jesus Christ, not only are we encouraged to receive Him in this most august sacrament more than once a week if possible we are also encouraged to make time during our busy schedules to adore Him in our parish churches. In the Roman Ritual entitled, "Holy Communion and Worship of the Eucharist Outside Mass" it says, "The faithful should make every effort to worship Christ the Lord in the sacrament, depending upon the circumstances of their own life. Pastors should encourage them in this by example and word" (#80). This is what St. Ignatius of Antioch called, "the medicine of immortality" for when we regularly consume the Eucharist worthily we will be raised on the last day and live forever (Jn 6:53-58).
So far, Catholic Social Services has four chapels with the Blessed Sacrament which are open for not only our staff and volunteers but clients who come to us in need. Numerous clients have walked into our chapels off the street and have experienced the peace only God can give.
Recently we had exposition of the Blessed Sacrament in one of these chapels for the first time with a one hundred year old monstrance. It is my prayer that with volunteers, we can expand the times for Exposition. Please continue to pray for us during your time with Jesus in the Sacrament of the Altar as we pray for you!
Whatever happened to Clem and Norma? Fortunately, they were devoted to the Greatest Treasure and both died holy deaths. I am confident I will see them again!
I’m elated to announce that the second annual "That Takes the Cake, a Frosted Fundraiser" for St. Gianna’s Women’s Homes will be held Sunday, Oct. 16, from 1 to 4 p.m. at Pius X High School, 6000 A St., Lincoln. All the proceeds will be used to help women across the diocese who are escaping domestic violence and abortion.
As many know, St. Gianna’s has two locations: a 24-apartment site complete with a chapel dedicated to St. Gianna, and a three-bedroom home staffed by the Marian Sisters of the Diocese of Lincoln. They are assisted by a group of dedicated volunteers, wonderful ladies who are indispensable to our mission.
Our equally-dedicated board members of St. Gianna’s, mostly women, have been working hard planning this year’s event. Like last year, there are two divisions for entering cakes and more - professional and celebrity. I mention ‘more’ because this year, under the professional category, those entering may bake and decorate a cake, cupcakes, or a gingerbread home.
Those who attended last year were amazed at the incredible cakes entered. Words here are inadequate to describe them. All of these works of art will be auctioned off in a silent auction so they can be taken home, shown off, and eaten!
During the event, there will be a cake walk with incredible cakes and other items to take home. For those present last year, remember how much fun that was? In addition, there will be a cake-decorating demonstration and a cake-eating station where those attending may consume complimentary cake and refreshments courtesy of our sponsors!
There are a number of corporate sponsorship opportunities available: The Event Sponsor at $5,000; The Icing on the Cake Sponsor at $2,500; That Takes the Cake Sponsor at $1,000; and The Bakers Dozen Sponsor at $500.
For those busy celebrities in need of someone to bake their cakes, you’re in luck. For $100 we will find someone to do the baking and decorating. They can also customize the decorating to fit your ‘celebrity theme.’
Last year, I jokingly said, "real men make their own cakes!" and decided to make my grandmother Margaret’s super secret spice cake. I remember calling my mother and telling her, "Now mom, I really need to do this myself!" When I arrived at mom’s house, the cake was already in the oven.... Needless to say, I decorated it myself which was obvious to all, which garnered a lot of mercy votes. In the end, I was told that it tasted great.
Admission is $5 per person and $25 per family. Tickets are available at Catholic Social Services (located at 2241 O Street) during regular business hours and at the door the day of the event. For more information you may contact John McDermott at Catholic Social Services at 402-474-1600 or Deb Schulte at 402-217-0655 or 402-489-7326.
Just weeks ago a woman at St. Gianna’s related to the sisters that last year was the worst year of her life, but thanks to St. Gianna’s she now feels happy and safe. I hope to see you there at the event and may God bless you! St. Gianna, pray for us and for the success of this important event which will benefit women and their children in desperate need.
I am excited to announce that we will be holding our fourth annual Bishop Flavin Memorial Sporting Clay Tournament at Oak Creek Sporting Club (located near Brainard) Saturday, Oct. 22. All the proceeds will be used to ease and assist the suffering and needy across southern Nebraska.
As many of you know, the event was named after Bishop Glennon Flavin, who was an avid hunter and sportsman. The Oak Creek Sporting Club is located 3.25 miles off of Highway 92 on Road W, about 40 miles from Lincoln on Highway 79. Once at the club, follow the signs through the yard to the event.
What is sporting clays? It may be described as golf with a shotgun, with each station having clay targets flying to and fro from different challenging directions. Registration and shooting games are from 8 to 10 a.m. with the main event from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Lunch will be held at 1 p.m. with the raffle drawings and the awards ceremony. This year is no different than previous years as there are many prizes for our participants.
I am equally excited to announce that this year we will have a silent auction item, a handsome French Brittany Spaniel whose father I hunted with. They are tremendous hunters, retrievers and make great family dogs. My administrative assistant Pat has been puppy-sitting "Gabe" and has nothing but good things to say about this little guy. He is well on his way to being housebroken and has not had any inside accidents. He is kennel-trained and sleeps through the night. This particular puppy’s father is a show dog with a bloodline having numerous champions and his mother is a field dog specializing in pheasants and quail. She also has champions in her bloodline. While walking in the park, his nose is to the ground, sniffing, and he loves water. He has been ‘wormed’ and has had his distemper and Parvo shot. And yes, he is very cute!
We are blessed that each year we have women shooters who keep us men on our toes. The first year we held this event, I was on the same team as Char Kriz, who broke many more sporting clays than I did. I just got over it last week and only now am able to joke and write about it… So you ladies who pack heat, please consider registering! Last year’s event was a "blast" and this year’s promises to be bigger and better!
Please pray for the success for this year’s event. Our patron saint for this event is St. Gabriel of the Sorrowful Mother. St, Gabriel, pray for us and for the success of this year’s event!
For registration information, visit www.cssisus.org. To place a bid on the puppy, call (402)430-5626.
At our annual Celebration of Caring and Bountiful Harvest banquets, we present details on the services we provide at Catholic Social Services. Those who have attended or have read our publications know there are two arms of the agency - clinical and social services.
Our social services include emergency services (including our fixed and mobile food pantries), disaster relief, refugee and immigration services, and our St. Christopher car program to name a few.
Our clinical services are directed by Dr. Aaron Stratman. He oversees our Immaculate Heart Counseling Center in Lincoln and our nine satellite offices in Auburn, David City, Falls City, Hastings, Nebraska City, the Newman Center, Our Lady of Guadalupe Center, Plattsmouth and Wahoo. Our staff currently consists of four licensed psychologists, five master-level mental health therapists, and two pre-doctoral interns.
Our highly-trained mental health professionals provide individual, group, and family therapy to individuals young and old. They utilize the best psychological theories and techniques while incorporating elements of the Catholic faith. We accept most insurance plans and Medicare, and have a grant system for individuals who are un-insured or under-insured, thanks to the generous support of the people of southern Nebraska. Last fiscal year through this grant system, we provided over $100,000 in services to those who were unable to pay.
Services are provided for most psychological difficulties including, anxiety, depression, marital difficulties, behavioral problems, addiction, eating disorders, parenting, bipolar, and personality disorders, and post-abortion counseling. In addition, we answer the Project Rachel/post-abortion counseling hotline for the entire state of Nebraska. Dr. Stratman also directs our APA-accredited, pre-doctoral internship program that is part of the Nebraska Internship Consortium for Professional Psychology.
I am excited to announce that Catholic Social Services has added two new mental health professionals to our highly-trained staff. Heather McQuillan, M.S. joined the CSS Clinical Team in July. She earned her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of Nebraska, as well as her Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. Heather brings experience with children, teens, and young adults, as well as marital therapy. In September, Heather also began providing services at a new satellite office in Wahoo.
Marcel Lanahan also recently joined our clinical staff. Marcel graduated from Notre Dame and earned a Master of Arts in counseling from the Franciscan University in Steubenville, OH. He will be spending his time in the Falls City, Auburn, and Nebraska City satellite sites. He will be able to counsel individuals and couples including children for their mental health needs.
We are blessed to have both Heather and Marcel join our highly-trained staff of counselors who are dedicated to serve the people of southern Nebraska. You can be confident that our staff will continue to provide top quality mental health services while incorporating elements of the Catholic faith. Let me once again thank our benefactors who donate to Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska. Because of our generous donors we will be able to continue serving those who need our services but for some reason are un-insured or under-insured. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!
vI've heard it said, "There is nothing like going to the dump!" For those who feel this way, I respectfully disagree. Over the past 12 months, I have gone on at least four "dump runs," two that are personal and two for CSS.
I remember one such time I borrowed a van without seats and drove to my parents’ home. I had intended to spend the day clearing brush in their back yard and taking it to the local landfill.
Upon arriving and opening the garage door, I gazed upon the 30-plus years of "stuff" piled in the garage and thought, "Now is the time to purge this garage of all of this ‘junk’!" Some went in the van for a dump run, the rest of the good items were set aside for Catholic Social Services.
After opening all of the doors of the van, I started loading up the many items that have been collecting dust for decades. There was an old screen door, old pieces of wood (sorry, Harry…) and many other sundry items. Soon the seat-less van was completely filled with items ‘squirreled’ away over a 30-year period.
Upon arriving at the city dump I rolled down the window and smelled an old familiar odor, one that will never be used as a cologne or aftershave fragrance. After paying the customary fee, I was given directions to where to ‘dump’ the contents of the van.
After waiting in line for a moment, I backed the van up and threw the items with reckless abandon into a pile already present. It was a liberating feeling, and I drove away feeling free. Yes, the dump is a place where one can take their problems and leave them there.
When I hear, "There is nothing like going to the dump," I say, "Isn’t going to confession like this?"
When someone goes to confession, they may have to wait in line for a moment after which they take their garbage of sin inside the confessional. After absolution, they walk away liberated, with their souls cleansed. The penance given is like paying the dump fee.
But let none of us wait till the garage is filled with ‘stuff,’ or our souls with sin. Let us throw out what is bad and donate what is good to CSS on a regular basis, and receive the sacrament of penance frequently to rid ourselves of sin and to receive a frequent dose of grace, or God’s divine life.
While talking about dump runs, most material donations to Catholic Social Services are wonderful, but every once in a while people bring us items that are only good for the dump, hence the need for us to go on periodic dump runs. This necessitates having several box trucks which are used to pick up items from generous people like you, delivering items to the poor and needy and on occasion going to the city dump.
Because of the daily use of our trucks, we are now in need of another box truck. We have found a 2003 Ford E-350 with a 14-foot box with low miles for only $12,750. With a trade-in and some money that has come in we are only in need of $3,000 to make the deal work.
We are praying that some generous souls will come forth so we can keep on trucking…
Thanks to all of our benefactors and please remember, you are all in our daily prayers!
Recently, we added another town to our St. Andrew Mobile Food Pantry program: Minden.
For those who are not familiar with this relatively new program, we at Catholic Social Services decided that since many families across the Diocese of Lincoln cannot come to one of our fixed food pantries, we needed to figure out a way we could serve those living outside the areas served by them. Since we have a fleet of large box trucks, we decided we would, on a regular basis, purchase food and truck it to towns across southern Nebraska. Since the inception of this program, we have been slowly adding cities to the list.
At each mobile pantry, we work with the local pastor and parish volunteers for the distribution of the food pantries in locations such as the parish hall. So far it has been a huge success and is growing.
A few weeks ago, our St. Andrew Mobile Food Pantry traveled to Minden to serve needy families in Kearney County. Father Nicholas Baker greeted us with open arms, along with a group of parish volunteers and 25 students from Minden High School. We were set up for the distribution of canned goods, frozen meats, and lots of bakery items in record time. Father Baker told me, "I am amazed at how much food was given away!"
We served 75 families, totaling 248 individuals, at this first-time Mobile Pantry in Minden. Families were very grateful for the additional boxes of food. A young mom with three children was especially grateful. With tears in her eyes she told Christine Cook, "You have no idea what this means to me my husband and our kids. My husband’s income is all we have and his hours got cut several weeks ago. We really needed the extra help, thank you so much!"
It wasn’t long ago a tearful elderly woman and her middle-aged daughter told another volunteer at another site, "Thank you so much! We literally did not know where our next meal was coming from!" Stories like this abound, one of the reasons our volunteers keep on helping.
As of the time of this writing, we are now serving Ashland, Auburn, Crete, David City, Falls City, Geneva, Fairbury, Hebron, Minden, Tecumseh, Wahoo, Seward, Superior, Sutton, Harvard, Holdrege, Orleans and Imperial. In addition to these cities, we have made plans to add Shelby to the list in 2012.
I would like to extend a special thanks to our benefactors who donate to Catholic Social Services so we can purchase the food for this sorely needed program, the pastors whose support is essential for its success, and our staff and our many volunteers from the parishes. Without them, this program would have failed at the onset.
Didn’t we all see some of the white stuff to remind ourselves that summer is gone and winter is here? Now that the temperatures are falling, the shorts, short-sleeved shirts and sandals are now in the closets waiting for next spring. We are all getting out our long-sleeved shirts, sweaters, mittens, gloves, stocking hats, winter coats, thermal underwear and boots. In the midst of this yearly exchange it is easy to think nothing other than wishing we lived somewhere warmer.
Recently as I was walking across the parking lot on a cold morning, I was stopped by a man I estimate to be in his early thirties. After saying hello, he asked me if we were hiring. While stating we did not have any openings I noticed he was wearing only a light windbreaker. "Do you have a winter coat?" I asked. "No, this is all that I have!"
Shortly after this conversation, he left our office with a warm, heavy leather coat, gloves and a sack of food that some generous persons donated to us.
Then there is the story of a young man battling cancer without any warm clothing either. He came to us asking for assistance. He was referred to us by a concerned individual who knew in her heart that we would help him. Looking back, he had the look of someone in dire need. For some people, asking for help is the hardest thing to do. After further questioning, and a home visit, we found out he was heating his small apartment with his oven with the door opened and needed furniture as well. Only because of our loving patrons were we able to give him some warm winter clothing, food, pay his utility bill, help him obtain his medicines to battle his cancer and bring over some needed furniture.
I wish I had a dollar for every time John McDermott has said, "Father, your Seedlings column is the most powerful tool we have to spread the word!" We could have a pizza party for all of our volunteers! Every time I have mentioned a need in this column, generous loving people have responded. Not only are we truly grateful for the help of our benefactors, I am not kidding when I say we pray for you every day as an agency.
Every year around this time, people from across the diocese donate winter coats, sweaters, scarves, gloves, mittens, boots, stocking hats, and other warm winter clothing items to Catholic Social Services. Now that we have four permanent sites, distributing them to those in need is getting easier every year.
Please consider donating any of the above mentioned items to one of our four sites across the diocese, Imperial, Hastings, Lincoln or Auburn. In addition, if you know of anyone in need of warm winter clothing, please contact us so we can make arraignments to getting the needed clothing to those individuals and families who need them. By working together, we will continue making a difference in the lives of many.
Please know that we at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska will keep you, your family and intentions in our prayers. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary, St. Joseph and all of the angels and saints in Heaven, pray for us!
There are three legs to the stool of stewardship: ‘time, talent and treasure.’ As we celebrate Thanksgiving with family and friends, let us remind ourselves of the many blessings God has bestowed on us. The first and greatest gift God has given us is the gift of Himself in the Blessed Sacrament. This is the pearl of great price that the finder went to purchase after selling everything he owned in order to obtain it (Mt 13:45-46).
There are two aspects under the category of ‘treasure,’ material and cash donations. As you might know, items donated to Catholic Social Services are either given away to a needy individual or family, or sold at reduced amounts and the proceeds used to fund our many programs such as grants for counseling services for uninsured or underinsured persons, or for emergency services such as rent, utility assistance, or for some other critical need.
Recently, a woman came into one of our four thrift stores looking for a freezer to purchase. "What size do you need?" One of our staff members asked. "One big enough to hold 10 raccoons!" After hearing this, I did some checking and the most interesting recipe was for raccoon in a sour cream sauce… I think I will stick with beef, chicken, pork and turkey. I have no idea what she and her family are having for Thanksgiving.
Then there are the many turkeys that have been donated to Catholic Social Services. I would like to thank the handful of benefactors who donated turkeys to us. Because of you, many needy families will be able to enjoy a delicious baked turkey dinner complete with the trimmings. We have had several ‘turkey giveaways’ in multiple locations across the diocese.
Just days ago we received a call concerning a young pregnant woman in need. Even though she is not at risk of having an abortion and is not a victim of domestic violence she is homeless and in need of some medical attention. Since the shelters in town are full, we immediately checked her into an extended stay motel while we find her an apartment she can afford. Since she does not have the money for the security deposit, we will be able to help her with this along with furniture, and other needed kitchen and house ware items necessary to make an apartment a home. Without our generous donors she would be spending Thanksgiving on the street. As one of our staff members met her at the motel, she was given some needed food. We are also making sure she will be receiving the necessary medical help.
The two other legs of the stool of stewardship belong together. They are ‘time and talent,’ and perhaps are the most difficult of the three in many ways. We have multiple volunteer opportunities at Catholic Social Services. The most difficult part is finding the time to participate. Before writing this column Curt Krueger said, "Father, make sure and ask for more volunteers for St. Gianna’s!" We especially need help over Christmas. I am very grateful to our many loving and dedicated volunteers some of which have been with us for years.
I would like to thank all our many benefactors who help us with their time, talent and treasure. Without you, there would not be a Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska! Our prayer is that you have a blessed and happy Thanksgiving!
Now that the largest site of St. Gianna Women’s Homes has been open for more than six months, there are many moving stories to share.
Even though each woman’s story is different, each share one common element: all of the women at St. Gianna’s have fled a violent situation and now feel safe and secure. Since we are also concerned about the spiritual well-being of our residents, I am happy to announce that a baby of one of the ladies who fled to save him from abortion has been baptized. This beautiful boy, created in God’s image and likeness, now has the Blessed Trinity indwelling in his soul.
I am elated to announce that our annual concert, An Evening With Ellen & Friends: Celebrating the Season, a benefit for St. Gianna Women’s Homes, will be held Sunday, Dec. 11 at the Rococo Theater, 140 N 13th St., Lincoln. Hors d’oeuvres will be served at 6 p.m. and the concert will start at 7 p.m. Tickets are $50 per person and all proceeds will help support St. Gianna Women’s Homes.
I would like to thank recording star Ellen Soukup along with her special guest Gene Klosner, who will be performing with her. Performing with them are Father Dave Korth, Ellen’s husband John and their daughter Carolyn, and The Spectrum Singers from Pius X High School in Lincoln.
Also back by popular demand is Dr. Cary Ward and his CSS Concert Band! In addition to this star-studded lineup, there will be some special surprises. Please be reminded that like last year, there are multiple levels of corporate sponsorship opportunities available.
What could be more satisfying than listening to great music and singing, satisfying multiple taste buds with delicious finger foods and desserts, while knowing that your support will directly benefit women who have and will be escaping violent abusers - some of whom have and will be escaping to save their unborn babies?
If I have heard it once, I have heard it many times from the three Marian Sisters at St. Gianna’s: when these ladies see their new home, furnished with beautiful furniture and beds adorned with lovely quilts handmade from ladies all across the diocese, they weep.
There is a special room at St. Gianna’s where these ladies can "shop" at no charge for household, hygiene and other items given to us by our generous donors. Since we are in the seventh month of the project, some are already ready to move on to a safe and permanent location. Because of our generous benefactors, we are able to help them with the same items when they move out, including furniture for their new homes.
I would like to thank Ellen and her talented friends, our corporate sponsors, and everyone involved in planning this year’s concert. I would like to thank in a special way Spirit Catholic Radio because without them, this concert would not be a reality.
For those of you who are free and able to attend this yearly event, I look forward to seeing you Dec. 11. For those who cannot, please pray for the success of this important yearly endeavor. Together, we can help these women and their children in need. St. Gianna, pray for us!
To reserve your tickets, call Lisa at (402) 450-5529. The reservation deadline is Dec. 6.
Not long ago on a flight to somewhere, I found myself sitting in an aisle seat next to an individual sitting next to the window who seemed like they had an allergy to priests.
Not only did this person seem depressed and angry, this individual either looked out the window or downward - always away from me. After takeoff, I reached into my pocket and pulled out my concealed weapon which cleared security, my rosary beads. Does anyone else look upon these powerful beads as bullets that scatter demons and help us grow in holiness?
After 15 minutes or so I holstered my weapon and said to the person next to me, "I just said that rosary for you!" Then came a cry for help. Soon after the tears slowed, I found myself hearing the person’s confession. After some brief spiritual counsel and the words "I absolve you from your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit," I now gazed on a face that reflected peace and joy. I have often recalled this event in my mind and prayed for this individual since that providential meeting in the clouds and thought how much this person would have benefited from counseling that incorporates elements of the Catholic faith.
There are many reasons why individuals become wounded psychologically. Let us remember, not every individual responds the same way after the trauma of abuse, domestic violence, abortion, divorce, marital infidelity, or after one of the many other causes not listed.
Recently, the director of counseling services at the Immaculate Heart of Mary Counseling Center at Catholic Social Services, Dr. Aaron Stratman, attended the Healing Vision International Conference. This conference focused on deepening the understanding of the aftermath of abortion and was organized by Vicki Thorn, the foundress of Project Rachel. Dr. Stratman was able to attend, in part, by a generous contribution from the Knights of Columbus Council #10510 at St. Peter Church, of which he is a member.
The conference confirmed the overwhelming evidence of the devastating, severe, and long-lasting emotional, psychological and spiritual difficulties an abortion can have on mothers, fathers, and on society in general. While many of you probably know about these negative effects, the hope often lies in the services and the specialized counseling that the IHM Counseling Center provides throughout the state. I know that Dr. Stratman is planning to select the most interesting and palatable information from the conference and present that information to many parishes.
Remember, God’s ocean of mercy is infinite and available to anyone who seeks it. If you or someone you love, a mother, father, grandparent, sibling, or friend has been affected by an abortion, please call the Project Rachel hotline at 1-888-456-HOPE (4673) to schedule an appointment with one of our Project Rachel counselors. Not only will someone be willing to listen with love and empathy, they will also be able to direct the person to a priest who will offer God’s mercy through the sacraments. Sometimes it’s hard to accept God’s mercy unless we remove the psychological impediments. There is help. There is hope! Immaculate Heart of Mary, Pray for us!
Vehicle donations to Catholic Social Services are very important. When a generous soul donates a car, truck or van, we either give it to a needy individual or family, place it into our fleet so we can take clients to doctor appointments etc, pick up bread and smaller items, or they are sold and the profits used to fund our many important programs.
A number of years ago some generous patron donated a white F-150 Ford pickup truck to CSS. She isn’t the prettiest truck on the road, but she comes in handy when we need to pick up or deliver smaller items, or when our bigger box trucks are tied up. Old Father even uses it from time to time when needed. Although the cosmetic defects were of no concern, the tailgate was broken. This made it difficult to use and gave us something to "offer up."
Not long after adding this to our fleet, a homeless man from out of town showed up. "Father, I need your help!"
Since it was so long ago, I cannot remember exactly what we did to help him (we help more than 20,000 people each year). A few days later, while struggling with the broken tailgate he said, "Father, thank you very much for helping me! What can I do to repay you? Can I fix your tailgate?" "No," I relied, "It’s OK." Despite his insistence, I declined his offer.
A few days later, I noticed a different tailgate on our white truck. The old, broken, white tailgate had been removed and was replaced with a blue tailgate - which was painted over with white paint. It was a hurried job, done with a paint brush and with a lot of blue showing. It was obvious we had a ‘hot blue tailgate’ on our hands. As for the mechanically-inclined homeless man, we never saw him again. I wonder why….
I immediately called the police and explained that a grateful client had stolen a blue tailgate, painted it over with white paint, and installed it on our old white pickup.
After some laughter, the officer informed me that no one had reported one stolen, but if he did, he would tell them where to find us. That was almost four years ago, and the truck is still in good running order, and we use it frequently.
This is not unusual – it is not uncommon that clients who receive help at Catholic Social Services often become supporters of some kind – although usually not by breaking the seventh commandment. What was unusual in this case was the manner in which he helped us.
It is true that charity is ‘infectious.’ When our loyal donors help us spiritually with their prayers, materially with donated items around the house or farm not needed, or financially with a cash donation according to their means, their love spreads. "God is love" (1 Jn 4:8, 16), and "We love, because he first loved us" (1 Jn 4:19). When we love our neighbor, it causes them to in turn love us and others in return.
As we continue our Advent journey to Christmas, remember that it was at that first Christmas we received the greatest gift of all, of God Himself into our lives as a little baby. To all of our generous donors, thank you! Please know that you are in our daily prayers!
Ever since the opening of St. Gregory the Great Seminary on the south end of Seward, there have always been cats.
The cats are a helpful addition, keeping mice, rats and other pests at bay within the confines of the seminary grounds. I usually see them when I go there to teach since their cat house is near the entrance where I park my car.
As one might expect, each year one of the female cats gives birth to a batch of cute kitties. They are fast learners. One of their most important lessons is to stay away from moving cars.
Last fall was no exception. After the birth of a fine-looking bunch of furry little felines, one of the slower learners was injured by someone’s car. After the tragic accident, the little kitty was left paralyzed from the waist down. As much as the little guy tried and tried to walk, it managed only to claw its way forward with its front paws while dragging the rest of its limp body forward. Because of this and the associated pain, the consensus was to put it down. It seemed like the right thing to do and everyone agreed except for Sister Fetzer (an alias).
As soon as Sister Fetzer became aware of the plan, the nameless kitty disappeared from sight. No one knew of his whereabouts. She cleverly hid the little guy in the only place she figured no one would dare to look – her bathtub. Soon, after considerable prayer, love and care, little Gimpy was back running with the rest of the pack, albeit with a gimp.
"He runs pretty good," said Father James Divis, the seminary’s spiritual director who pointed out that since Sister Fetzer is still among us, it would be premature to begin her cause for canonization. I was cautioned by Father Rafael Rodriguez after he learned of my desire to write about this, "Be careful! This place might turn into a cat infirmary!"
Consider what God has done for fallen, sinful, paralyzed humanity destined to be put down eternally. Not willing to write us off, God Himself became a little baby born in utter poverty, lived in utter poverty and died in utter poverty on the altar of the cross, stripped of the very clothes on His back.
As you ponder the mystery of Christmas, remember it was God who reached down from heaven and placed us in the arc of the Church at our baptisms, continues to sustain us with the grace of the sacraments, most especially with the food that leads to eternal life - the Eucharist. He has done this in order to save our lives so we can all run, dance and leap with joy eternally without any ‘gimps’ where we will see God face to face.
Let us spend our every waking moment concerning ourselves with those around us paralyzed in sin. Let us hide them in our hearts as we help nurse them back to health by our prayers and penances.
It is our prayer at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska that you have a blessed and merry Christmas and Christmas season. Please remember that the Christmas season extends all the way to January 9, where the Universal Church celebrates the Feast of the Baptism of Jesus in the Jordan River by St. John the Baptist. Infant Jesus, have mercy on us, Ss. Mary and Joseph, pray for us!
As the Christmas Season draws to a close, let us ponder the words of one of the better-known priests of the old covenant Zechariah, the husband of Elizabeth (a cousin of the Blessed Virgin Mary the Mother of God) and the father of John the Baptist.
As you recall, he was temporarily struck dumb because he didn’t believe the words of the archangel Gabriel who told him his wife Elizabeth, well past childbearing age, would bear him a son who he was to name John.
On the eighth day after the birth of John the Baptist, having been filled with the Holy Spirit, his tongue was finally loosed, after which he prophesied, "Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, for he has visited and redeemed his people" (Lk 1:68). Another translation is rendered, "Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel; he has come to his people and set them free."
Although not exclusive to Catholic Social Services, one of its areas of service is to those who are incarcerated in prison. That said, there are a number of priests of the diocese who regularly minister and visit prisoners in prisons and jails across southern Nebraska.
Last year, one of the priests who visit inmates for CSS had the privilege of getting to know a man who started coming to his bible study/catechism class. After a while, the man in confidence told the priest the details of his life, the circumstances of his arrest and incarceration, and that he was recently diagnosed with terminal cancer. Immediately after hearing what kind of cancer he had, the priest figured the man had about six months to live. Before long, the man received the sacrament of penance (Jn 20:23) and the Blessed Sacrament (Mt 26:26-28; Mk 14:22-24; Lk 22:19-20; Jn 6:48-59; 1 Cor 11:23-29). He then started attending Mass on a regular basis.
Visiting prisoners in the prison hospital is a unique experience. After clearing security, walking through a metal detector and getting patted down, one is led to the hospital ward. Each individual room is locked. The big metal doors are unlocked and locked each and every time the patient needs something.
When the time drew near, the visiting priest obtained the needed permission to bring the oil of the sick to the dying man. After a wonderful conversation, the man received the sacraments once again, including confession and the anointing of the sick (James 5:14-15).
The peace and joy of the sick man will never be forgotten by the priest and most likely by the prison staff. Not long after this, the priest offered the holy Sacrifice of the Mass for his happy repose.
"Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel; he has come to his people and set them free." Of course this means that the Son of God took on flesh to save us from the slavery of sin and death and the power of the devil. This is what he sets us free from. As for the man mentioned above, while in prison, after turning to Christ, he was set free from sin and the devil and after death, he was set free from his physical imprisonment.
Please pray for the many men and women who are in the jails and prisons across the diocese and for the priests and laity who care for them spiritually. Please pray for our benefactors who support prison ministry for Catholic Social Services for with their support bibles and other good Catholic reading materials can be purchased for the inmates, all for the purpose of setting them free.
Recently I received a phone call from a father of seven children. He was either en route to the store or inside with several of his youngest. Before I knew it I heard the oldest girl, now 5, say with excitement, "Mommy has a new baby boy in her tummy!"
Her father said that while unwrapping presents on Christmas, the girl stated in a serious tone, "Daddy, when the baby is born, he’ll think that Christmas is about presents!" Her dad replied, "That’s right; we will need to teach him everything." Not satisfied, she continued, "We are going to have to teach him that Christmas is all about Jesus!" Out of the mouth of babes… the greatest gift ever given to us by God the Father is the gift of His Son.
On Jan. 4, the Universal Church celebrated the memorial of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton. Canonized by Pope Paul VI in 1975, she is the first native born citizen to be canonized. She was born in 1774 to a father who was a physician and to a mother whose father was an Episcopal priest. At 19, she married William Seton, a wealthy businessman who specialized in imported goods from Europe. She and her husband had five children and experienced much prosperity early in their marriage. She and her friends were part of the ‘High Society’ of New York City.
Soon tragedy struck. In the year 1802, because of the naval blockade by Britain during the Napoleonic wars and the loss at sea of several of his ships, William Seton was forced to declare bankruptcy. Soon after this he contracted a severe case of tuberculosis. Before long, on the recommendation of his physician, they found themselves in Italy because of the warmer and dryer weather. It was there that William died and Elizabeth was exposed to the truths of the Catholic faith.
After returning home she found herself sitting in the pews of her Episcopalian church, gazing out the window at the Catholic parish down the street with our Lord Jesus saying, "I’m over here, in the Blessed Sacrament!" After her conversion, her friends disowned her.
The rest of the story is history. With the help of Father Dubourg and Samuel Cooper, she started the Sisters of Charity, St. Joseph’s Academy and a Free School for the education of poor girls. She spent the rest of her life giving herself to them without counting the cost.
Shouldn’t we be saying to our Heavenly Father, "Abba, Father, when your children are born, unless they are shown your Son, they will think life is all about the things of this world that are passing away?" We should never be satisfied until we follow in the footsteps of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton and be committed to teach people we come into contact with by our love that life is all about the birth, death and resurrection of Jesus. Only He can lead us to our true home. He leads us by His self-sacrificial love. Let us all be imitators of this self-sacrificial love. Even before her conversion to the Catholic faith, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton was dedicated to helping the poor. This only amplified after her conversion. Thanks to the self sacrificial love of our donors, we are celebrating our 80th birthday this year!! St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, pray for us!
I'm sure the decision to sign up for RCIA was a long time coming. RCIA, for those who might not be familiar with this acronym, stands for the Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults. It is within RCIA that an un-baptized or baptized non-Catholic takes classes in a parish setting with the ultimate goal of joining the Catholic Church. In addition to individuals who intend to enter the Catholic Church, others attend the classes just to learn about the Catholic faith which sometimes leads to a conversion. The classes usually start in the fall and finish with those entering the Church at the Easter Vigil.
As an individual progressed through RCIA classes in one of the parishes in southern Nebraska, it came to the attention of her pastor that in addition to some serious medical issues, she was living without any heat. After learning of her situation, he suggested contacting Catholic Social Services. She now has heat and is up-to-date on her rent. With the involvement of one of our case managers, we will be able to help her gain back her independence. Imagine how hard it must have been studying about the Catholic faith in a cold apartment while counting down the days to homelessness.
Next month, Catholic Social Services will be celebrating its 80th birthday in the context of its annual Celebration of Caring Banquet which will be held at the Cornhusker Hotel on Sunday, Febr. 19. The social time begins at 4:30 p.m. and the dinner program at 6 p.m.
Catholic Social Services was started by Bishop Louis Kucera in the midst of the Great Depression, to help needy individuals and families. Imagine how hard it must have been to fundraise during those hard times. For the past 80 years, the people of Southern Nebraska have been helping needy families and individuals like the one mentioned above through the loving arms of Catholic Social Services. Last year, with the help of our benefactors, CSS has helped more than 20,000 people. It is a tremendous testimony of the loving and generous nature of our donors.
As many of you know each year we honor an individual or a group of individuals by giving them the Cor Christi award. This award is given to those whose works of charity are a reflection of the Heart of Christ. This year we will be honoring Ruth McKinstry and Don Steward. Ruth has been a long time volunteer for Matt Talbot and other agencies, including Catholic Social Services. Don has been a volunteer from the beginning at St. Louise Gift & Thrift Store and is responsible for the men’s clothing section. One glance at the department will tell you how dedicated he is. Both have given of themselves tirelessly for the love of Jesus Christ present in their neighbor.
I hope those who are able will join us at the banquet to help us thank Almighty God for His abundant blessings over the past 80 years. If not, please help us thank and ask Him through the powerful intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, St. Joseph and the rest of the angels and saints that we will be able to continue fulfilling the mandate to love Jesus in the poor and needy (Mt 25:31-46). Let us also remember in our prayers, the countless clergy, religious, staff and volunteers of CSS who have died over the last 80 years. Finally, please never forget that we at Catholic Social Services will continue to keep you and your intentions in our prayers!!
Every once in awhile, I will pound out the notes of the song, "Oh What a Beautiful Morning" from the musical "Oklahoma" when passing a piano. Invariably, if others are in earshot, I often hear, "I had no idea you knew how to play the piano, Father!"
"I don’t," I always say.
As a little boy, my parents signed me up for piano lessons with Mrs. Yechout. I will never forget those lessons as long as I live. I cannot remember how long my lessons lasted, but after a while, because of my insistence, I quit. The only thing I remember is the song, "Oh What a Beautiful Morning."
Quitting piano lessons is one of the two childhood decisions I regret most, the other is retiring from baseball in the seventh grade (because of my allergy to bench splinters). I retired with a lifetime average of .333 (I only batted three times).
I am reminded of the former regret every February for the last eight years when I hear the talented Dorothy Applegate play the piano as she accompanies the talented trumpet players in our annual "Trumpet Fest," without using any sheet music.
That said, I am delighted to announce that our ninth annual Trumpet Fest will be held Sunday Feb. 12, at 3 p.m. in the auditorium at Pius High School in Lincoln.
Every year, Kevin Murray of Murray’s for Men of Stature coordinates this wonderful event. This year our performers include, Kevin Murray, Mac McCune, Darryl White, Dorothy Applegate, Barb Schmit, Dean Haist, Jeff Patton, Brad Obbink, Debbie Bouffard, UNL Trumpet Studio students, and back by popular demand, fourth-grader Maria Pytlik. Other performers will be later announced.
Every year I am amazed at the talent and quality of the music. Not only were all of our musicians smart enough not to quit their music lessons as children, they all have been blessed by Almighty God with incredible talent.
During the event, a hat will be passed for a free-will offering which will help us assist poor and needy individuals and families across the diocese. I hope to see you there for a little dose of ‘good music.’ Thanks for your love for Jesus who lives in the poor and please remember you are in our prayers!
As most of you know, the two arms of our agency are clinical and social services. One of the vital and necessary elements of our clinical services is our Project Rachel or post abortion counseling program. Many women and men after having chosen an abortion suffer from an internal wound for the rest of their lives. Our mental health professionals are highly trained and ready to counsel these men and women who carry this wound inside often hidden from their family and friends.
One of the services that the Immaculate Heart of Mary Counseling Center provides is responding to the Project Rachel post-abortive ministry hotline number for the state of Nebraska. One recent call which came to my attention illustrates the important role your prayers play in supporting the pro life movement.
This call actually originated out of state. A woman contacted Dr. Stratman because she was considering an abortion, even though she identified as a Christian who did not believe in abortion.
In her mind, she was in a "lose-lose" situation. If she had the baby out of wedlock, she would be alienated from her family and fiancé (who was not the father of the child). In addition, she believed she would ruin the life of her child’s father, a married man. If she chose to abort the baby, she would have to live with the secret, guilt, shame, depression, anger, and the possibility that all of the aforementioned consequences would occur anyway if her secret was discovered.
Of course, this call is relatively typical for the Project Rachel hotline. Mothers, fathers, and grandparents will call to obtain information and support for avoiding an abortion. Our counselors are trained to discuss these situations with the callers and direct them to the services they need. It is sometimes difficult when a woman who is considering or seeking an abortion calls the hotline. Listening to their stories and entering in to their wounded heart is part of the process that can help move a woman away from an abortion. They begin to feel understood and safe. They begin to understand that the decision they are making is life or death, just not their life and death.
We are not sure what the woman decided to do from the above call. At the end of the call, she was calm and thinking more rationally. She was quite intelligent and articulate, and she knew she needed to consider whether giving her baby the chance to contribute to her life and to our lives. All she needed to hear was someone who would give her the sense that she was able to endure the positive stress of having a baby much easier than the negative stress of having an abortion. When we receive calls from women considering abortion and are not sure what they will do, we name, spiritually adopt, and pray for the baby and her mother for the next nine months. I invite you to spiritually adopt Frances and her mother who called us and to spend the next nine months praying for them.
Even though we at Catholic Social Services accept most major insurances and Medicare, please do not forget that because of our generous donors, we have a grant system that helps clients who come in for counseling who are un-insured or under-insured for some reason. We are and will forever be grateful for your love and support. Please also never forget we are praying for you, your families and intentions!
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I recently read about the life of Father Tan Tiande in a book entitled, "the Red Book of Chinese Martyrs" by Gerolamo Fazini.
Father Tiande was born in Shunde, in the province of Guangdong, China, in the year 1916. He was fortunate to have been born to a family that had been Catholic for many generations. He lost his father as a young boy and credits his strong faith to his mother and his parish priest, Father Chang Quing Qingqi. According to the written account he was a handful growing up, wanting to run outside all day and was unable to sit still for any length of time.
Despite his misbehavior, he remembers his mother never disciplining harshly and only was strict when it came to his "duties and reverence to God." He remembered distinctly his mother gathering together the family for prayer whenever one of the family members traveled. He entered the seminary in Hong Kong as a boy and after his philosophy and theology studies was ordained a priest in the year 1941.
After only a few years of ministering to the faithful, he was arrested by the communists and sent to a re-educational labor camp in northern China, the Chinese equivalent of Siberia. One of his many jobs was to bury the dead. This he frequently did because countless persons died from hunger and exposure to the harsh elements, for no other reason than being a Christian. In order to survive, he frequently ate rotten meat and tree bark.
During one stretch of his imprisonment, he was confined in a cell too small to recline. His guard was so harsh that he needed permission even to clear his throat. Many such prisoners broke under such horrible conditions. He remembers the only thing that kept him going was his faith in Jesus and his knowledge that his sufferings had meaning and value joined to the sufferings of Jesus Christ on the cross.
After more than 30 years he was released and returned to his home cathedral parish where he spent most of his time catechizing parishioners. It is striking that he was quoted to say that seeing the lack of charity between the faithful was more painful to him than any of the tortures he experienced during his decades long imprisonment.
Recently Cardinal Anthony Bevilacqua, the retired Cardinal Archbishop of Philadelphia, died at the age of 88. As a priest in 1971 he started the Catholic Migration and Refugee office in the Diocese of Brooklyn, one of the first in the country. He was often quoted to say, "We don’t help people because they are Catholic, we help people because we are Catholic." This is one of the hallmarks of being a Catholic. This is also true for us at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska. I frequently tell people that we serve individuals and families regardless of their religion, race or ethnicity. We do our best to help everyone because of the gospel mandate of Jesus Christ.
This is why Father Tan Tiande loved and forgave his persecutors, and why Cardinal Anthony Bevilacqua started the refugee department as a young priest and why we serve the many individual families that come to us. We try to see and love the face of Jesus in them as they see and love the face of Jesus in them. Thank you all for your love of Jesus in the poor and needy for without you, there would not be a CSS. Please remember that you and your intentions remain in our prayers!
Due to a very generous patron, Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska has two 4WD pickup trucks that we use to plow snow at St. Gianna’s two locations and our downtown service center. Several weeks ago after a one-foot snowstorm, I found myself plowing snow at our downtown location (which is named after St. Joseph). In the midst of blading the lot I noticed a man dressed in a snowmobile suit, walking across the parking lot toward the main entrance of the building. Since it was Saturday, we were closed. I could only imagine his disappointment after finding the doors locked.
It must have been my guardian angel who made me leave the pile of snow I was working on and drive toward him. His countenance brightened after seeing someone in a Roman collar in the cab of the truck. After a few moments, he related his story. He was a homeless man who looked like he was in his late 30s. He needed help staying at a nearby room for a bit longer as his job search intensified. He listed off the nearby businesses he was applying for employment. He was also in need of some food. I figured I had another half an hour left to complete the blading job, and told him I would visit him and his landlord after finishing.
Before long, after packing up some food in our food pantry, I found myself with this man and his landlord. After extending his stay and giving him food, the man, in a tearful state, gave me a bear hug in the presence of his landlord. Since I drove up in a four-wheel-drive pickup with the big blade in front, the landlord said, "Can you move the snow at one of my other properties?" I immediately thought to myself, "Hey, the money I earn could be used for the payment on the room and for extra emergency services for those in need!" Fortunately, this thought lasted only a fleeting moment. I replied, "Listen, you do not want me to clean your other property’s parking lot, I’m not a professional!!"
Then the homeless man interjected, "Oh, that’s not true, I saw him in action, he is real good!" I thought to myself, "This man is not helping the situation." After these comments, the landlord started begging, since his usual snow man was swamped. As I left them, one was happy and the other disappointed.
Just before writing this column, someone said, "Father, if it wasn’t for the snow, you would not have met that homeless man in need." What is also true is that if it wasn’t for our benefactors who help us spiritually with their prayers and penances, materially with food and other needed items, and financially with cash donations according to their means, I would not have been able to help this man or any of the other individuals and families that come to us each and every day we are open for business, and even the days we are closed!
Please remember that all of our patrons and their families and intentions are in our prayers. And if you need help with your snow removal, call a professional snow man.
Recently, a priest in the diocese donated an old pickup truck with a shell topper. He said it was a good runner but nothing to look at. On initial inspection, other than some obvious rust, it was in desperate need of front tires.
Our St. Christopher Vehicle donation program is one of our most important. Vehicles donated are either given away to poor and needy individuals and families, placed into our fleet and used to take clients to needed appointments or used to pick up and deliver items, or they are sold and the profits used to fund our emergency services, or used for grants for counseling for persons who are uninsured or underinsured.
Literally hours after being handed the title of the above-mentioned pickup truck, another priest asked me if we had a vehicle for a poor family he knew, as the dad needed transportation to his place of employment. I immediately thought of the just-donated pickup truck, but did not want to give it away with balding front tires. I also didn’t know for sure how it ran, so I gave my secretary a mission. "Pat, can you take her for a spin and if she runs well, find some inexpensive, safe tires?"
While driving the truck around she stopped at a nearby mechanic and asked, "Where can I find some inexpensive tires for this truck we will be giving away?" He promptly gave her directions to one of the places he deals with and said, "Tell ‘em I sent you!"
As one thing leads to another, she soon was face to face with the owner of the tire shop and said, "Can you fix me up with two tires? We are giving this truck away to a family in need." And by the way, we are a non-profit organization!" In discussion he said, $35 "for each tire, not including mounting, balancing and labor." But then it seemes as though a light bulb then went on inside his head and he asked, "Are you from that Catholic place?" "Yes," Pat replied. "Well then, how about $50 for everything?"
As it turns out, the owner was resettled as a refugee 15 years ago, and has never forgotten Catholic Social Services. He went on to say how appreciative he was of our help and of his desire to pay back that generosity, coupled with his desire to help others in need.
As Pat started to leave, one of the employees said, "Can you help me?" He was a man who recently moved here from the west coast and was in need of some clothing. He had an expired clothing voucher from another thrift store in town but because of the last snow storm, he missed the cut-off date. Before the end of the day, he obtained the needed clothes and happily left on foot to his friend’s home in which he was told he could stay temporarily. We are also helping him find an affordable apartment.
Even though one thing always leads to another, it always begins with love. That is why people donate money and material items to us. They love Jesus who lives in the poor and needy. This is why the owner of the tire store gave us a sweetheart deal.
I would like to thank all of our benefactors who support us spiritually with your prayers and penances, materially with donated items around the house not needed, including vehicles and money according to your means. Please remember that you, your families and intentions are in our prayers!
In the book of Leviticus the Lord God said to Moses, "Say to all the congregation of the people of Israel, You shall be holy; for I the Lord am holy" (Lev 19:2). After saying this, the Lord God then directed Moses to entreat the Israelites to keep the Ten Commandments. Notice God implored His people first to be holy and second to keep the commandments. This is an important point, for keeping the commandments does not magically make us holy but only when we become holy can we keep the commandments even in our hearts.
That said; the Israelites were at a disadvantage because of the rebellion of our first parents. Let us be reminded that there were two important trees in the garden mentioned in the first chapter of Genesis, the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (Gen 2:9). Most of us remember the tree of the knowledge of good and evil and forget the tree of life. After God created Adam He said, "You may freely eat of every tree of the garden; but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day you eat of it you shall die" (Gen 2:17).
Our first parents were created with the very life of God in their souls, called sanctifying grace. This was the fruit of the tree of life, in which they had free access. When our parents disobeyed God by eating the forbidden fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, they were banished from the garden and the access to the fruit of the tree of life. They lost divine life within their souls, their most precious gift, and their ticket to heaven. This sad and sorry state is something we inherit from our parents, a graceless and lifeless condition of the soul called Original Sin.
Thanks to Jesus Christ, the New Adam, we now have access to the tree of life once again. After Jesus died on the tree of the cross, blood and water flowed from His pierced side representing the fruit of the seven sacraments, water symbolizing the most essential sacrament of baptism and blood the most important sacrament of the Eucharist. Now we can be faithful to the directions outlined in chapter 19 of Leviticus because we can now eat freely of the fruit of the tree of life, the sacraments. We now have the help we need to grow in holiness giving us the ability to be faithful to the commandments.
We are grateful to Bishop Bruskewitz for he has given us permission to have the Blessed Sacrament in our office chapels so our staff, volunteers, benefactors and clients have access to the fruit of the tree of life contained in the tabernacle.
I am happy to announce that we have a Chapel of St. Joseph in our social service center in Lincoln, a Chapel of the Immaculate Heart of Mary in our Immaculate Heart Counseling Center in Lincoln, a Chapel of St. John Vianney in Hastings and plan to eventually have two other chapels in Auburn and Imperial.
Please know that we at Catholic Social Services remember you, your family and intentions while at the foot of the tree of life while praying in our chapels.
Recently, a homeless man surprised my secretary Pat as she was exiting the building after closing time. They happened to be in the right place at the right time because they startled each other. Perhaps it was the sleeping bag the man had draped over his body which made him appear bigger than life. He looked tired and hungry. Knowing we were closed but never closed to helping those in need, she asked him to meet her at our main entrance at the front of the building.
Walking through the lobby I saw her let the man in as she headed straight for the food pantry. As I said goodbye to my last appointment, I followed her. Unfortunately, we had handed out all of the sandwiches we had for the day but had some leftover salad, lasagna and pizza from a noon meeting. We all know how hard leftover lasagna is, and even though many of us have eaten cold pizza for breakfast during our high school and college years, it is not as good as a piping hot piece dripping with melted cheese and tomato sauce.
I decided right then and there I would microwave the Italian fare, and along with salad and cookies, he would have a decent meal to warm his suffering heart. I pulled up a small table to one of the chairs in the lobby and before long I knew much of his life story, full of ups and downs, highs and lows. Since he was a homeless man in his 60s, his recent life was mostly full of lows. For some reason he related he could not stay at the homeless shelter. I kept thinking I was sitting next to someone created in the image and likeness of God.
As his eating slowed to a normal pace he turned and said, "Is it OK if I don’t finish the salad?" "Of course," I replied. "Can I get you something else?" He said, "How about a couple more pieces of pizza?" As he finished his meal he told me of his Catholic past. Little did he know he ate his meal about 30 feet from Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament in our St. Joseph Chapel. Before he left we prayed in the chapel, where he asked for the Lord’s protection. After blessing him and giving him two warm hats and a moment in the bathroom for a little freshening up, he hit the streets.
Since the places where homeless people can eat are quite a distance to walk from our office, we have been seeing more and more homeless individuals like this man asking for food. Please pray that we can expand our efforts to feed Jesus present in them. I would like to once again thank our donors who have helped us purchase our new refrigerator and freezer which we use for this purpose.
Please also pray for this man and the countless other individuals and families who come to us on a daily basis. Please remember that we remember all of you, your families and intentions in our daily prayers, for without you, we could not help those who come through our doors, our brothers and sisters created in the image and likeness of God. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary and St. Joseph, her most chaste spouse, pray for us!
Recently, on a trip to a neighboring diocese for a little down time with a few brother priests, we were told this story over lunch from a priest we knew from our seminary days.
It concerns an elderly priest, still living, who had a reputation for his tenacity in searching out fallen-away Catholics and bringing them back to the fold. He would go to great lengths in finding those in his parish who were lapsed Catholics. After finding their addresses, he would pay them a visit.
On one particular day, after knocking on the front door of an elderly couple’s home within his parish, he was met by the man of the house whose language would make a drunken sailor blush. To put it bluntly, he was cussed out royally by the angry man. Included in the angry outburst were the instructions to never return.
Undaunted, he returned a short time later and sprinkled holy water around the outside of the house and went back to his rectory and started to pray and, I am sure, offer acts of penance for the lost sheep.
After a few weeks he returned once again and after knocking on the door was again met by the man of the house who greeted him with anger and cursing.
The priest left happy and joyful, thinking, ‘That was much better! The cuss words were not as bad as before!’ He left thinking, ‘I will return again in a few more weeks for another visit!’
I wonder how many priests would have returned for a second visit? I wonder how many priests would have planned a third visit after having received such treatment? The said priest returned to his rectory and continued praying for the fallen away couple.
Several weeks later, moments after knocking on the front door, he found himself sitting at the couple’s kitchen table having coffee with them. Soon they were back in the Church and within six months they both died and had beautiful Catholic funerals.
It was evident that the old priest had the parable of the lost sheep on his mind the whole time:
"What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost, until he finds it? And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing … I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need not repentance" (Lk 15:3-7).
Let the story outlined above serve as a lesson to all of us. Let us never give up on a fallen away relative, friend or stranger.
Let us learn from the above mentioned priest how important prayer and penance is. Let us also remember that many conversions take a long time, and a lot of prayer and penance.
Finally, let us recall the words of St. Ambrose to St. Monica about her wayward son St. Augustine before his famous conversion: "God does not ignore the prayers of a mother!" The same goes for a father, sibling, aunt, uncle, or friend.
Sts. Ambrose, Monica and Augustine, pray for us!!
I recently asked some members of the Catholic fraternity, "Do you want to be happy?" They all said, "Yes!" I replied, "Then be holy! If you do not want to be happy, don’t be holy!"
Remember that our pursuit of holiness is done in the context of a particular vocation. Don’t forget that contrary to popular opinion, a job or career choice is not a vocation in the strictest sense. All of us are called to be single, married, or a priest or religious. If someone asked a married nurse what their vocation is, they should say, "My vocation is to the married life and my career choice is a nurse." That said, true happiness in the fullest sense is obtained pursuing happiness in the context of the vocation God is calling us to. Why is there a shortage of priests and religious in certain areas of the world? Is it because God is not calling enough young men and women? The answer should not surprise anyone. God has always called enough young and men to the priesthood and religious life, but the sad reality is that many walk away from the lofty calling like the rich young man in the gospels (Mt 19:16-30).
In August 2010, Catholic Social Services was fortunate to have hired Kristine Bennier for a case manager position with the agency. She grew up on the west coast in a loving Catholic family with parents open and supportive to the will of God in their children’s lives. At the age of 13, she and her family moved to the Lincoln Diocese and were able to tour the Carmel of Jesus, Mary and Joseph before it was closed to the public. She admits that it had "a lasting impression on me."
After graduating from Christendom College, she knew that God was calling her to the religious life but was initially resistant. With time, her calling from God became clearer, especially after visiting the tombs of Sts. John of the Cross and Teresa of Avila in Spain. After returning from Europe, she decided to enter Carmel after a friend’s wedding. That is where CSS came in to the picture.
Some say, ‘hindsight is 20/20.’ She later admitted that coming to CSS "was a key step to really understand my vocation and appreciating it. God led me to CSS to educate me." She went on to say, "During my time at CSS, I daily interacted with the poor and struggling of my community. I was able to witness the poor that Christ speaks so frequently about. I came to correctly understand that while monetary assistance is helpful, what most people need is for their hearts to be healed. So many of them have gone through abuse or abandonment and struggle to know their own dignity and worth. Many do not understand what love is and seek it in the wrong ways. CSS does a beautiful job trying to educate through example and instruction but God is ultimately the mover of hearts. That is the ‘job’ I want to embark on now. I want to intercede for these people and pray for their healing." What a beautiful story of a soul. May the stories of our souls be as beautiful! Please pray for Kristine as she will pray for us!
Victories are often celebrated inappropriately. Haven’t we all read about riots and vandalism after the winning of a major championship? The ultimate victory was won by Jesus Christ by his passion, death and resurrection over sin and death.
Can anyone tell me who won the 1952 World Series? Even if someone knows, can you find someone who cares? Anyone? In addition, the celebrations are over definitively. It is the victory of the Lion of Judah that will never be forgotten and will be celebrated – eternally.
This is what the Easter celebration is all about. Even though while still on this earth we suffer as members of the mystical body of Christ, like the prophet Jeremiah who lived in the seventh century before Christ, we can take comfort in these words, "But the Lord is with me as a dread warrior; therefore my persecutors will stumble, they will not overcome me. They will be greatly shamed, for they will not succeed. Their eternal dishonor will never be forgotten" (Jer 20:11).
Isn’t it common for people to hang sports memorabilia in their homes? Posters, prints and images of athletes abound in many homes of sports fans worldwide. Isn’t it true that some of these ‘heroes’ are terrible role models in their private lives? What about images of the ultimate victor Jesus Christ and members of His winning team who are celebrating His definitive victory while enjoying the beatific vision? Do we have images of them in our homes? If so, are they few and far between? If being a Christian was illegal, is there evidence in our homes to convict us? Are we afraid or ashamed to display sacred images? Let us not forget these stark words of the King of Kings, "Whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of man be ashamed when he comes in glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels" (Lk 9:26). This is the glory that we should long to celebrate eternally.
For those looking for artwork to display or even wear as jewelry, please remember that it is time again for the Sacred Art Show! It will be held Friday and Saturday, April 20 and 21. It is a show put on by Catholic artists displaying their Catholic art. It will be held at the Blessed John XXIII Diocesan Center. 3700 Sheridan Blvd., Lincoln.
On Friday, April 20 from 5:30 to 9 p.m. there will be wine, hors d’ oeuvres and music. In addition, there will be a children’s art center. Admission is $5 for adults and $15 per family with free admission for priests and religious.
The hours for Saturday are from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. As a special treat, the show will have Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz speaking at 11 a.m. Saturday with a reception to follow. His talk is entitled, "Sacred Art and the Church."
Finally, there will be artist demonstrations throughout the day. As in previous years, the beautiful works of art will be for sale so they can adorn our homes. We at St. Gianna Women’s Homes are grateful because 10% of the proceeds will be going to help the many women who come to us at St. Gianna’s to escape domestic violence and abortion. Please pray for the success of this important event. Happy Easter!
One of the yearly highlights for me is attending the day of recollection and concelebrating the Chrism Mass with Bishop Bruskewitz during which he blesses the sacred chrism, oil of catechumens and the oil of the sick. Sacred chrism is used during the administration of the sacraments of baptism, confirmation and holy orders. A wonderful explanation of this by the diocesan chancellor Father Daniel Rayer can be found on page two of the March 30 Southern Nebraska Register.
The oil of catechumens is used during the rite of baptism (CCC 1237) while the oil of the sick is used for a person suffering from a serious illness. A wonderful explanation is found in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Instituted by Jesus Christ, it is explicitly mentioned by James the apostle in his epistle (Jas 5:14-15). It is meant not only for those who have serious illnesses, but also to be used for someone prior to a serious operation (CCC 1513, 1515).
When a person receives the sacrament of the sick, they are strengthened by the grace of God to join their sufferings to that of Christ on the cross and to resist the temptations and attacks of the devil. They likewise receive the forgiveness of sins and if it is the will of God, a physical miracle. Of course, if one is conscious, they ought to receive the sacrament of reconciliation if they are aware of any grave sin. That said, even if they are not aware of any grave sin, when one receives the sacrament of reconciliation, they likewise receive divine life or sanctifying grace because it is a sacrament. For this reason it is always best to receive both. Why turn down additional grace?
Recently, my father was admitted to a nursing home in the Omaha area where I had the privilege of offering the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass last Palm Sunday. Knowing that the majority of the residents in his cottage were Catholic I began hearing confessions and administering the sacrament of the sick to those who were interested.
When I thought I was finished, one of my sisters pointed out an elderly, frail-looking woman just outside the room where I would be offering Mass. I seem to remember a little urge to ask her, too. I figured, "Why not one more if she is Catholic?" After learning she was Catholic and of her desire to receive the sacraments and attend Mass, while applying the oil of the sick on her forehead and palms I remember saying, "Through this holy anointing may the Lord in His love and mercy help you with the grace of the Holy Spirit. May the Lord who frees you from sin save you and raise you up." Then I gave her a blessed palm and she attended Mass and received Holy Communion. A few days later her soul left her mortal body as she entered eternity.
In some sacristies it is written, "Oh priest of God, offer this Mass as if it were your first Mass, your last Mass, your only Mass." The same can be said of the laity. Hear this Mass as if it were your first Mass, your last Mass, your only Mass. May you too be resolved to meet Jesus Christ as often as you can in the confessional, and if you are aware of any serious illness, ask your parish priest if you may receive the sacrament of the sick. Let us be most grateful this Easter Season for the great gift of Jesus Christ of the seven sacraments to His Universal Church where we meet him most intimately!
Just before the arrest of Jesus, he exhorted His disciples to love one another, "A new commandment I give you, that you love one another; even as I have loved you, that you also love one another"(Jn 13:34-35). Jesus taught us by example by laying His life down for us. "Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" (Jn 15:13).
Recently a woman called me for help. She had been helping an older friend and neighbor who, after earning an advanced degree, still had difficulty finding a job. For months she helped him as best she could, which included some food and financial assistance. After a while, she realized she needed additional help. She was in over her head. She was thinking, ‘Where will I turn next?’ That is when she called me.
"Father, can you help me?" She immediately thought of Catholic Social Services. "Can we meet to talk about my friend?" After answering in the affirmative, we decided to get together for a meeting with our case management support staff and formulated a plan which included counseling, food, gas cards so he could apply for employment, clothing and help with rent to avoid homelessness while looking for employment. Just yesterday, we think we have found a serious lead on a good job. Please pray to God that this works out!
When I write about specific cases like this, without mentioning names, I like to emphasize that it is only by the grace of God and the generosity of our benefactors that we are able to help those that come to us in crisis, for without God and His chosen instruments, we can do nothing.
Did not Jesus say, "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in me, and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing" (Jn 15:4-5).
When asking our donors for assistance in my mailings, and letters, I am always careful to first ask for their prayers and penances before material and financial support for without prayer, we would not be able to accomplish anything. Notice that in the above story, I stated, "Please pray to God that this works out (that this gentleman finds employment)!" If all of the individuals who read this column pray that this man finds a job, I am confident that even if this job does not work out, because of these prayers, another will work out.
Please remember that not only we at Catholic Social Services pray for you but many of our clients that come to us for assistance do as well, for many of them know that it is our donors that allow us to help them. It is also our prayer that you, your family continue to have a blessed and holy Easter Season and beyond!!
Not long ago, a single young man with a serious medical condition was referred to us by his doctor’s nurse. She was familiar with our agency and suggested he call us. She knew he lived alone in a small apartment and was in need of help. I will never forget the day he walked through our doors.
As he walked into our main office I happened to be walking through the waiting room. He had the look of someone who desperately needed help. After hearing his story, the sick young man, along with one of our staff members and myself, headed to a local pharmacy to pay for some needed medicine. Before leaving the office, we packed up some food and headed out the door. Once inside his small efficiency apartment I noticed only an old, worn-out couch and a small end table. When putting the food away, we noticed he lacked the basic kitchen items needed to cook and eat. He didn’t even have a table and chairs, or a bed. To make matters worse, his utilities had been shut off for lack of payment. I was amazed that in his need he seemed rather resigned and content.
Because of our generous donors I knew that within hours we could furnish his small apartment, pay his utilities with emergency service funds, and outfit his kitchen so he could eat like the rest of us. We also set up an appointment with our emergency services staff specialist to sign him up for benefits that he qualified for. Oh, how easy it is to take the simple things in life for granted. He was so grateful, especially since he originally was counting only on help with his medications and a ride home.
I am happy to announce that it is time for our annual CSS Spring Furniture & Appliance Drive! It is scheduled for Friday, May 11 from 4 to 7 p.m. and Saturday, May 12 from 8 a.m. to noon at our Hastings and Lincoln campuses. They are located on 333 W 2nd in Hastings and 2241 ‘O’ in Lincoln. If you are not able to drop off non-needed items around the house, please call us for a scheduled pick up (Hastings: 402-463-2112; Lincoln: 402-474-1600). You are invited to drop off items at our other two locations in Auburn and Imperial during their regular store hours or you can call for a pick up time (Auburn: 402-274-4818; Imperial: 308-882-3065).
Please know that items donated are either given away to needy individuals and families like the man described above, or sold at a reduced rate and the profits used to help pay for emergency services or grants for counseling for individuals who lack health insurance or are for some reason under-insured.
Please know that we at Catholic Social Services are most grateful for your donations. Please pray for the success of this spring’s CSS Furniture & Appliance Drive and remember that your donation will be used to help someone in need like the young man described above. Please remember that we at Catholic Social Services will keep you, your family and intentions in our daily prayers!
As many of you know, Catholic Social Services has multiple fixed and mobile food pantries that serve needy and hungry individuals and families. Recently, an elderly woman who lives alone called requesting a food pantry. For those who are unfamiliar with the term ‘food pantry,’ it is the amount of food that typically lasts an individual or family for a week.
We are blessed having dedicated volunteers who sort incoming food onto our pantry shelves, and other volunteers who pack the sorted food into brown grocery bags to create ‘ready to go pantries.’ They are marked ‘for a family of one,’ ‘two,’ ‘three,’ ‘four,’ etc., depending on the number in the household.
We have still other volunteers who add, prior to the pick-up, perishable items to the pre-packed pantries such as meat, milk, cheese and eggs.
When a needy individual or family comes to us asking for a food pantry, once we know the number inside the household, the appropriate-sized pantry is given away. We are likewise blessed to have volunteers who help load the groceries into their cars.
The woman who called explained that although she had been granted a pantry, the three people who regularly give her rides around town were either sick or unavailable. We could tell from the tone of her voice that this elderly lady was desperate and in need of her pantry. "Do you deliver?" We generally do not deliver but can make exceptions on a case by case basis (remember last week’s Seedlings?).
After telling Curt Krueger about the situation, he headed out the door to her home with the food pantry. After returning, he informed me that her home was neat and tidy. He was met at the door by the grateful woman who did not let him leave before saying, "Curt, here is a gift for you and Father. Don’t open it until you are with Father!" She put the present in a plastic grocery bag and tied the handles tight.
After returning to the office Curt showed me the bag and related the story. He respected the wishes of the elderly lady and had not peeked inside. Once opened we found an opened box of 20-count orange and spice flavored tea bags with six bags left in the box. It was the best gift she could give us, reminding me of the ‘widow’s mite’ (Mk 12:41-44).
We are very grateful for those who support our food pantry operations monetarily, by their volunteerism, donations of food or a combination of the above. Without your help, we would not be able to help the countless individuals and families that come to us on a daily basis.
Please remember that when the Advent, Christmas, Lenten and Easter seasons are over, our food pantries start to become a little thin. Please remember us spiritually with your prayers and penances, materially with your donations of perishable and non-perishable food items, and financially according to your means so we can continue to assist those who come to us in need of food. Is it tea time yet? The Twelve Apostles present at the division of the loaves, pray for us!!
Recently, a woman we’ve helped in the past called and asked, "Father, can you meet with me? May I have an appointment?"
Whenever people want an appointment, I always wonder what it’s about. She asked me if I remembered her, which I did. Her story is hard to forget. She is a mother of several beautiful children. At some point in her marriage, like so many unfortunate marriages, her husband decided to abandon her and their children for another woman. This caused, as one might imagine, considerable psychological grief and suffering for her and her sons, as well as an economic hardship. It was then she came to us for help. We were able to assist her in a number of ways, including the gift of a vehicle.
I will also not forget the day she returned for another appointment. It must have been one to two years later. She came in with her two sons. They seemed bright, intelligent, well-mannered, friendly and respectful. It was obvious they cared and loved their mother. After exchanging pleasantries, she said, "Father, I have a present for you!"
Her tremendous gratitude led to an intense feeling to thank us in person. It was then that she gave me a beautiful carved image of the Last Supper. She happily informed me she had found a job and is now saving money for a small house.
Right before leaving, she handed me a small baggie full of two-dollar bills and said, "Father, I have been saving them for you. I am so appreciative of the help of CSS that I want to ‘give back.’" I tried to convince her to keep the money until she was more firmly on her feet but to no avail. She was determined to donate the funds to help someone else who might be in a similar situation she used to be in.
Her decision was firm and there was no changing it. There was almost one hundred dollars in the plastic bag. This was not the first time this has happened, and it will not be the last. We have had people who are recipients of vehicles later give the car back to us when they no longer need it, and others like her who come in and become donors after having been helped.
When past clients thank us in this manner by ‘giving back,’ they do so knowing it was the generosity of our benefactors that made it possible. Knowing this, they wish to become a fellow donor themselves.
That said, we need to remind ourselves that it all starts from Almighty God. In the first letter of St. John in the New Testament, the evangelist tells that God is love and the proof of our love of God is our love of neighbor, and the proof of our love of neighbor is if we sacrifice ourselves for them. When I sign thank-you letters to our donors, I know it was their love of God that led to a material or financial donation. Not only are we and our clients grateful, please know that helping others is pleasing to God and will not go unrewarded.
Please allow me to relay the ‘thank you’ from this woman to you. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services will keep you, your family and intentions in our prayers.
Recently, a young woman named Sarah came to our office to thank and inform us she would be graduating from college with a bachelor’s degree. She wanted to specifically thank Jeanne Bolin and Curt Krueger. With tears, she said if it was not for Catholic Social Services, this would have never happened.
Sarah came to CSS as a young mother of a little girl. She was fleeing an abusive relationship while caring for an ill mother who was unable to work. She was homeless and afraid.
We took Sarah, her daughter, and mother into our Transitions Housing Program. We gave them a comfortable and safe place to live. We made sure they had food, and we furnished their apartment. Once their immediate needs were taken care of, we started working with Sarah on the issues that brought her to homelessness.
Sarah had dropped out of high school when she became pregnant. We suggested she enroll in a course to obtain her GED. Not only was she afraid of the challenge, she did not think she could do it. She never had anyone in her life to tell her she was smart and capable enough to achieve such goals. She was broken and lacked self-confidence.
We encouraged her to take the chance. We told her she was certainly capable of obtaining the GED, and much more. When Sarah enrolled for her GED, she was convinced as far as education was concerned, she could go no further. Much to her surprise, she did very well and received her GED. Sarah became more confident, yet when we discussed the possibility of going to college, she truly believed she would never be able to handle classes, homework, a part-time job, a daughter and a disabled mother.
We encouraged her to go for it. We knew she could do it. Again we reminded her she was smart and capable enough to do it. Soon Sarah enrolled at SCC. It was not easy. She had to juggle her time, budget very carefully and work very hard.
There were more challenges awaiting her. Sarah’s mother died before she graduated. Sarah also became the mother of a baby boy. She struggled financially throughout her academic years. These things may have made someone else quit. It would have been easy to give up. With love and encouragement, Sarah kept moving forward.
The rest is history: she soon obtained an associate’s degree and will be graduating from Doane College with a BA degree. She is interested in social services and wants to help young women like herself. She pointed out that less than 10% of single mothers who reach 30 years of age ever graduate from college and get out of poverty. As a college graduate with a good job, Sarah will be able to support her family and avoid homelessness again.
Because of our generous donors, we were able to make sure her basic needs were met. That said, Sarah needed more than a home and food. Those things are important and necessary, but we try to give our clients more. She needed people who loved and cared about her and her family, and a little loving push to guide her when the way was not so clear and easy. She also needed our prayers.
We are very proud of Sarah! Please keep her and her children in your prayers.
At our recent Catholic Social Services’ furniture and appliance drive, an older couple stopped by to drop off their donation. In addition to thanking donors who stop by I usually ask, "How did you hear about our drive?" The answers vary from, "I saw the bulletin insert," or "I read it in the Southern Nebraska Register," or "I heard it on the radio," or even, "My wife told me about it!" Thank you Mrs. McShmearshmach!
This time, the answer was different. The husband explained that after losing their home to a fire, because of our affordable prices, they were able to refurnish their new home by purchasing furniture at the St. Louise Gift & Thrift Store. He further explained that they have never forgotten how helpful we were during this critical time in their lives. Donating material items at our furniture and appliance drives is a way he and his wife can ‘give back,’ knowing that it will benefit others like themselves. After their donations were off loaded, they happily drove off.
I love to tell our patrons that material items around the home are either directly given to poor and needy families, or sold at reduced and affordable prices in one of our four thrift stores, and the profits used to fund our many social and clinical programs. When an individual or family needs help with their rent to avoid homelessness, utilities to avoid a shut off, or a grant for counseling because they are un-insured or under-insured, this is one way of generating funds for these purposes.
During this latest effort, some benefactors who stopped by asked, "What will you be doing with these donations?" In addition to a general, "To help individuals and families in need," I explained to several that next week, we will be furnishing the apartments of several single women with children who will be transitioning out of St. Gianna’s to a permanent and safe environment. By far, the majority of ladies who come to us with their children do so with little more than the clothes on their backs. When it is time to leave St. Gianna’s, it is not possible for them to purchase furniture.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank the many donors who contributed to this latest drive, our staff, and of course our many volunteers who helped in this latest endeavor. Without these volunteers, we would not have been able to pull it off. I am grateful to Almighty God for the more than one semi-trailer full if items collected.
Please be reminded that since this latest truckload of items will be gone in short order, please consider donating any unneeded items around the house or farm not needed (including vehicles!). You can either donate them to one of our four thrift stores, St. Francis Gift & Thrift in Auburn (402-274-4818), St. Joseph Gift & Thrift Store in Hastings (402-463-2151), St. Isidore Gift & Thrift Store in Imperial (308-882-3065), or St. Louise Gift & Thrift Store in Lincoln (402-474-1600), or call for a pick-up. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services will keep you, your families and intentions in our prayers!
I've had the privilege of meeting many fine men and women during our previous rolling thrift stores across the diocese from Fall City to Imperial. While conducting one such rolling thrift store in Crete, I was fortunate to have met Jerry and Kay Wessel. Not long after the event, I was contacted by Jerry with the desire to do more for the agency. In other words, to do more for Jesus Christ who lives in the poor and needy.
Jerry has done many things for Catholic Social Services but one that stands out is going to neighboring parishes on a rotating basis with a trailer to collect used items for CSS. We have found that this program is a great way for parishioners to donate items around the house not needed while benefiting individuals and families in need. Items requested are bedroom sets, refrigerators, freezers, washers, dryers, air conditioners, dishwashers, dining room sets, kitchen tables and chairs, small appliances, book cases, lamps, recliners, sofas and literally anything that makes a house a home. Items donated are directly given away or sold at a reduced price and the proceeds used to help fund our many programs such as emergency services and our grant program for clinical services.
Avoiding "dead-head" runs is one of the keys to running an efficient program. After dropping off an empty trailer to a parish, Jerry picks up a filled trailer at a neighboring parish. The participating parishes are St. Mary, Ashland (St. Joseph, Greenwood); St. Joseph, Beatrice; Sacred Heart, Beaver Crossing (St. Patrick, Utica); Presentation, St. Peter, St. Joseph, Bellwood; Holy Trinity, Brainard; St. Anthony, Bruno (Ss. Peter and Paul, Abie); St. Joseph, Colon (St. Mary, Cedar Bluffs); St. James, Cortland; Sacred Heart, Crete; St. Francis, David City; St. Mary David City (Assumption, Appleton); St. Mary Dawson (St. Ann, Shubert); St. Mary, Denton; Assumption, Dwight; St. Stephen, Exeter (St. Patrick, McCool Junction); St. Michael, Fairbury; Ss. Peter and Paul, Falls City; St. Joseph, Friend (St. Wenceslaus, Milligan); St. Joseph, Geneva (St. Mary Shickley); St. Patrick, Manley (St. Mary, Elmwood); St. James, Mead; St. George, Morse Bluff (Cedar Hill); St. Mary and St. Benedict, Nebraska City; St. Vincent Ferrer, Osceola; St. Leo, Palmyra (St. Martin, Douglas); St. Joseph, Paul (St. Bernard, Julian); St. John the Baptist, Prague (Ss. Cyril and Methodius, Plasi); Immaculate Conception, Rulo (St. Mary, Arrago); St. Vincent De Paul, Seward; Sacred Heart, Shelby; St. Anthony, Steinauer (Sacred Heart, Burchard); St. Paulinus, Syracuse (Holy Trinity, Avoca); St. Andrew, Tecumseh (St. Mary, St. Mary); Immaculate Conception, Ulysses; Ss. Mary and Joseph, Valparaiso; St. Vitus, Touhy; St. Wenceslaus, Wilber (St. Joseph, Tobias); St. Mary, Wymore (St. Joseph, Barneston, St. Mary, Odell); and St. Joseph,York.
I would like to thank all of the pastors of these parishes for their kindness and support for this very important program. I would also like to thank the faithful in the involved parishes for donating items to CSS, and of course Jerry for saying yes to the Holy Spirit who nudged him to get involved. Please know that all of you are in our special prayers!
On June 8, an estimated crowd of 800-1,000 gathered in downtown Lincoln for a "Stand Up for Religious Freedom Rally" in opposition to the recent mandate from HHS requiring religious institutions to pay for services and contraceptives (which clearly violate our Catholic faith and religious freedom). I was honored to have been asked to be one of the speakers. Since many scattered around the diocese could not attend, here is the text of my talk.
I always wondered what it would be like to be persecuted for no other reason than for being a Christian. Ever since I was a small boy, I read about the lives of the saints, including the martyrs. I never dreamed I would be talking to a crowd of people about being persecuted as a Christian in the United States of America!
When the Church was founded by Jesus Christ on the rock of Peter and the apostles to stand firm forever (Mt 16:18-19), it was not enough that evil like idolatry and offering incense to the idols existed, the government at the time in the Roman Empire tried to force Christians to offer incense to the idols or face death. Many did offer the incense, but many did not.
There has never been a time when Christians were free from persecutions. But this should not be a surprise. Jesus said, "If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you … A servant is not greater than his master. If they persecuted me, they will persecute you" (Jn 15:18-20).
What did the early Christians do? Prayer and penance. Fasting is one form of penance. Remember Jesus said that after the bridegroom was gone then His disciples would fast (Mk 2:20)? This refers to the period of time between His Ascension and His second coming at the end of time, which is now.
The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops have met and are calling us to join them for a "Fortnight for Freedom," which is a 14-day period of prayer, education and public action to mobilize Christians to emphasize the importance of religious freedom in our dear country from June 21 to July 4. How providential since during this time we celebrate the feast days of St. John Fisher, St. Thomas More, St. John the Baptist and Sts. Peter and Paul!
It is during this time we Christians in the United States, while we pray and perform acts of penance; emphasize our Christian and American heritage of liberty. It is also a great time not only to further educate ourselves, but our neighbor by forwarding e-mails and educational materials, writing letters to the editor, writing letters to our nation’s elected officials, making a comment to HHS, etc. There is a lot to do. Let us not assume ‘someone else will do it.’ Let us eagerly and joyfully join our bishops in the upcoming "Fortnight for Freedom," "For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am in the midst of them" (Mt 18:20).
Remember what St. Paul said, "For this slight momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison" (2 Cor 4:17). And never forget these words of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, the King of the Universe. "In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world" (Jn 16:33).
Our fixed and mobile food pantries across the diocese benefit individuals of all ages and families of all sizes. Not too long ago, an elderly woman and her middle-aged daughter received food from Catholic Social Services. They both were in tears saying they literally did not know where their next meal was coming from.
Food comes to CSS a number of ways, including food donations and cash to purchase food. Our pantry shelves are always flush during the Thanksgiving, Advent, and Christmas seasons which gets us to the Lenten and Easter seasons in which we obtain another bolus. The tremendous response during the Lenten and Easter seasons gets us through to the summer. Every summer since I have been at CSS I have noticed that our pantry shelves are quite low, necessitating a plea or cry for help. During summer, since we are removed from the penitential seasons this is understandable. Just several days ago, I overheard our receptionist explain to a caller that our food donations have dropped… We can only distribute food on hand and live within our means….
I am excited to announce that we are now conducting our "Annual Emergency Summer Food Drive!" Right now, CSS is accepting items including pancake mix and syrup, peanut butter and jelly, spaghetti sauce, boxed dinners, spaghetti O’s, canned fruits and vegetables, pasta, rice, dry beans, instant potatoes, canned meats and tuna and toiletries.
You can bring your food donations to any of our offices in Auburn, Hastings, Imperial or Lincoln. Of course, cash donations are welcomed for those who are interested in helping and are unable to shop and drop off the needed items.
I would like to thank all of our benefactors who help poor and needy families by supporting CSS with their time, talent and treasure. Thank you also for those who will be responding to this latest need. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services pray for you daily. Please also know that I offer Masses for you and your intentions on a regular basis.
Remember the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, "Come, O blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world; for I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink" (Mt 25:34-35).
Not long ago, we received a cash donation from a woman who expressed her appreciation for us having helped a friend who was in desperate need.
The following is an excerpt from her letter:
"Dear Father Kubat, a little over a year ago I contacted CSS for assistance in helping a friend who had nowhere to turn for a place to live. Her life had literally taken a 180 degree turn in the wrong direction. I do not know what she would have done without your help. CSS gave her hope. Please accept this donation in gratitude for helping my friend."
She closed her letter thanking God for answering a prayer for another intention for a situation in her family. She ended her letter by saying, "God is good!"
Her only request was to use the funds for housing needs for somebody else in the future who would find themselves in a similar situation. As it turns out, the funds came in handy for the next needy individual who was facing homelessness.
Thanks to the evangelist John, we know that God is love, and the evidence of our love of God is our love of neighbor, and the evidence of our love of neighbor is whether we sacrifice ourselves for them and ultimately our willingness to lay down our life for them (see the First Letter of John and John 15:13). When I receive letters and cards like this it reflects concrete evidence of the great love people have for God. This is the greatest gift God has given us, having his very life or love in our souls. This was foretold by God to the prophet Ezekiel in the sixth century B.C. "I will sprinkle clean water upon you, and you shall be clean from all your uncleanliness, and from all your idols I will cleanse you. A new heart I will give you, and a new spirit I will put within you; and I will take out of your flesh the heart of stone and given you a heart of flesh. And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to observe my ordinances" (Ez 36:25-27).
This passage from the prophet of Ezekiel is one of my favorites in the Old Testament. Prefiguring the Sacrament of Baptism, the most essential of the sacraments, it opens the door to the rest of the sacraments including the most important sacrament, the Blessed Sacrament, the medicine of immortality. With baptism, we receive God’s life or love into our souls for the first time, and with cooperation and the frequent reception of the sacraments of the Eucharist and Confession the seeds of faith, hope and charity grow, enabling us to love God with all of our hearts, souls and minds and our neighbor as ourselves (Dt 6:4-5; Mt 22:37). This is why this woman wrote her letter of thanks to us and included a donation to help future clients. She, like all of our benefactors, has the love of God in her soul, that living faith that saves (Jas 2:1-26). Please be assured of our prayers for you and your intentions!
We are truly blessed to have the national headquarters of the Apostolate of Suffering located at the St. Joseph Center in Lincoln, Nebraska. What is the Apostolate of Suffering? What is its purpose? When was it founded and by whom?
The Apostolate of Suffering was founded by Miss Clara Tiry on October 4, 1926 under the direction of Archbishop Sebastian Messmer of Milwaukee, Wisconsin. In the index of her book entitled Comfort of the Sick, Clara stated that the purpose of the apostolate is to "Unite all sufferers of the wide world in a spiritual union; its purpose is to assure the sick and the afflicted that their lives are not useless, that by the patient bearing of pain they can do wonderful work for the spread of God’s Kingdom here on earth." She further stated that "sickness is a blessing in disguise; that suffering is a gift and a privilege that Christ bestows on his dearest friends." This of course only makes sense when our sufferings are united to the cross of Jesus Christ.
Archbishop Messmer further elaborated on this point in his introductory remarks of the above mentioned book by saying, "The great idea of such an Apostolate of Suffering was already clearly expressed by St. Paul when he said, ‘I now rejoice in my sufferings for you and fill up those things that are wanting of the sufferings of Christ, in my flesh for His Body, which is His Church’ (Col 1:24). Now comes the Apostolate of Suffering and brings a wonderful, heavenly consolation and comfort to them. It tells them that far from being useless members of the human family, they are able, through the merits of Christ and the mystery of the Communion of Saints, to be the greatest benefactors to their fellowmen, true apostles of Christ bringing the blessings of His divine passion and death to untold multitudes of immortal souls." Powerful words these! This means, when we offer our sufferings to Christ as members of His mystical body for others, we have the singular privilege of helping to save souls and assist those in Purgatory!
The spiritual benefits of membership include a Mass offered for members and their intentions monthly, a Mass offered for deceased members monthly and on All Souls Day, a share in the annual novena of Masses, and having the benefit of the prayers of fellow members and those offered daily at the national office.
The annual cost of membership has risen from 25 cents in 1926 to $5, with a lifetime membership of $25 available. In addition, all members receive a subscription to Our Good Samaritan, the Apostolate newsletter. Membership is open to the sick or to those who care for someone who is. All those interested in joining can simply mail the enrollment fee to The Apostolate of Suffering c/o Catholic Social Services, PO Box 30425, Lincoln, NE 68503-0425. Please spread the word! St. Lidwina, the patroness of the Apostolate, pray for us!!
I am happy to announce that on Sept. 9, Catholic Social Services will hold its annual "Bountiful Harvest Banquet" at the Hastings City Auditorium.
What started out as a potluck is now a major fundraiser which supports the activities of our office located in Hastings. This office currently serves individuals and families in the south central and the western parts of the diocese.
As many of you know, we are now in our new St. John Vianney Center located at 333 W. 2nd St. in downtown Hastings. Now that all of our services are consolidated into one convenient location, we are able to easily serve more individuals and families. The second floor is the site of the Immaculate Heart of Mary Counseling Center Staffed by Dr. Eve Rosno and Heather McQuillan. This beautiful counseling center has a separate street entrance. The main level also with a separate entrance is the site of our social services and expanded food pantry. Next door and connected to the social services offices is our St. Joseph Gift & Thrift Store.
Last year, because of our generous donors, CSS assisted nearly 8,100 individuals and 2,100 families out of our new St. John Vianney Center in Hastings. A number of different ways including help with grants for counseling for those who lack health insurance or who are under-insured, rent and utility assistance, food, clothing and other emergency services. Our fixed and mobile food pantries have also expanded and are helping more individuals and families. Our sack lunch program, which is a collaborative program involving multiple denominations and organizations has expanding as well. Last year, more than 40,000 sack lunches were distributed to needy individuals out of the St. John Vianney Center.
Like previous years, there are multiple levels of sponsorship. Those who want to purchase individual tickets are also encouraged to do so. Our corporate sponsorship levels are Patron of Mercy at $2,500, Corporate at $1,000, Banquet at $600, and Table at $400. Individual tickets are $50. All proceeds will stay in the greater Hastings area to help individuals and families in need. The evening includes a social hour starting at 4:30 p.m. and the dinner program at 6 p.m. The entire event usually is over by 8 p.m. I would like to thank our many donors who are supporting us this year. Your support is vital and most appreciated!
This year we will be honoring Larry and Ronda Bonifas, who have been volunteering at CSS since March of 1999. They have done many things for the agency including sorting donations, testing appliances, fixing furniture and picking up donated items, working in our thrift store and much more. This is always one of the highlights of the program - honoring an individual or individuals who have been selfless in their love for Jesus who lives in the poor and needy. I hope that you can join us to thank them and to give honor, praise and thanksgiving to Almighty God for His abundant graces that has moved the minds and hearts of our generous donors. This generosity has allowed us to love Jesus Christ present in a special way in the poor and needy.
On Friday Aug. 3, St. Gianna Women’s Homes celebrated its third anniversary of the First Friday Fish Fry (outside of Lent) which is held at the St. Joseph Center (located at 23rd and O streets in Lincoln).
Oh, how time flies! The Fish Fry is "All you can eat for $10," with the proceeds going to support St. Gianna Women’s Homes for women escaping domestic violence and abortion. In addition to serving baked cod, fried Pollack, fried catfish, butterfly shrimp, tuna noodle casserole made from scratch, genuine Wisconsin potato pancakes from scratch (one needs to put applesauce on top), baked potatoes, creamy coleslaw from scratch, Conroy’s delicious fresh-baked rye bread, Baja sauce, homemade cocktail, tartar and dill sauces, we now have a fish taco bar!
Since we run a tight ship, we rigorously enforce our only rule - nobody is allowed to leave without first eating dessert.
Through the last three years, I have noticed that our First Friday Fish Fry is a popular spot to celebrate wedding anniversaries. Last time, we were privileged to have another such couple present to celebrate their 44th wedding anniversary! How coincidental, I thought since we were celebrating our third anniversary. Congratulations to Joe and Mary Schneider for celebrating their 44th! While chatting with them for a moment, I gleaned considerable wisdom from them and the couples they were sitting with, Orlan and Marg Pape, and Tom and Margaret Tracy.
Curious to find out the secret of their marital bliss, I asked them, "What’s the secret of your success?" Joe quickly replied, "She’s the boss!"
All kidding aside, one could tell that the couples sitting together were great witnesses of their love and fidelity to each other.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank our patrons of our Fun, Fabulous, Fantastic, Flavorful, Fancy, Fanciful, Fine, Frankly Flabbergasting, Flawless, Flamboyant, Fortifying, Formidable, Filling, Flattering, Fostering Fellowship, Finger-licking, Family Friendly, First Friday Fish Fry Outside of Lent for St. Gianna Women’s Homes!
I would also like to thank once again all of our dedicated volunteers who make this possible. Every Lent, when we take a break, I cook a nice sit down meal for them and their spouses or a guest. I am even now planning our next appreciation dinner. Please know that we at St. Gianna Women’s Homes will keep you and your families and intentions in our prayers! St. Gianna, pray for us!
Recently, Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska conducted a furniture and appliance drive. Drives such as these are usually held on Friday afternoon/evenings and Saturday mornings until noon. Donors can donate to us by either personally dropping items off to one of our locations or by arranging a pre-arranged pick up by one of our staff or volunteers.
During these drives, I usually hang out at our main office/warehouse location which gives me a chance to thank those who bring donated items to us. It also gives me an opportunity to lift heavy objects rather than sitting behind my desk or behind the wheel of my car as I drive across the diocese. In addition, we usually provide delicious caloric items for our staff and volunteers such as pizza, cookies, donuts and bottled water. Then participating staff and volunteers have something to eat during and after the drive.
While waiting between drop-offs, several needy men who appeared homeless walked up to chat. They were grateful and surprised to be offered delicious piping hot pizza and freshly baked cookies followed by a cold bottled water chaser. They were even more grateful to leave with bicycles. They were most grateful, I believe, to have been treated with kindness, love and respect.
In our fund-raising mailers, I frequently ask first for the prayers and penances of our benefactors which are most important. Then I ask for material goods, items around the home not needed (this would include vehicles) and then lastly for a cash donation (according to the means of the donor). All of these things are vital to the running of this 80-year-old agency.
If I may, permit me to re-iterate the importance of material donations to Catholic Social Services. To the homeless men mentioned above, those bikes are akin to a car in that they will be able to get around town even to new places of employment like never before. If only the persons who donated them knew how important their donations were. If only all of our donors knew how important material donations are to the lives of poor and needy individual and families.
Items donated to us are either given away directly like the bikes mentioned above, or sold at a reduced cost in one of our four thrift stores (St. Francis in Auburn, St. Joseph in Hastings, St. Isidore in Hastings, and St. Louise in Lincoln). The proceeds are then used to fund our many programs like emergency services (rent and utility assistance etc.) or grants for counseling for those who are un-insured or underinsured.
Just days ago, I met with a woman who is in desperate need of counseling. She, like many wounded souls, does not have the insurance or means to afford our psychological services. Because of cash donations to CSS and proceeds from the sales of items in our thrift stores, she like those with insurance and the financial means will be able to receive services from us with a charitable grant.
Please let me take this opportunity to thank our benefactors once again not only for praying for us, but in addition to your financial support according to your means your material support as well, items around your home or farm not needed. Please be assured of our prayers for you, your families and intentions!
Many people have thought and said through the years after the Ascension of Jesus Christ into Heaven, where He is seated at the right hand of the God the Father, "Oh how I wish I could encounter Jesus while I am here on this earth! Then I could touch and embrace Him!!"
Little do they know that there are several ways to encounter Jesus this side of eternity. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states, "Christ is always present in his Church, especially in her liturgical celebrations. He is present in the Sacrifice of the Mass not only in the person of his minister, ‘the same now offering, through the ministry of the priests, who formerly offered himself on the cross,’ but especially in the Eucharistic species. By his power he is present in the sacraments so that when anybody baptizes, it is really Christ himself who baptizes. He is present in his word since it is he himself who speaks when the holy scriptures are read in the Church. Lastly, he is present when the Church prays and sings, for he has promised, ‘when two or three are gathered together in my name there am I in the midst of them’ " (CCC 1088).
Several days ago I had several encounters with Jesus Christ. These included my holy hour and Mass. The sisters at St. Gianna and I received Jesus in His Sacred Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity in Holy Communion. We were able to touch and embrace the King of Kings. Later that same day after the office closed, after exiting the building and having crossed the street to my parked car, I noticed a man who looked to be in his 40s sitting on the sidewalk with his back resting against our building. It was obvious he was homeless. A few seconds later I found myself talking to him and confirmed that he was living on the streets.
It turns out he has left his wife and children in another state looking for work and is now homeless because of his alcoholism. This was readily apparent since I could easily smell the alcohol on his breath. Recently we have started a sandwich program because of people like him who live on the streets by our office. We figured since this program is such a success in Hastings, why not start one in Lincoln?
Since we had run out of sandwiches, I made a fresh one with the trimmings from what I could find in our food pantry, and threw in a half-liter of a power drink and some cereal bars. After a huge gulp of juice he started to cry and embraced me. As I hugged this man with dirt and dead grass on his clothes from sleeping on the ground, I was reminded that I was hugging Jesus Christ who IS present in the poor and needy. Did not Jesus say, "For I was hungry, and you gave me to eat; I was thirsty and you gave me to drink … Amen I say to you, as long as you did it to one of the least my least brethren, you did it to me" (Mt 25:35-40)?
Permit me to thank those who support Catholic Social Services so we can love Jesus present in the poor and needy and to ask if anyone is interested in helping us expand our sandwich / sack lunch program in Lincoln, please contact me. Together, we can have more encounters with Jesus Christ!
Recently, I received a phone call from a concerned grandmother about her granddaughter. She is having trouble keeping up. Because of the unexpected heat wave this year, her utility bill skyrocketed into orbit. I must admit, I cannot remember a summer so hot. Being a child of the fifties, I’ve been around a few years. Never in my life have we had a stretch of so many hot days. She said that although the family could pay part of the bill, they were unable to pay the whole amount.
Knowing how hard it is to do laundry and to cook meals without electricity, I was eager to help. Unfortunately, because of the lack of electricity, they lost all of their frozen and refrigerated food. I mentioned that we could also help re-stock their home pantry.
At our recent Bountiful Harvest banquet in Hastings, I reminded the faithful who were present that we are celebrating our 80th anniversary this year. It was in 1932 in the midst of the Great Depression that Bishop Kucera started Catholic Social Services. Ever since, we have been helping individuals and families all across southern Nebraska, like this single mother and her children, thanks only to the grace and blessings of God and our generous donors. Without the help of God and our benefactors, not only would we not be able to help those in need but the agency itself would not have lasted. Only through your prayers and the continued blessing from Almighty God will we be able to continue.
Recently, I received an e-mail from Sr. Bernadette at St. Gianna Women’s Homes. It said, "Dear Father, this is a special request, that you bring up our need for diapers at St. Gianna, (size 3, 4, & 5) in an upcoming Register article. We have exhausted our supply!" Since many of the women at St. Gianna’s come to us escaping domestic violence and abortion with only the clothes on their backs, they are in desperate need of most everything. Even though we subsidize their rent and utilities, they often times have trouble ‘keeping up’ with the ‘essentials.’ We are there for them even with these needs. How can I not mention this request from Sr. Bernadette in Seedlings?
I have been told, "Father, it is important to thank donors seven times!" Unfortunately, I know that I fall short in this. That said; let me take this opportunity to thank God Almighty for His abundant graces over the past 80 years and also to all of you, our faithful donors. Please be reminded that I and the rest of our staff pray for you daily in our offices. We start each day by thanking God and by praying for our donors, clients, staff and volunteers. Please also know we will continue this as we embark on our next 80 years and beyond. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us, all of our Patron saints along with all of the angels and saints, pray for us!
On the feast day of St. Januarius, one of the quotes of St. Augustine from the second reading of the Liturgy of Hours says, "The greater one’s love is, the easier is the work." After reading this I thought about my father who is now in a local nursing home in the Omaha area.
Haven’t we all visited people in nursing homes? When making a nursing home visit, how long do we feel like staying? Are we itching to leave after our initial greeting? When I visit my father I can stay for hours. Why? Because I love him, "The greater one’s love is, the easier is the work." I am never in a hurry to leave. When together, I often bring up our hunting and fishing trips. I am most grateful though for instilling in me a love for the Mass and the holy rosary. Many rosaries were said driving to and from our secret hunting spots and fishing holes. I believe that one of the last things he will lose as his dementia progresses is the prayers and mysteries of the rosary. His go-to mysteries now are the Glorious.
As I further meditated on this quotation from St. Augustine, I told our CSS staff in a homily that when we love Jesus present in our neighbor, then our work here at CSS becomes easy. This is important since not everyone who walks into our doors is in a good mood. This is understandable since many of those who come to us have been suffering the effects of poverty either acutely or chronically. ‘If we love Jesus Christ present in them, then our jobs will be easy…’
This was the cause of the arrest, torture and death of St. Januarius during the reign of Emperor Diocletian. Instead of staying in perpetual hiding for fear of arrest and execution, he felt compelled to visit his fellow members of the clergy and faithful laity of Benevento. It is said that after his arrest, he was thrown to wild beasts and was martyred. In a real sense, this was easy for him for, "The greater one’s love is, the easier is the work."
I then reflected on our countless donors who support us by their prayers, along with their material and cash donations. I was reminded once again that they help us because of their love of Jesus Christ and His presence in the poor and needy. There is no other reason for it. Not only is this personally edifying to me but a source of great hope.
My prayer is that all of us, through the frequent reception of the sacraments of the Eucharist and Penance augmented by a vigorous prayer life, will all grow closer to God the Father through His Son Jesus Christ in the Holy Spirit so we will continue to love each other which will become easier and easier for, "The greater one’s love is, the easier is the work."
Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us, Immaculate Heart of Mary pray for us, all of our patron saints, pray for us!
Early one morning, while entering the side door of our St. Joseph Center, I noticed a homeless man standing outside our main entrance. He had just asked a police officer where to go for help and was told, "Catholic Social Services!"
After seeing me enter the side door, he immediately followed and started knocking. After exchanging our ‘Good mornings,’ he relayed his story. He was cold and hungry. Luckily we had a few sandwiches left over from the previous day. Within minutes he was enjoying a turkey sub with a Power-ade chaser and a brownie for dessert.
He was on his way to Iowa via Omaha and needed some warm clothing. He was only wearing a skimpy windbreaker and to prove the point, he pulled it up and exclaimed, "See, I don’t even have a regular shirt or t-shirt! Do you have anything I can wear under this jacket?" As I left for the thrift store he said, "How about some gloves?" At that point the sandwich was almost completely consumed.
I soon returned with a t-shirt, sweatshirt, a heavier waterproof hooded jacket, wool hat, gloves, scarf and a Huskers backpack. He was pleasantly surprised, to say the least. He quickly changed into his new threads (luckily since it was before opening, there was no one in the lobby), packed his new belongings in his backpack and went on his way.
I was reminded once again how important material donations are in our mission of loving Jesus who lives in the poor and needy. Because of the donated food and clothing I was able to help him. There are many reasons why someone may be homeless but the common denominator is that they all need our love and assistance.
Since the weather is going to get colder, this is a great time to ask our benefactors across southern Nebraska to consider donating your unneeded sweatshirts, sweaters, thermal underwear, warm socks, scarfs, gloves, boots, hats, hooded jackets and winter coats… the very things we are tempted to take for granted. Now that the weather is changing, those in need are starting to come to us asking for these items. We need them across the entire diocese, for our charity knows no boundaries. We truly help needy individuals young and old and families throughout our diocese.
I am happy to announce that some of you have contacted me about helping expand our sandwich program here in Lincoln. Based on the successes in Hastings, we are confident that it will work in Lincoln. Before proceeding, we need several more volunteers for this sorely needed program. I would encourage anyone who might be reading this to pray if God is calling you to volunteer at Catholic Social Services. In addition to this new program, we have many other volunteer opportunities in Auburn, Hastings, Imperial, and Lincoln. Not only are our volunteers the backbone of our agency, without them, we would not be able to do many of the things we currently do.
Please know that every morning not only do we pray for our clients and benefactors, but our many dedicated volunteers as well. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate you all. Please know you have a special place in my heart and in my prayers!
Recently, while walking through our waiting room I overheard our receptionist inform a man who appeared to be approaching middle age that we had run out of sandwiches for the day. As he headed for the door, I stopped him saying, "Don’t worry, I will find you something to eat!" Sure enough, we had run out of sandwiches for the day. Within minutes I returned with some ready-made food to eat, along with something to drink.
As it often happens, he related his story. He was a college graduate and a recovering alcoholic. He explained he was feverishly applying for employment and has been sober for three months. He seemed intelligent and articulate. He informed me that he had several job interviews.
Our next stop was in the men’s section of St. Louise Gift & Thrift Store. After all, with the competitive nature of job interviews, it is important to be sharply dressed. He was given a beautiful gray suit, slacks, shirt and color-coordinated tie, along with a pair of black dress shoes. With tears in his eyes he asked if we could keep his new clothes at our office because he feared they would become soiled and wrinkled in his pup-tent. He related that, for him, staying at the local shelter in town would be temptation to drink.
How can one give a tent address on a job application? We then made arrangements for several weeks in a long-term hotel that we deal with so he can more easily apply for employment. He was so moved he exclaimed with moist eyes, "I am going to give my tent away to someone who needs it. I know just the guy!" I thought, ‘what if his job search was unsuccessful? He will be losing his ‘home!’" I marveled at his faith. I informed him that other homeless men have come to us and have received sport coats and suits for job applications which were key to the successful nature of their job interviews.
Our last stop was in our chapel where we both prayed to our Lord present in the Blessed Sacrament to help him in his quest to find employment. I begged our Lord to assist him in his search for employment. I kept thinking about him giving his tent away. "I need to catch up on my child support payments," he said. His last words were "Thank you!" I assured him of our continued prayers.
Please pray that not only will God help him find employment but an apartment. I reassured him that when he does find a new home, we can help him with not only with the first month’s rent and the security deposit, but also with the needed furniture, appliances and other items that help make a house or apartment a home. This assistance is sorely needed when someone transitions off the streets, for they are in no position to purchase the items listed above. Please keep this individual and our other countless clients in your prayers. Please know that we regularly and routinely pray for you because without the generous benefactors of southern Nebraska, we would not have been able to help them.
One of the perks of my position as executive director of Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska is traveling the 24,000 square miles that is the Diocese of Lincoln and thanking our many generous benefactors (without whom there would not be a CSS). During my travels, I emphasize and stress that we truly help individuals and families across the entire diocese, not just where our offices are located.
Beginning in January 2000, Catholic Social Services began providing counseling services in Auburn at the Fr. James Halligan Parish Center. Four years later, CSS opened St. Francis Gift & Thrift Store in a rented building owned by Frank and Marge Engles. Soon afterward, Frank and Marge donated the building to CSS. Then in March 2011, Orscheln Farm and Home Store donated two buildings which housed their store adjacent to our thrift store. In addition to a needed roof, the building was renovated and our new center was named after St. Francis.
On Thursday, Oct. 4, on the feast day of St. Francis, this new center was blessed and dedicated by Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz. In addition, the altar in the St. Francis Chapel was consecrated. I am happy to announce we now have tripled our square footage to 12,000 square feet which includes new retail floor space, increased warehouse and sorting space, a new food pantry, a sorely needed conference room, a counseling office and waiting room with a separate entrance, a social service office and waiting room with a separate entrance and most importantly, a chapel with the Blessed Sacrament named after our patron, St. Francis. We will now be able to increase even further the assistance in the southeast sector of the diocese. That said, let me re-iterate that the profits from the St. Francis Gift & Thrift Store are used to provide social and clinical services for the entire southeast region of the diocese, hence a project not just for Auburn but for the entire southeast.
Since coming to Auburn, CSS has provided nearly $85,000 of cash assistance in emergency services; almost $100,000 of charity grants for counseling services for those who for some reason were unable to afford the total cost of the services on their own; 195,000 pounds of food from our St. Andrew Mobile Food Pantry at a value of more than $480,000; and 3,000 pounds of food valued at nearly $5,000 from our brand-new food pantry. In short over the past 12 years, CSS has been blessed to have provided nearly $700,000 in total assistance to more than 8,000 individuals and nearly 3,000 families in southeastern Nebraska.
I would like to thank Almighty God for his grace and Saints Mary, Joseph, and Francis for their powerful intercession. In addition, I would also like to thank Marge and Frank Engles for their generosity (please keep the happy repose of Frank in your prayers), the owners of Orscheln Farm and Home Store, the staff and volunteers of the St. Francis Center for their hard work, and Terry Fulton and his staff for their efforts in getting the center ready for Bishop Bruskewitz to bless. Please let me thank also anyone else whom I may have failed to mention. Please know that all of you are in our special prayers!
Recently, after a meeting with our board members for St. Gianna’s, I noticed a young woman enter our main office building. At first glance I thought she was someone who wanted to apply for a volunteer position, but soon realized she was someone who was in desperate need. After beginning a conversation with her, I could sense her concern.
"I just found an apartment today and have nothing." After a few questions I learned she is a single mother who recently lost custody of her small child. She was looking for employment so as to pay rent. She seemed upbeat and determined to start over. She had found an understanding landlord who had decided to take a chance on her. She had heard that CSS was a place where she might find some help. She was hoping for some furniture for her small new apartment.
"Do you have a bed?" I asked. "I have nothing," she replied. Nothing like starting from scratch….
Walking by our chapel reminded her of her confirmation in one of the parishes in our diocese. I’ve been there a number of times, covering for their vacationing pastor. After entering our St. Joseph Chapel, it seemed she had not been in church for a while. We knelt down and asked God to help her start over. It was then that Curt Krueger entered the building. After a quick phone call, arrangements were made to deliver what she needed for her small new apartment from our warehouse. Curt told her to come back if she needed further assistance.
Several days after this encounter, I thought about writing about her in Seedlings so those who read this can pray she may find employment so she can concentrate on her long-term goals, faith and family. Please pray that the few seeds planted in her soul will lead her to the return of the Catholic faith. She left our St. Joseph Center with gratitude.
Allow me to express my thanksgiving to Almighty God and to our generous donors who support us not only with their financial support according to their means but for their material support as well. If it was not for material donations, we would not have been able to help her. She might very well be sleeping on the floor tonight.
Unfortunately stories like this are not out of the ordinary- they happen all across the diocese. That said; please consider donating items around the home or farm not needed to Catholic Social Services so we can continue helping individuals like this woman. Since cold weather is coming we will need warm clothing, coats, sweaters, gloves, mittens, scarves, hats, boots and other cold weather items. Items such as these can be taken to St. Francis Gift & Thrift in Auburn, St. Louise Gift & Thrift in Lincoln, St. Joseph Gift & Thrift in Hastings and St. Isidore Gift & Thrift in Imperial. If you are in need of a pick-up of larger items, please call us!
When one donates something to Catholic Social Services, they usually never see the faces of those who will be helped. Please be reminded that it is the face of Jesus Christ present in the poor that our benefactors are helping. Please also be reminded that not only are our clients in our prayers and Masses, so are all of our generous patrons for without you, Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska would not be celebrating their 80th birthday. Happy birthday, CSS!
Just several days ago, one of the better-known conservative radio talk show hosts who is a convert to the Catholic faith said she was going to pray on her knees before the Blessed Sacrament during the weekend prior to the elections. I was grateful that someone who is nationally known would mention the importance of praying in front of Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. Oh, how we need more people to do so.
In 1915, Pope Benedict XV in his Apostolic Constitution entitled Incruentum altaris sacrificium granted all priests the privilege of offering three Masses on All Souls Day- one for the souls in Purgatory, one for a particular intention and another for the intentions of the our Holy Father. As I offered one of these Masses during All Souls Day at our St. Joseph chapel I reflected that just a few years ago this place was a restaurant. Now, instead of people eating regular food, the children of God who are present here are able to eat the Bread of Angels, the food of immortality.
Just recently as many of you are aware, Bishop Fabian Bruskewitz blessed and consecrated the St. Francis Center and its St. Francis Chapel in Auburn. Now like our other chapels in Hastings (Our Mother of Perpetual Help Chapel in our St. John Vianney Center) and in Lincoln (St. Joseph Chapel in the St. Joseph Center), the faithful may not only attend Mass but adore our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament.
Before long there will be an additional place where the faithful may pray before our Eucharistic King- in the future Chapel of St. Isidore in the St. Isidore Center in Imperial, Nebraska. A lot of work needs to be done before this chapel and center will be ready to be opened some time in the spring of 2013. We already have a beautiful small altar that needs some renovation and a tabernacle that has been refurbished. We need your prayers to complete this very important project. This is one of the four elements of our recent Expanding the Works of Mercy Campaign and we are grateful to bring it to completion.
I cannot tell you how often I see people off the streets, many of whom are not Catholics stop in one of our chapels and comment on how much peace they experience while making a visit. This is one of the reasons I am grateful to Almighty God and to Bishop Bruskewitz for his permission to have a chapel in all of our permanent sites. First, having the Word Made Flesh among us helps us in our work in assisting the many needy individuals and families that come to us in crisis. In addition, it is an aid to those who ‘wander in’ off the streets because it is there that they find the peace that only Jesus can give. Please know that at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska we will keep all of you in our prayers, while we are praying in our chapels scattered across southern Nebraska.
Much ink has been spilled, messages and articles sent over the World Wide Web prior to the election regarding which issues were most important, namely the sanctity of innocent human life, marriage between a man and woman and the right of conscience in the public square. How about some post-election thoughts? The results of the election were stinging especially after the explicit attack on the Catholic Church.
One thing seems clear: the majority of Americans in some parts of the country lack true and proper love and respect for innocent human life. For those who are serious about knowing their scriptures, this should not be a surprise. What was the first recorded actual sin after the fall of our first parents in the garden? It was fratricide, the murder of Abel by his brother Cain – not lying, cheating, stealing, or a sin against purity, but the taking of an innocent human life. Presumably this was not the first actual sin after the fall but is the first recorded actual sin. It was this same gross lack of respect for innocent life that led to the murder of the Life itself and the Author of Life, Jesus Christ on the cross.
What now? What are true Christians to do, those who are Christians not just in name but in fact? How are we to respond? The answer is simple- prayer and penance for the conversion of sinners in a joyful manner. "Do all things without grumbling or questioning …. in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life" (Phil 2:14-15). When we practice our faith, which includes praying for the conversion of sinners in a joyful manner, two things happen. We become a light to others, and because of our prayers and penances, conversions are born. One of the holiest persons I know was involved in the sin of abortion. This individual’s sanctity is truly edifying to me personally. This person had a conversion because of the prayers and the penances of others.
In addition, when we cheerfully and joyfully offer up our sufferings it becomes apparent that though we are in the world, we are not of the world. We are members of a kingdom that does not belong to this world and Christ is our King who said before his death on the cross to Pilate, "My kingship is not of this world" (Jn 18:36). This is how we hold fast to the word of life (Phil 2:14-15).
I often ponder the reason individuals support Catholic Social Services. They do so for one reason, their love of God and neighbor. When one truly loves God, then respect and love of neighbor naturally follow, especially for the most vulnerable. Recently, I met with a group of 14 individuals who will be starting a sack lunch program in Lincoln with Blessed Mother Teresa as its patroness. At our first meeting, I told them I knew the only reason they were starting this new program was their love of Jesus and His presence in the hungry. I was most impressed by their enthusiasm, a needed post-election shot in the arm. Please keep this important new program in your prayers and be assured of ours for you! Blessed Mother Teresa, pray for us!
Sadly, greatness in today’s secular society is equated with earthly pursuits such as how many touchdowns scored, homeruns hit, discs sold and the like. Recently, I studied in greater detail the life of St. Gertrude the Great. What made her great?
Not much is known of her early life. She was born in the year 1256 in what is presently Germany. The names of her parents are not known. Perhaps this is why at age 5 she was sent to a monastery under the care of St. Mechtilde. In addition to her charming and friendly personality, she excelled in holiness and the practice of the Catholic faith. For these reasons she drew many individuals to the faith. This is what made her great.
As she grew older she responded affirmatively to the call of God and became a Benedictine nun. At the age of 26 she started receiving visions which continued throughout her life. As she grew closer to God, her attachment to transitory earthly things diminished greatly. She was one of the early promoters of the devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
Recently, I had a conversation with a highly intelligent, married woman with children about this very topic. As it often goes, her education in secular studies exceeds that of the faith (which ended after the eighth grade). She was floored when I stated that Jesus, in addition to having a human body, has a human soul. She always thought the Son of God just assumed a human body and not a human soul. I explained that in order to be like us in all things but sin, Jesus must also have a human soul. This means that the divine person of Jesus Christ, in addition to having a divine intellect and will from all eternity, has, after assuming a human nature at the Annunciation, a human intellect and will. We now may begin to understand devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Because of Gertrude’s many revelations from Jesus Christ, she grew in her love and devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus which was wounded by our sinfulness. Only in His human nature did Jesus suffer.
This love and devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus led her to a profound love of neighbor which resulted in her extraordinary love and kindness for sinners and the poor. She was known to beg for the poor.
Recently, a woman called about a relative of hers – a single mother with a small child with cancer. Fortunately there is insurance to help with the big bills, but because the father of the child has abandoned any meaningful support, she is in need. She is unable to work because of the necessity to stay home with her son who is in the midst of his cancer treatment. I am glad this young woman’s relative called. Her story tugged at our human heartstrings and we will step in to render assistance. How are we able to help her and her son and the countless others who call us or walk through our doors? Because our patrons have love and devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, which translates to their love of neighbor especially to those who are in need. Thank you for your love and support. Please know that you and your families remain in our prayers. Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us! Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us!
On my 40th birthday, after morning Mass at Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary in Emmitsburg, Md., Raymond Jansen (now Father Jansen who is pastor at Immaculate Conception parish in Ulysses, and teacher at St. Gregory the Great Seminary) followed me back to the dormitory. This was out of the ordinary because while I usually ate a light breakfast in my room before classes, he ate his at the college cafeteria.
After opening the door to my dormitory room, I no longer wondered why he followed me back to the dormitory. He wanted to see my facial expressions after opening the door to my room. I was grateful someone taped a pin on my door with the following instructions, "Happy 40th birthday! You might need this pin!" I cannot remember how long it took me to pop all of those black balloons that were knee high… for months I found shreds of black plastic in different places in the room.
Many experience surprises turning 30, 40, 50, 60 and beyond. Just days ago I experienced a pleasant surprise when Casie Otte turned 40. Instead of purchasing gifts for her birthday party, those invited were asked to bring items for Catholic Social Services. After the party, she and her son Maximilian brought almost 200 pounds of food, $70 in gift cards and some clothes to our office. What a pleasant surprise! It is this love of God and neighbor that allow us to help the many individuals and families that come to us each day in need.
As we begin the Advent Season in which we prepare ourselves for the coming of the baby Jesus into our hearts spiritually, we recall the Son of God’s first coming. In so doing, let us be reminded that this in turn will help us prepare ourselves for His second coming at the end of time when He comes with His angels in the clouds as the just Judge (Mt 25:31-46). In our secular society, it is easy to get inordinately attached to transitory things of the world which in the end will be taken away from us. A good Advent preparation for Christmas with more prayer, penance and works of charity helps us focus on the greatest gift God the Father ever gave us, the gift of Jesus Christ His only begotten Son. Jesus came to die so we who were dead in sin can live eternally. It is only through Him we gain access to the Father (Jn 14:6).
Please let me express my thanks to Casie, her husband Andy, and all those who attended her birthday party, and of course to Maximilian, who helped bring gifts to the office. Thanks also to all those who support us spiritually with your prayers, materially with items around your home or farm not needed including vehicles and financially with cash donations according to your means so we can help the many individuals and families that come to us daily in need. Please know that you will all remain in our special prayers this Advent season!
Recently, at the annual festival at North American Martyrs Parish in Lincoln, where some of the planet’s best spaghetti is served (so say the priests at N.A.M. because of the leftovers) the Bousquet family purchased raffle tickets. The names of the Bousquet daughters – Hannah, Emily, Claire and Grace – were written on the raffle tickets with only one condition: splitting the winnings if any of the girls won.
As fate would have it, 12-year-old Hannah’s name was called, winning the $1,000 cash prize. After a family conference, they decided to donate $150 to Catholic Social Services prior to the split.
I was pleased to see the entire family come to the office with the check. They toured the building, including visiting Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament in our St. Joseph Chapel.
During their visit, the waiting room was filled with individuals and families in need. I remember it to have been a busy day. Among those in the waiting room was a single young woman who was escaping a violent situation after finding out she was pregnant. She happened to be sleeping in her car. Fortunately she was referred to us. This generous donation was used to pay for an extended stay motel prior to her admission to St. Gianna’s. She is now at St. Gianna’s, safe and happy, away from her abuser. We will now focus on helping her through her pregnancy. This timely gift helped this young woman get off the streets, and into a safe home.
As we continue our Advent preparation for Christmas, let us remember that the Holy Family was unable to at first find a place for the Christ Child to be born. Thanks to Hannah, her family and our other generous donors, this young woman now has a safe place to live prior and after the birth of her baby.
I would like to thank Kevin and Christina Bousquet and their daughters for their generous gift from the raffle winnings. We are most grateful.
As Kevin, Christina and their daughters left CSS, I happened to see the look on the face of the young woman who was also leaving the parking lot at the same time. Her face radiated happiness and joy. She appreciates it as well.
Let me take this opportunity to thank all of our donors for there are many more countless stories of individuals and families that come to us across the diocese in need. Without your help, we would not be able to help any of them. Please know you will all remain in our special prayers!
On Thursday, Dec. 13, I traveled to West Point, Nebraska with Fathers Brian Connor and Matthew Eickhoff to the funeral of James Lux, the father of Father Thomas Lux (the pastor of All Saints Church in Holdrege).
We, along with almost 40 other priests of the Diocese of Lincoln and the archdiocese of Omaha, concelebrated the funeral Mass for Mr. Lux. It is always moving to see the great number of priests who attend funerals for parents of brother priests. We do our best to attend as many of these funerals as we can if we are in town and can reschedule meetings, classes and appointments. Moving also is the singing of the Salve Regina, or the Hail Holy Queen, prior to the procession out of church led by our bishop. Our Blessed Mother truly is our Mother of Mercy- our Life, our sweetness, and our hope. We who were banished children of Eve have been given through her Jesus Christ our Savior, who was born in utter poverty that first Christmas in a cave fit only for animals. It was she, the New Eve, who showed us the fruit of her womb Jesus who was wrapped in swaddling clothes and gently placed in a manger.
From the wood of the manger to the cross Jesus gave us His all including His mother. "When Jesus saw his mother, and the disciple whom he loved standing near, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son!’ Then he said to the disciple, ‘Behold, your mother!’ And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home" (Jn 19:26-27). As our Blessed Mother, she is concerned about our well-being. In a homily on the feast day of the nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary St. John Vianney said "The Blessed Mother is like a good mother who, not content with looking after all her children in general, watches over each one separately."
It was St. Augustine who said, "He who fears death does not love God, that is very true. If you had been long separated from your Father, would you not be happy to see him again?" With the intercession of the Blessed Virgin and by the grace of God the fear of death can be dispelled. By looking at the cross we can hear Jesus saying ‘By dying I have destroyed death and by rising I have restored life.’
While exchanging gifts this Christmas surrounded by our family, friends and loved ones, let us not lose sight of the greatest gift God the Father ever gave us, the gift of His only Begotten Son who died on the cross so we who were dead in sin could live eternally. Jesus has truly come to set us free. As we gaze upon nativity sets and crucifixes in our parishes and homes may the fear of death be banished from our hearts. In this most holy time of year, please know that we at Catholic Social Services will keep you, your family and intentions in our prayers. Have a merry and holy Christmas and Christmas season!
Knowing we’ve entered the cold and flu season, many of us have received our flu shot. At the last research council meeting at St. Elizabeth Hospital, Lori Richter was asked how she was doing when she entered the Bonacum room where this monthly meeting is held. She is a privacy officer at St. Elizabeth Regional Medical Center. "Not too good," she replied. She, her husband and one of her children were sick. When talking about her sick child I overheard her say in a compassionate tone, "I would rather be sick than my little ones!" Over the years I have heard many parents say the same thing. Many would rather suffer or even die rather than see one of their children do so. I can only imagine the Blessed Virgin Mary thinking the same thing watching her Son Jesus Christ suffer and die on the cross.
Being willing to suffer and die for a loved one or a good person is one thing, but what about for stranger or an enemy? "While we were yet helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. Why, one will hardly die for a righteous man – though perhaps for a good man one will dare even to die. But God shows his love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us … while we were enemies we were reconciled by God by the death of his Son, much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life" (Rom 5:7-10). These are the words we should meditate on whenever gazing upon a crucifix. Jesus chose to die so we who were dead in sin may live eternally.
After Lori’s words, I thought about St. Maximilian Kolbe dying for a complete stranger when he was in Auschwitz, Germany during WWII. It was there when after an escape of three inmates, the camp commander decided to execute ten men by starvation to deter any further escape attempts. Having not been chosen, St. Maximilian volunteered his life in the place of a married man with children. After several weeks of this cruel and inhumane treatment, in order to hasten his death he was given a lethal injection of deadly acid.
As we continue our Advent preparation for Christmas let us meditate on the greatest gift God the Father ever gave us, the gift of His only begotten Son who was born in utter poverty. He came to die in our place and to start a Church in which we find our salvation.
Please let me take this opportunity to thank once again our generous donors who help us spiritually with their prayers and penances, materially with items around their homes and farms not needed (including vehicles), and financially with cash donations according to their means so we can help individuals and families who come to us in crisis. Thank you for helping us decrease the suffering of fellow family members of the mystical body of Christ, done so because of selfless love in imitation of the examples outlined above.
The backbone of Catholic Social Services in many ways is our numerous volunteers. Without them, we would not be able to serve many of the individuals and families who come to us in crisis. They are indispensable in our mission of helping those in need.
That said, sometimes even our volunteers need help.
Recently, one of our regular volunteers lost his vehicle to an untimely accident, along with his dog. It couldn’t have happened at a more inconvenient time—right in the middle of the Christmas season. Unfortunately, he was not in a position to replace his vehicle.
Meanwhile, around the same time, one of our regular benefactors decided to donate one of his cars to CSS rather than to sell or trade it in. It was in great shape, only needing a new battery. When bringing it in, he also wrote us a check with the following instructions, ‘if you give it away, this will cover the cost of the new battery. If not you can use it as a regular donation.’ Within days the grateful man who was mentioned above tearfully picked up his ‘new’ car and happily drove away.
As many of you know, our St. Christopher Car Donation Program plays an important part in our overall mission of helping those in need. Donated vehicles are given away to a needy person or family, placed in our fleet or sold, and the proceeds used to fund our emergency services or counseling grants.
St. Augustine famously said that the most important virtue in our spiritual growth is humility. The second is humility and the third, you guessed it – humility. The Catechism of the Catholic Church defines humility as, "The virtue by which a Christian acknowledges that God is the author of all good. Humility avoids inordinate ambition or pride, and provides the foundation for turning to God in prayer."
In a letter from Blessed Mother Teresa to her sisters, brothers, fathers and lay missionaries dated June 1990 she said, "Humility always is the root of zeal for souls and charity. We see that in Jesus – on the cross and in the Eucharist. We see it in Mary who went in haste to serve as handmaid, not as Mother of God … It is very important for us … to be pure and humble … Because a pure heart can see God in the poor – a humble heart can love and serve Jesus in the poor."
The pure hearts of our supporters know that Jesus is present in the poor, and in their humility, they support us spiritually by their prayers, materially with items around their homes and farms, including vehicles not needed, and financially according to their means so that we can help the countless individuals and families that come to us in crises.
In this Year of Faith, let us be reminded of the ‘path to peace’ outlined by Blessed Mother Teresa: "The fruit of silence is prayer, the fruit of prayer is faith, the fruit of faith is love, the fruit of love is service, and the fruit of service is peace."
May all of you experience this peace born from the fruit of sacrificial love during this New Year and beyond. Please be assured of our continued prayers for you, your families and intentions!
There are numerous individuals and families who come to us needing help to avoid homelessness. For many of them, the help they receive is a one-time thing. There are others that lapse in and out of homelessness for one reason or another.
There is a young lady we’ve helped off and on for almost four years. I estimate her to be in her early thirties. She has been plagued with medical and psychological problems and avoids asking for help because of "shame." She is someone whom I have prayed for off and on. When things get bad, God seems to place her in my midst. It is providential that every time I see her, she is at rock bottom.
Once while driving, I saw her waiting at a bus stop, and after stopping was able to help her. At that time she was living in a small room off of a front porch of an acquaintance without any heat. She figured this was better than sleeping under a bridge. Among other necessary things we were able to help her with a space heater.
Last week, while getting out of my car for an appointment I saw her walking down the sidewalk just a few dozen feet away carrying milk. It seems that our eyes met at the same time after which we greeted each other. Before long I found out she is in a drug and alcohol treatment program which will not last forever. Soon, she will need help finding a job, an apartment and the furniture and items needed to make an apartment a home. She once again said she was reluctant to call me because of her shame. I reassured her. We met 45 minutes later at a store nearby where we bought her a cell phone with some pre-paid minutes and some essential toiletry items. She was beyond grateful after I gave her a gift card to a local market/store. She had been praying she would somehow obtain help getting a phone in order to assist her in her efforts in finding employment. Now that I have her address at the treatment facility, we can help her further in her search for employment and in finding an apartment. We can then help her with furniture and items for her kitchen. I re-iterated that she should never avoid us because she feels ashamed about anything.
I am grateful to Almighty God that through His providence I was able to run into her in order to help once again. I am confident that with a little assistance she will someday be able to live independently. I am also grateful to our many benefactors because without them we would not be able to help the many people that come to us in need.
In addition to helping us spiritually with prayers, materially with items around the house and farm not needed including vehicles, financially with cash donations, we also ask for prayers for our clients like the lady mentioned above. She happens to be a non-practicing Catholic and has expressed interest in coming back. This is of course something we can help her with. Please pray for this woman who told me before I blessed her that she wants to grow closer to God. Finally, please be assured of our continued prayers for you.
It is hard to believe sometimes that Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska is in its 81st year of existence.
As many of you know, CSS was started in the middle of the Great Depression by Bishop Kucera. I can only imagine how difficult it would have been to ask for donations in the midst of such an economic downturn. Back then, those who were able helped those who were unable to make ends meet.
This is reminiscent of the words of St. Paul to the Corinthians when he said, "I do not mean that others should be eased and you burdened, but that as a matter of equality your abundance at the present time should supply their want, so that their abundance may supply your want" (2 Cor 8:13-14). Not only has this been going on for more than 80 years in the Diocese of Lincoln, but since the time of Christ by Christians committed to the gospel.
Through the course of a year, there are many events that are sponsored by CSS. During each we have a chance to report to our faithful benefactors what we have been accomplishing due to the grace of God and their generosity. On Sunday, Feb. 10, CSS will be holding our ninth annual Trumpet Fest at 3 p.m. in the auditorium at St. Pius X High School (located at 60th and A streets in Lincoln), presented by Kevin Murray and Murray’s for Men of Stature. In the midst of stellar entertainment by incredible and talented trumpeters we will be passing the hat for free-will donations.
I am excited to announce that this year our musicians include Mac McCune, Kevin Murray, Darryl White, Barb Schmit, Dean Haist, Brad Obbink, Debbie Bouffard, Maria Pytlik (a talented a fifth-grader), and more. Each year I am amazed at the beautiful music of our performers who donate their time and talent as a personal donation because they love Jesus Christ who lives in the poor and needy, something faithful Christians have been doing since apostolic times. I would like to thank each and every one of them in advance for participating in this annual event. Because of their efforts, we will be able to help more needy individuals and families that come to us in crisis.
I would also like to thank all of our patrons who have attended our past Trumpet Fests and encourage those who have not attended to do so. You too will be amazed as these talented musicians entertain us. Please know that we at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska will keep all of you in our daily prayers. St. Cecilia, the patron saint of musicians, pray for us!
I am excited to announce that our 26th annual Celebration of Caring Banquet is scheduled on Sunday, Feb. 24 at the Cornhusker Hotel in Lincoln. The social hour begins at 4:30 p.m., with the dinner program starting at 6 p.m. We have a lot to celebrate because of the grace of God and the love and generosity of the faithful of southern Nebraska and beyond.
We will be eternally grateful to Bishop Louis Kucera who started CSS in the midst of the Great Depression. I cannot imagine how difficult it must have been to start a Catholic Social Service organization in the midst of such a severe economic downturn. Now 81 years later, CSS still is helping needy individuals and families regardless of race, religion and ethnicity as outlined in the 25th chapter of Matthew, verses 31 to 46.
Much has changed over the decades. The biggest news to report is how much we have grown and expanded over the last several years. In addition to having four permanent, fixed sites – St. Francis Center in Auburn, St. Joseph Center in Lincoln, St. John Vianney Center in Hastings, and the St. Isidore Center in Imperial, CSS has expanded its mobile food pantries to 19 communities across southern Nebraska: Falls City, Tecumseh, Pawnee City, Ashland, Seward, Crete, Wahoo, David City, Shelby, Fairbury, Hebron, Geneva, Harvard, Clay Center, Sutton, Superior, Minden, Orleans, and Imperial.
In addition to our Immaculate Heart of Mary Counseling Center, CSS now has expanded its counseling services which incorporate the Catholic faith to 13 satellite office sites: Falls City, Auburn, Nebraska City, Beatrice, Plattsmouth, Our Lady of Guadalupe Center, Newman Center, Wahoo, David City, York, Hastings, Holdrege and McCook.
Now our highly-trained mental health professionals are able to provide over a greater area than ever before, counseling to individuals and families young and old for most psychological difficulties including anxiety, depression, marital difficulties, behavioral problems, addiction, eating disorders, parenting, bipolar, personality disorders, and post-abortion counseling.
In addition, we answer the Project Rachel/post-abortion counseling hotline for the entire state of Nebraska. Not only do we accept most insurance plans and Medicare, we also have a grant system that supplements payments for individuals who are un-insured or under-insured, thanks to the generous support of the people of southern Nebraska.
This year, for the first time, CSS will have a small number of silent auction items, along with one live auction item - a dinner for four couples with our new bishop, Bishop James Conley, prepared by a gourmet chef.
Lastly, I am elated to announce that John and Stella Sinclair will be receiving the CSS 2013 Cor Christi award for what they have done and how they have served the mystical body of Christ over many years. Their story is inspiring.
I hope many of you are able to join us at the Cornhusker Hotel Sunday, Feb. 24 as we thank Almighty God for what He has done through us and those who have gone before us marked with the sign of faith over the 81 years of our existence. Please pray for us and be assured of our prayers for you, your families and intentions.
Recently, before a 6:40 a.m. Mass at North American Martyrs Church in Lincoln, Father Harlan Waskowiak walked into the sacristy to concelebrate the Mass. Upon seeing the almost-7-foot-tall ‘high priest’ walk through the door, I am sure the altar boys thought old 6’ 4" Father Kubat was short!
I then asked the boys what the word ‘catholic’ meant. They responded with blank stares, most likely because of the early hour, coupled with the shock of seeing such a looming figure stroll through the door.
I then said, "The word ‘catholic’ means ‘universal’ or ‘for everyone’ including tall (pointing to Father Waskowiak) and short (pointing to me), big and small, etc." It is just a hunch, but I bet the altar boys will never forget what the word ‘catholic’ means.
Because God became man to save us all, we are called to love our neighbors as ourselves regardless of who they are, including our enemies (Mt 5:43-44; 19:19). This universal call to love our neighbors as ourselves is the reason we help individuals and families that come to us in need regardless of race, ethnicity, religion or how tall they are.
This catholic concept of universality extends to our faithful donors. I often say that the amount of the gift is not as important as the love that accompanies it.
Right before typing these words, I received a beautiful, signed, handwritten letter from one of our benefactors that said, "Dear Father, Please accept the enclosed $5 for your wonderful work in helping the poor. It is truly the ‘widow’s mite’ in the amount, but it is sent with a lot of love. I am now 82 years old, and had a cancerous cyst removed. Please keep me in your prayers Father."
What a moving letter. Moments after reading it, I talked to a man on the phone I know fairly well who called, begging for help. It is only because of love like this that we are able to help the many individuals who come to us in need.
I am truly grateful to Almighty God and to our countless donors who help CSS spiritually with their prayers and penances, materially with items around the home and farm not needed, including vehicles, and financially, with a cash donation according to their means including the widows’ mites that come in with love (Lk 21:1-4).
Please pray for the woman who wrote the letter mentioned above and please remember that all of you, your families and intentions are in our prayers!
Recently at a funeral luncheon of Mary Lois Kubat, while sitting at a table with my mother and re-connecting with cousins, I received a tap on my left shoulder. After turning, I saw an older woman named Mary Clare Mendick who asked, "Do you remember your third grade teacher?" With a funny feeling inside I said, "No…" She replied, "I was your third grade teacher!" I remember hoping she wouldn’t tell my mother what kind of boy I was in class. Let bygones be bygones, I figured. I asked, "Wasn’t I a good boy?" She answered, "Yes, but I never thought that you would be a priest!"
Having successfully dodged the bullet, I invited her to dine at our table. Over the next few minutes she began talking about her 13 children and the sorrow of losing two more, one at 5 months. She said, "Many people tell me I shouldn’t feel bad having lost two children since I have 13 others!" She always rejected that logic, saying all babies are created in the image and likeness of God and are precious in His sight. "Oh, how I miss them!"
Yes, every human life is precious and created in the image and likeness of God. Ironically, at the very time she was speaking, I received the call I was hoping and praying for. The previous evening I talked to a woman who discovered that a fellow co-worker was scheduled to have an abortion in the morning. Her mother suggested calling me.
I told her friend that Catholic Social Services would help her find a safe place to live, a doctor, literally everything needed to save her baby, for this child was created in the image and likeness of God and is precious in His eyes. I immediately started a prayer chain asking for prayers and penance. I later discovered a 5-year-old girl gave up her snacks for the day while telling mommy, "Tell that woman I’ll take the baby!"
Sadly, I learned that when her father discovered the woman was pregnant, he reacted with anger, calling her names that cannot be repeated. She was given a choice: an abortion or eviction. Not having the means to pay for an apartment, she scheduled the abortion. Sadder still, an aunt agreed to give her a ride.
The very next morning while in chapel, I received a text message from her friend informing me she went to the abortion mill but while on the table, changed her mind. Thank God for our prayer warriors, supporters, and for St. Gianna’s Women’s Homes!
While meeting with Curt Krueger, the woman asked him, "Where is Father Kubat? I want to show him the pictures (ultrasound pictures) of my little baby!" At St. Gianna’s she will be given the love and support that was lacking in her life.
Finally, remember to always be on your best behavior because you never know when you might run into your third grade teacher!
If you refuse to believe we are born with the stain of Original Sin, put one toy firetruck in a room with two 4-year-old boys and see what happens.
That said, even though our souls are infused with Divine Life, or Sanctifying Grace, or Love, at Baptism and even more so with Confirmation, our cooperation is required to grow in the love of God and neighbor. Since we receive infusions of Sanctifying Grace with the reception of all the sacraments, receiving Holy Communion and the Sacrament of Penance on a frequent basis is a tremendous aid in growing in the virtue of charity. Another way to say it is that aided with God’s grace, we need to learn how to love.
Recently, a husband and wife with six small children noticed their 5-year-old son Daniel (who has a severe peanut allergy) scratching at the grocery store. After noticing, dad asked, "Daniel, did you just eat something?" "Yes dad, I ate something I found on the floor!" It became readily apparent it must have been some candy containing peanuts.
After being strapped in his car seat, he promptly vomited. His siblings immediately complained about the odor. Soon Daniel cried out in a dramatic way, "I’m going to die, I’m going to die!!"
His little sister Madeline then exclaimed to mom, dad and everyone else in the van in an equally dramatic fashion, "He’s going to die!" After this his 7-year-old sister Molly said, "That’s what you get when you eat something off the floor!"
Yes, charity is something that we all must learn with God’s grace. After an ER visit, he quickly recovered and is doing fine.
Recently, some older gradeschool children at St. Teresa in Lincoln conducted a coin drive and donated $212.17 to Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska. This was done because of their love of God and neighbor. On Ash Wednesday, Elise Kreikemeier and Madison Stockman came to CSS with their teacher Emily Hoeller with the check. After a brief tour, we posed for a photo in our lobby in front of the picture of the Holy Family and entrance to our St. Joseph Chapel. I told them both how much this helps assisting us in aiding individuals and families that come to us in need.
As we continue our Lenten journey, let us cooperate more fully in the graces that God has given us so we can return that love back to Him by loving our neighbors as ourselves.
Finally, thank you to Msgr. Nemec, the staff and students at St. Teresa’s for this tremendous gift!
Recently, a friend of mine in Milwaukee attended a parish mission and was told about a plumber named John who decided to book a flight to Calcutta, India to meet and work with Mother Teresa. Without having made any arrangements with the sisters, he left for India for a three-week stay.
After arriving at the motherhouse, he was greeted by one of the nuns who asked him what he wanted. "I’m here to meet and work with Mother Teresa!" he replied. "Mother Teresa is out of the country for six weeks!" she responded. She further explained it is necessary to call ahead to make arrangements to stay and work with the sisters.
Seeing the profound disappointment in his eyes, he was allowed to stay and immediately started putting his plumbing skills to work. Two weeks later, he heard a knock on the door of his bedroom. It was Mother Teresa. "Would you like to work with me today?" "Yes," he replied. He barely had time to put on his shoes as she said, "Follow me."
After walking awhile, he witnessed Mother Teresa kneeling under a bridge in the mud alongside a polluted waterway, in front of a dying man whose body was covered with infected foul-smelling ulcers and open wounds. After lifting the man’s head with her two hands she said, "Now pick him up, we’re taking him home." Not wanting to touch him, he pulled his sleeves over his hands as he picked up the emaciated man who was knocking on death’s door.
Once home she said, "Bathe him." Despite being even more repulsed, he bathed the dying man, but could no longer avoid touching him. Because of the man’s profound weakness, John had to cradle him in his arms to prevent him from sinking under the water. It was then, in a flash, that he saw the face of Jesus Christ. At that moment, Mother Teresa entered the room and asked, "You saw Him, didn’t you?" "Yes," he replied. "That happens a lot around here," She said. John now freely admits it was this experience that has forever changed his life. Did not Jesus Christ say, "As you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me" (Mt 25:40)?
As you know, one does not need to fly to Calcutta to see Jesus in the poor and needy. Jesus lives in the poor and needy all over the world, including here in the Diocese of Lincoln.
Last Sunday evening at our annual Celebration of Caring Banquet, I was able to relate stories of the individuals and families we have touched. Because of the love of our donors for Jesus Christ, last year we were able to help nearly 30,000 individuals who were in need across the 24,000 square miles of our diocese. We are most grateful, as is Jesus who has told us explicitly that He lives in a special way in those in need. Those who personally get involved in one way or another like John in the story above are the ones whose lives change forever. This happens a lot around here, among our staff, volunteers and donors.
Please remember that we at Catholic Social Services of Southern Nebraska will keep you and your family members in our prayers, for Jesus lives in all of you in a special way as well.
Many of us are aware of the conversion of a young man named Giovanni Moriconi, today known as St. Francis of Assisi. During the process of his conversion from living the life of excess, God instructed him to change his likes and dislikes.
Once while traveling on his horse he noted a leper in the road. Lepers at the time of St. Francis were known to approach travelers at a distance for the purposes of obtaining alms. Until this occurrence, the very thought of leprosy was repulsive to young Giovanni. Since God instructed him to love what was formerly repugnant, he leaped off his horse and after the poor diseased man opened his hand, presumably to receive a few coins, young Francis planted a kiss on the palm of his disfigured hand. After mounting his horse and looking around, he saw no one, knowing immediately it was an angel or Christ Himself. Did not Jesus say, "Truly I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me" (Mt 25:40)? In addition, let us not forget the famous passage from the thirteenth chapter of Hebrews, "Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares" (Heb 13:2).
It is truly amazing what the grace of God accomplishes in those who are cooperative. On Feb. 24, Catholic Social Services celebrated its 26th annual Celebration of Caring Banquet during which we awarded the Cor Christi (heart of Christ) award to John and Stella Sinclair (pictured). Kevin Clark did a marvelous job outlining their volunteer work through the years, including what they have done for Catholic Social Services and the Legion of Mary. Hopefully, this will be a catalyst for others to donate some of their time in the imitation of St. Francis.
The big news of the evening was the discussion of the magnitude of the expansion of the agency over the last several years. Our St. Andrew Mobile Food Pantry now visits 19 communities (soon to be 20) across southern Nebraska: Falls City, Tecumseh, Pawnee City, Ashland, Seward, Crete, Wahoo, David City, Shelby, Fairbury, Hebron, Geneva, Harvard, Clay Center, Sutton, Superior, Minden, Orleans, and Imperial. The 20th will be in Peru, Nebraska. In addition, The Immaculate Heart of Mary Counseling Center now has 13 satellite clinical office sites scattered across southern Nebraska: Falls City, Auburn, Nebraska City, Beatrice, Plattsmouth, Our Lady of Guadalupe Center, Newman Center, Wahoo, David City, York, Hastings, Holdrege and McCook. This is an amazing increase of four sites in just one year.
As we continue our Lenten journey toward Easter, let us cooperate with the amazing grace God offers us through the seven jewels of the Church called Sacraments and utilizing the sacramentals so we too will love Jesus who lives in our neighbor, especially the poor and needy.
I often recall the words of the great St. Ambrose, spoken to a tearful St. Monica so many years ago concerning her wayward son St. Augustine, "God does not ignore the tears of a mother."
Recently, as I was passing through the reception area of one of our offices, a woman with a worried look on her face greeted me. She asked only for prayers for her son who was suffering the effects of an automobile accident.
I immediately invited her into our St. Joseph Chapel and knelt down to pray for her and her son. It quickly became apparent she was Catholic, as she knew the Our Father and the Hail Mary, after making the sign of the cross. After some further prayers of intercession by yours truly, she kept on praying with noticeable fervor and intensity with her eyes tightly closed.
After this she shared how hard it was getting by since her husband was sent to prison. In between jobs, she has fallen behind in her rent. She was in desperate straits. Because of our generous donors, we were able to help her with rent, and gave her some gift cards to a local store and gas station.
Before leaving the office, she thanked God and us. I write this story not only to relay her gratitude but also to ask for your prayers because what she really needs is a job. I am confident that with our prayers, she will find something and find it soon. Oh, the power of prayer! Just ask St. Monica!
Just minutes before visiting with the woman mentioned above, I had an extensive discussion with one of our volunteers about prayer. She stated that the most intimate thing husbands and wives can do is to pray together. Once on a Marriage Encounter weekend, she recalled a woman who shared her story about wanting to initiate prayer between herself and her husband. While in bed she said, "Honey, lets pray together!" "OK," he replied. After a long period of silence, she asked him why he was so quiet. "Because, I’m praying like you said!" He replied.
Since the two conversations were so close together, I could only imagine if this other couple would have spent time each day in prayer, she most likely would not have been in our office. But, as the saying goes, it is never too late.
As we continue our Lenten journey toward the Easter Triduum, perhaps we can meditate on the seven last ‘words’ of Jesus Christ as He hung on the cross for our salvation. They are:
"Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do" (Lk 23:34),
"Lord, remember me, when thou shalt come into thy kingdom" (Lk 23:42),
"Woman, behold thy son … Behold thy mother" (Jn 19:26-27),
"My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me" (Mt 27:46),
"I thirst" (Jn 19:28),
"It is consummated" (Jn 19:30), and
"Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit" (Lk 23:46).
Thank you all for helping us at Catholic Social Services love Jesus present in those in need. Please be assured of our continued prayers for all of you, your families and intentions.
I am most grateful to my mother and father who insisted my siblings and I attend Holy Thursday Mass, the Celebration of the Lord’s Passion on Good Friday, and the Easter Vigil Mass, no matter what, admittance to the ICU excepting.
I’ll always remember one of my sisters complaining to Mom, saying, "Janie’s mother is letting her go out tonight with her friends!" My mother responded, "I’m not Janie’s mother!" I will be forever thankful, for they instilled in us from our earliest years how important it was and always will be to celebrate these sacred mysteries at this most holy time of year.
Frequently during Holy Week, I am asked to talk about what Jesus Christ experienced in His passion from a medical standpoint, starting from his agony in the garden to His death on the cross. Jesus Christ truly sweat blood in the Garden of Gethsemane prior to His arrest. This has been medically described. Because of extreme stress, tiny capillaries that surround sweat glands may burst after the release of chemicals called catecholamines, after which blood pours into the sweat glands and out onto the surface of the skin which becomes tender and painful to the touch. This increased even further the pain of the scourging.
The instrument used during the scourging at the pillar was a wooden stick with leather straps with attached sharp metal objects and animal bones designed to rip shreds of tissue away from the body. It is known that Jesus was scourged more severely than usual. Because of the excessive loss of blood, he lived only three hours on the cross (‘normal’ crucifixion victims were known to sometimes live up to three days on the cross). He was so mangled he was unrecognizable, "His appearance was so marred, beyond human semblance" (Is 52:14).
It was in this weakened state he carried, most likely, the horizontal portion of the cross, which could have weighed upward of 125 lbs. No wonder He fell three times under this weight.
Once at Golgotha, ‘the place of the skull,’ His torn back was thrown onto the rough bark of the cross. He was then nailed to the cross, the nails passing through the wrist bones, median nerves, ankle bones and through branches of the peroneal and planter nerves, causing lightning bolts of pain. His cause of death was asphyxiation and blood loss.
Oh what agony Jesus went through speaking his last seven words to us! Meditating on this during Holy Thursday and Good Friday helps us scratch the surface concerning the love God has for us.
Then came His glorious resurrection from the dead, never to die again. Since we are members of His mystical body, we are to share in this victory and glory. What will glorified bodies look like? They will be brilliant and resplendent as the celestial bodies in the sky (Mt 13:43; Dan 12:3)!
Let us never forget that every time we are at Mass, these same events that cannot be repeated, that happened once, are miraculously made present. That is why the Mass is called the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, where the Lord’s passion, death and resurrection are made present on the altar. My prayer is that you, your family and intentions will remain in our prayers this Easter, and Easter season. Happy Easter!
On Monday of Holy Week, the priests of the diocese of Lincoln gathered at the Cathedral of the Risen Christ for an afternoon of recollection with Bishop Conley and Bishop Emeritus Bruskewitz. Our speaker was Father Andrew Apostoli, who challenged us to follow the example of our new Holy Father, Pope Francis. After his inspiring words, Bishop Conley offered the Chrism Mass when we priests recommit ourselves to the sacred promises we made on the day of our ordinations.
Father Apostoli reminded us our new pontiff is committed, like St. Francis of Assisi, in remembering the poor and in the renewal of the Church. In one of his talks, Father Apostoli stated that before Blessed Pope John Paul II was elected pope, he said we are now in the midst of the most severe persecution of the Church since its founding 2,000 years ago, and most Catholics are unaware of it.
This is an astonishing statement, for there have been many severe periods of persecution in the Church since it was founded on the rock of Peter. However, now in many places in the world Christians are being actively persecuted and martyred. Now in the western world, we are losing our rights of conscience in the public square.
Soon, because of efforts in legalizing "same-sex marriage" and making sexual orientation and gender identity a protected class like race, coupled with the HHS mandate which forces us to pay for insurance plans covering contraception, abortion and sterilization, discriminating justly in certain circumstances and refusing to pay for immoral things will be illegal and punishable by the revocation of medical and mental health licenses, fines and imprisonment. Many Catholics will be forced out of many jobs and professions. Listing them is beyond the scope of this article.
Many Catholics, unfortunately, do not understand the difference between just and unjust discrimination. To clear up any confusion, when it comes to sexual orientation, the Catholic Church teaches that it is wrong to unjustly discriminate against anyone, period. For example, it would be immoral for a doctor to refuse treating a gay man for his coronary artery disease, hypertension, diabetes etc. or to refuse to make a referral to another doctor if they are unable to provide the said service. However, if that same man asked for a prescription for Viagra, the physician must justly discriminate by refusing to write the prescription or to make a direct referral to another physician who would be willing to write it. The same goes for a mental health professional who must treat a client for their mental health needs or to refer them to another professional if they are unable to provide it, but not for "marriage counseling" between two persons of the same sex.
It is especially stinging that many of our foes are fellow Catholics. Try to find a Catholic OB-GYN who does not prescribe contraception, perform sterilizations or in-vitro fertilization, or a Catholic FP who does not prescribe contraception, or a Catholic urologist who does not perform vasectomies, or a Catholic pharmacist who does not dispense contraceptive agents. It’s almost as hard finding teeth in chicken. Many lay people are equally complicit. It should be no surprise then that some of our most vehement enemies in our fight to maintain the right of conscience in the public square are fellow Catholics. I am proud and thankful to those professionals listed above who are faithful to the Church.
Father Apostoli challenged us all by what I call ‘pulling a Blessed Mother Teresa’ by making a pledge to Jesus to ‘refuse Him nothing.’ Only then he said we will begin to see many of our prayers answered. Please make that pledge of never refusing Jesus anything and then pray for our Church, the world and our country. Are you in?
Several weeks ago, I, along with Father Rayer and Father Waskowiak, visited Pilsen, Kan., the home town of Father Emil Kapaun (who recently was awarded, post-mortem, the Medal of Honor for his selfless actions and bravery in the Korean War). It was through his actions that many soldiers were saved from death and a large number of souls saved prior to their deaths by the reception of the sacraments on the battlefield and in the prisoner of war camp in which he died.
Thanks to our classmate Father Daren May, the pastor of St. John Nepomucene Church in Pilsen, we were able to offer the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass on the same altar that Father Kapaun did when he was pastor prior to the Korean War.
He was known to brave machine gun fire while dragging wounded men to safety and administering absolution and the anointing of the sick to dying soldiers. Once while on a ‘death march’ to an infamous Chinese prisoner of war camp in which those who could not walk were shot, he pushed a Chinese soldier aside as the man prepared to shoot Sergeant Herb Miller. He was unable to walk because of a shattered ankle. Herb remembered seeing an American officer calmly shove the Chinese soldier aside as he picked him up. Even though the Chinese rifleman aimed his gun point-blank at the Catholic chaplain, he did not shoot as he stared at the tall, skinny Father Kapaun.
At the prisoner of war camp, Father Kapaun’s selfless actions continued. Despite not having enough rations to live adequately on, he risked his life sneaking out after dark to round up food from the Chinese in order to feed his fellow companions. He was a beacon of hope as he sang, prayed and administered the sacraments with them.
Because of the positive effect he had on his fellow prisoners, his Chinese captors were determined to kill him. They did so by transferring him to the "hospital," a foul-smelling place where prisoners were taken to die. When the Chinese captors decided to take Father Kapaun there, he was already in a weakened state. As the guards prepared to take him away, his fellow mates tried to prevent them but Father Kapaun asked that they instead carry him to the "place that he always wanted to go." It was there that he died of starvation.
Recently, through his intercession, Chase Kear awoke from a coma after suffering irreversible brain injury after a pole vault accident. I myself, in a video, saw the CT scan of the injury and the testimony of his neurosurgeon, saying that his cure was "impossible." This will be the miracle most likely used for his beatification.
By reflecting on the life of Father Emil Kapaun, Servant of God, may it inspire in us more selfless love of neighbor which is evidence that we love God (1 Jn 4:1-21).
There are a number of things that cause financial stress among families; a job loss, an accident or illness to name a few. Recently, a family in a rural area somewhere south of the Platte River, east of the Colorado border, west of the Iowa and Missouri borders and north of the Kansas border contacted us for help. One of the family members recently was diagnosed with cancer which started a round of treatments and check-ups to a clinic quite a distance from their home. This caused considerable stress from a budgetary standpoint causing them to ask for help.
Because of our generous donors we were able to help. We provided gas vouchers, gift cards to a local store for needed items, other gift cards which can be used for groceries and others to a restaurant – all which will free up funds from which can be used to pay for other needed items.
One of our favorite programs is our St. Christopher Car Donation Program. Unfortunately, the number of requests exceeds the number of cars donated. Like other agencies that accept vehicles, some are sold and the profits used to pay for rent, utilities, grants for counseling etc, others are put into our fleet, but still others are given to needy individuals and families. In this case, the father of the family became quite concerned because of the condition of their car and its high mileage, for the last thing they need is a breakdown while traveling to the doctor’s office. Just two days before typing these words, someone donated a beautiful, four-door sedan that we will be giving to them.
Needless to say, they are quite grateful for the help and car. Before hanging up I asked and was given permission to write about this in Seedlings. I am happy they agreed, for it inspires others to be generous so we can continue helping families like theirs.
Not only are they grateful to us, we are grateful to our donors who make what we do possible. Please spread the word that we are in need of prayers, items from homes and farms not needed, including cars and trucks, and cash donations so we can assist people and families that come to us in crisis. Please know that we will keep you, your families and intentions in our daily prayers.
It’s finally time for our CSS Spring Furniture and Appliance Drive! It will be held Friday, May 31 from 4 to 7 p.m. and Saturday, June 1 from 8 a.m. till noon.
You can bring your items during these times to our St. Francis Center in Auburn (1014 Central Ave.), our St. John Vianney Center in Hastings (325 W. 2nd St.) or our St. Joseph Center in Lincoln (23rd and O streets) during these times. In Imperial, at our St. Isidore Thrift Store, you can bring your items from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Friday, May 31 and Saturday, June 1 from 8 a.m. till noon. We are still located at the old store next to the new parish hall.
You can also call for a pick-up in Auburn at 402-274-4818, in Hastings at 402-463-2112, in Imperial at 308-883-3005, and in Lincoln at 402-474-1600.
Your donated material items are crucial in helping us in our mission of helping poor individuals and families all across the Diocese of Lincoln. Items donated are either given to a needy individual or family, or sold in one of our four thrift stores, and the funds used to help someone with emergency services or a grant for counseling.
Just recently, we relocated a woman and her children from one location in our diocese to another, after having been threatened by an abusive husband. Thankfully, our diocese is large geographically. We had the ability to help furnish her new home only because of the generosity of our donors.
Items needed include working major appliances; bedroom, living room and kitchen furniture; lamps, and small appliances. In short, anything that makes a house or apartment a home.
In addition to this, we have a special request. We are in need of diapers. I was informed that we have plenty of sizes newborn, 1 and 2. We are in great need of sizes 3, 4, 5, and 6.
Thanks to all who donate material items to CSS! Thanks in advance for all those who will be helping and donating to this year’s CSS Spring Furniture and Appliance Drive! Please know that we at CSS will keep you, your family and intentions in our prayers! Saints Joseph, Francis, Isidore and John Vianney, pray for us!
